Some black guy called me a stupid nigger today

[Raptorex]

Lol on Tony get the Newark treatment

 

[Bikini Mod]

I think you may have missed my point.

However, people are free to say whatever they wish. You are deciding how to react to what they say.

I am not ignoring anything. I am choosing to react differently than you are. Using a word is not inflammatory nor is it hated filled rhetoric.

You cannot define hatred with the use of a single word. If that is the case as you see it, then blacks are filled with a lot of self-hatred.

Controlling speech is not addressing the real issue, it only serves as a distraction.

Your reaction to the word is a learned response. A small black child doesn't know nigger is good or bad until someone tells them it is bad.

My point is to stop reacting to the word and it has no power.

We can agree to disagree.

That small black child wasn't born know that the n word is any more offensive then if she were a female child being called the c word. My point is that we should all call a spade a spade... It ain't a blowtorch or an apple or pantyhose... it is a suit in playing cards... right?

Somehow I don't think that you would sit there and smile at anyone who called your mother the c word... would you? Yes, they are *only words*... or are they?

Our words are just one way that we can express ourselves. Our actions are another. I don't care if you say that you love me while you beat the shit out of me...

What I am saying is that such rhetoric is not funny. We can all laugh and PRETEND it doesn't harm anyone but our intelligence says otherwise. I am not saying that anyone who uses offensive hate-filled language should just acosted physically. But certainly they need to be reminded of the manners that perhaps their mothers did not teach them.

Just my .02

I see what you are saying but your point of view gives the "offenders" way too much credit.

 

[heavy_duty]

White man never say Euro-American

 

[jackangel]

never heard a black dude call another black dude a n*gger.

 

[bw1]

I was driving w/ the windows down and he pulled up next to me and not really sure what motivated him but he yelled "stupid nigger" at me and turned.

what a strange man

LMFAO!

 

[heavy_duty]

true - we don't

never heard a black dude call another black dude a n*gger.

 

[Cal_21]

I want to see bodybuilders call each other derogatory names. Like "yo what's up my younggunz?" And get really mad when skinny dudes try & use it..."THAT IS OUR WORD!"

 

[Mavafanculo]

For some reasons I see black people calling each other "nigger" but i've never seen a jew calling another jew "kike, Nazi or kapo". Same with asians they dont call each other "gook".... weird.

Italians call each other Guido and guinea all the time but as insults lol.

the ultimate italian on italian insult is "zip". (an italian off the boat from italy lol)

 

[ceo]

White man never say Euro-American

 

[manny78]

never heard a black dude call another black dude a n*gger.

You dont listen to rap music ?