So your caught!

[enacer420nj]

Must be all the test...this short little half asian chick at my gym has the tightest body im talking nice gluts and leggs and big D size fake tits...not so hot in the face..cant help but check out the body. im in between sets zoned out with the ipod shes kneeling on the pullup machine doing these with perfect form her ass is arched ever so nicely and when shes done she turns to the left..im like 20 feet away starring at her with my mouth open...i turned quick and went back to what i was doing...this happen to you guys? I say fuck it you wear tight shit to the gym and look like that im gonna look...

 

[bigpimpin25]

i feel ya bro. happens to me all the time.. if they gonna flaunt it they are askin for guys to look ! they can' t expect to walk up in a gym full of testosterone and not get checked out when they are wearing tight spandex nipple showing clothes !

 

[Varga]

I check out chiks in the gym all the time, I don't give a shit. I even slept with a few...LOL

 

[squatmonkey]

I like to make sure I have a little drool coming out of the side of my mouth, my eyes are real big and kinda glazed over and Im swaying back and forth when they catch me looking.

 

[mustang_00]

i usually start rubbing my cawk as i'm looking at them. then i mouth the words "you're dead!"

 

[Go For Gains]

Im use to it,, Ladys wearing this shit..try to be respectful..but figured if they are going to wear this kind of shit..I guess they want me to look...especially when they make it so OBVIUOS!...walk in front of you...or work out by you..I mean come on

 

[Mavafanculo]

the less you look, the more they make sure to get in your line of sight so you HAVE to look.

 

[Go For Gains]

the less you look, the more they make sure to get in your line of sight so you HAVE to look.

Your rite about that..we have this girl..I nicked named her.."tit's on a stick"...she wears short as shorts...ass hangs out... then these tight shirts tank top kind of shirt FAKE boobs hang out..nice looking but she trys so hard to make me look..I refuse...she'll even sit down beside me on a bench..undo her hair...ya know what i mean.... I just dont care..then she will walk in front of me....FUNNY....SHE just wants guys to look..thats all

 

[mustang_00]

what about when they wear thongs and workout extra hard so the thong lines are visible through their pants/shorts. sweaty thongs are way gross!!

 

[enacer420nj]

what about when they wear thongs and workout extra hard so the thong lines are visible through their pants/shorts. sweaty thongs are way gross!!

Fuck that I wanna ring it out in my mouth

 

[deathdroprob]

This one chick layed down on a decline bench right infront of me with a low cut extra tight top. Then started fiddling with her iPod down her bra or what ever it was and looked back to make sure she was bein watched by me.........awseome, lets fuck?

 

[sugashane]

i usually start rubbing my cawk as i'm looking at them. then i mouth the words "you're dead!"

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!! Thats the funniest shit I've read in a while!
Fuck it, look all you want. If a girl wears a shirt showing cleavage, she WANTS people to look. Same thing if a thong is showing, ect,ect. If they didn't want to show it off, than they wouldn't. Its also fun to tell them that and watch as they try to think of an arguement.

 

[Bikini Mod]

*sigh*

True, if I minded people looking then I would cover that shit up, HOWEVER, you guys make it sound as if these women WANT YOU.

Showing off a tight hard body is one thing. I suppose you guys all workout in Burkahs right? But you guys are talking as if these girls want you to act like fucking cromagnun idiots...

Dudes, keep your cocks in your pants, please.

 

[trubluesue]

Re: So you'r e caught!

that's why i wear a friggin' t shirt and shorts that actually cover my shit.

 

[drsketch]

Some chic at my gym was doing those one leg kick outs and her fucking ass was beautiful and she seen me looking at it.. I prob wouldnt approach women in the gym though for sex, shit might get weird then I would have to find new gym

 

[02gixxersix]

We had a girl at Gold's who had the most amazing body. She used to walk in an stand about 6 inches in front of the glass wall that separated the gym floor from the front lobby. She was always wearing the shortest shorts she could find and she would reach her leg up and put it flat on the glass wall in front of her with her foot above her head to stretch out. We had a dumbbell pit where all the big guys and juicers spent most of their time and you would literally just hear dumbbells dropping while people walked over to gauk at her.

IMO if you wear stuff like that and stretch in a way that shows everything off, etc., you are asking for some attention and I have no problem giving it to you if you look good. If women come dressed conservatively and look like they are actually working out, etc., I will always be more polite so as to not make them feel uncomfortable. That Gold's had a reputation for being a place where women we constantly stared at and bothered and I knew a lot of girls who wouldn't workout there because of it.

I think every gym needs a few slutty girls who dress like that to boost morale and motivation.

 

[Big_BK]

Haha, i got a few of these at the golds i go to. They are ALWAYS doing legs and wearing tight ass clothes, cant not look.

 

[walliwalibus]

Just do it.....

 

[Bikini Mod]

Men can be SUCH bobos...

How bout these hot broads are all fucking with your head?

... or they feel confident enough to wear WHATEVERTHEFUCKTHEYWANT while working out and don't give a fat rat's ass about you? Just because you notice them, that don't mean SHIT about them noticing you. All of these "signals" you think these chicks are sending out?... THEY ARE IN YOUR HEAD ALONE.

I don't EVER notice any men in the gym when I work out, that is unless they get too close to my space.

Yea, I work out in a bikini most times... so what message am I *subconsciously* sending out?

Dudes ya'll need a reality check.

 

[NiteOwl]

Yea, I work out in a bikini most times... so what message am I *subconsciously* sending out?

I think every gym needs a few slutty girls who dress like that to boost morale and motivation.

There you go...

 

[Bikini Mod]

There you go...

Yea ok....

I am happily married, usually working out with my husband. I wear the same style bikini when he is with me as when I am alone.

We train in a pool. What am I supposed to wear?... a burkha?

Really, some of you dewds REALLY need to check your egos at the door, sorta makes you look foolish.

 

[rediculus]

Wanting to be looked at and wanting to bone are 2 different things. You have to first understand that we recognize the difference. To think we as men are saying..Oh she is sooo undressing me with her eyes...Oh look on that curl she eye fucked me!!! DID YOU SEE THAT!! oh yah i'll give er my frank n beans...NO!! We know the difference between a woman that can appreciate attention and someone that is down to pound.

If men wore stuffed jock straps..Bulging cocks all over the gym...fuck you sure as hell would look..even if it was to say...OOH He stuffs that jock...he needs to stuff more!! and laugh..yep we do that to you women too...We are just nice enough to not say chit.

Enjoying attention and wanting sex.

2 different things. Working out does not require booty shorts or Lingerie..so yes if your shit is allllllllll Billboard status at GOLDS GYM..Not Bally's or Curves...Golds an INFAMOUS MAN CLUB!! Booty shorts and sports bra with the Vicky secret pushup bra underneath...Not typical workout garments..Shorts and a T is all you need.

 

[Chrisco915]

Yea ok....

I am happily married, usually working out with my husband. I wear the same style bikini when he is with me as when I am alone.

We train in a pool. What am I supposed to wear?... a burkha?

Really, some of you dewds REALLY need to check your egos at the door, sorta makes you look foolish.

Actually your naiveness and lack of understanding the fundamental common sens here shows more foolishness than any previous statements. This has nothing whatsoever to do with ego. It is a perfectly legitimate point. You wear a bikini......is it T-backed? Do you bend over for longer than you need too so people can have a look at your ass or clam hanging out? Do you put yourself in the middle of groups of people and do provocative exercises and make sure everyone is watching? If not, then none of this applies to you and you don't factor into the equation.

But there are plenty of people...male and female....that get their kicks by being attention whore in the gym. Ask cheels hanging out of your shorts doing stiff leg deadlifts or squat thrusts are a screaming cry for attention..."Look at ME!". Tight tubetops with cleavage hanging out is not supportive enough or practical enough to do any serious working out.....unless you're making a porn. The guys that wear tight shorts and tank tops.........grunting loudly, flexing and pushing their bulges out when the ladies are around are the same thing. The gym is a source of heavy hormones being realeased and that does lead to a more animalistic attitudes toward the opposite sex on both sides. If you are truly there to workout and train then practical clothes show that. If you come in fresh from the pole at the local strip club then you are playing right into this thread point.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I train in a SWIMMING POOL.... WITH MY HUSBAND when his schedule and health allows.

... so you were saying?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Wanting to be looked at and wanting to bone are 2 different things. You have to first understand that we recognize the difference. To think we as men are saying..Oh she is sooo undressing me with her eyes...Oh look on that curl she eye fucked me!!! DID YOU SEE THAT!! oh yah i'll give er my frank n beans...NO!! We know the difference between a woman that can appreciate attention and someone that is down to pound.

If men wore stuffed jock straps..Bulging cocks all over the gym...fuck you sure as hell would look..even if it was to say...OOH He stuffs that jock...he needs to stuff more!! and laugh..yep we do that to you women too...We are just nice enough to not say chit.

Enjoying attention and wanting sex.

2 different things. Working out does not require booty shorts or Lingerie..so yes if your shit is allllllllll Billboard status at GOLDS GYM..Not Bally's or Curves...Golds an INFAMOUS MAN CLUB!! Booty shorts and sports bra with the Vicky secret pushup bra underneath...Not typical workout garments..Shorts and a T is all you need.

Damn straight I would look.... and laugh.

 

[rediculus]

ya

cuz women don't like the cock...

If men wore more revealing clothing the same women do. Yes women would look. How do I know? Because they look now. It's almost laughable when women come out with this puritan perspective on how disgusting men are.

Women are the ones most likely to cheat in a relationship. Women wear thongs and victoria secret and all that crap to put your goodies on a shelf.

I love what you normally write up bikini but this is one point your mistaken on. Men simply express more openly our sexual attractions and wants. As a matter of fact main stream media teaches us that women are to be physical ornaments. To be SEXY! and Beautiful!! Men? Were taught to be wealthy rich big and tough and make sure we satisfy our "SEXY" woman. Don't conform to skimpy clothing and men won't be caught staring.

ps let's not call it a clam...I fucking puke in my mouth a little for some reason every time I hear that..Just sounds nasty smelly and rotten and slimy. if your girls got a clam that's between the 2 of you...Excuse me I gotta brush my teeth.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Where did I say that I had a problem with how EITHER MEMBER of the sexes dressed?

Puritan?

Surely, you must be addressing some of the meatheaded men who posted that *if* a woman dressed *a certain way* then surely - she MUST want to fuck them all. Or at the very least, THEM because everybody knew they were the biggest, baddest mofos in there.

I merely pointed out that I work out in a BIKINI (can't think of an outfit that is much more revealing) and asked per those meatheads what message was I sending out?

So I read some shit about poledancing, etc, etc, etc....

Till I elaborated that I am in the GYM SWIMMING POOL WITH MY HUSBAND, no less.




*crickets chirping*





My comments were designed to get members of BOTH GENDERS to get a clue, pay attenttion to their own workouts and not worry so much about the dress code at the gym. The whole topic makes me ill. Sorta like the bible-beaters who are more busy looking around the room to see who is dressed how and not so much as to why they are supposed to be there in the first place. Now THAT makes my stomach turn.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Where did I say that I had a problem with how EITHER MEMBER of the sexes dressed?

Puritan?

Surely, you must be addressing some of the meatheaded men who posted that *if* a woman dressed *a certain way* then surely - she MUST want to fuck them all. Or at the very least, THEM because everybody knew they were the biggest, baddest mofos in there.

I merely pointed out that I work out in a BIKINI (can't think of an outfit that is much more revealing) and asked per those meatheads what message was I sending out?

So I read some shit about poledancing, etc, etc, etc....

Till I elaborated that I am in the GYM SWIMMING POOL WITH MY HUSBAND, no less.




*crickets chirping*





My comments were designed to get members of BOTH GENDERS to get a clue, pay attenttion to their own workouts and not worry so much about the dress code at the gym. The whole topic makes me ill. Sorta like the bible-beaters who are more busy looking around the room to see who is dressed how and not so much as to why they are supposed to be there in the first place. Now THAT makes my stomach turn.

Apparently these guys have a little issue with what women look at and don't. When a woman looks she does so to appreciate a good body or a nice smile that was given her.

To think that a woman looks because she wants to jump their bones needs to get a clue. But Men always want to jump some bones, just the nature of the beast. If they can then they might have some social skills if they can't then they should try to cevelop some.

As far as working out in a bikini, I haven't seen you bending over cause you aren't tall enough to have your ass stick out of the water, and you don't wear "butt floss' cause working out in that must be uncomfortable and who can see underwater anyway.

Try doing a workout in a pool once a week guys and you will be dead tired after 10 minutes.

just sayin

 

[rediculus]

I sink..I can walk to the deep end of a 13 foot pool with a lungs full of air and my feet are still touching the bottom. I can however workout underwater for hours on end having fun. BUT I Grew up in the ocean.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I sink..I can walk to the deep end of a 13 foot pool with a lungs full of air and my feet are still touching the bottom. I can however workout underwater for hours on end having fun. BUT I Grew up in the ocean.

So did my husband.

He taught me how to swim properly but I am still not very good at it. So I BUST MY BIKINI-CLAD ASS w/a combination of laps and aquatic movements. I dare anyone of you to get into the pool w/me and get out not feeling like you just got the shit kicked out of you...

No sex, no bullshit, no "I bet she wants to fuck me" - just my bikini-clad body puttin a serious NON-sexual hurt on ya.

My brother, are you understanding what I am saying?

Men and women are very different. We don't process the same stimuli the way you all do. A guy could be bent over in front of us ('course I don't know any other way to do deadlifts or bent over rows... do you?) wearing nothing but those tight shortie shorts that only gay men seem to wear (sadly enough for us hetero women) and NO SHIRT, dripping of sweat, grunting like an animal (which is pretty much how you train if you are training with any intensity REGARDLESS of the activity) and I can tell you that 99% (if not 100%) of the women who saw you would NEVER EVER think, "Yea, that slut wants me." or "I could fuck him like an animal... IF I wanted."

There is nothing wrong with a man staring at a beautiful woman. If she bitches about men ogling her then she needs to either:

1. cover up.

2. join an all female gym.

Me, personally, I could care less if men are looking or not. If you slobber and stare, so? If you don't realize I am there, again... so? Bottom line is I have a great body and pretty face (yup, even though I am "an old broad" LOL) and I am faithfully and happily married to an amazing man.

 

[rediculus]

I would except that type of workout would be contradictory to the gains I want to make...you COULD Do Max weight squats for 5 sets of 5 reps 30 seconds rest between then max weight Deadlifts 5 sets 5 reps then Max weight BB Rows for 5x5 and see how you feel the next day..Sorry I hate that..OH my work out would kick your workout's ass stuff.

Nobody says you would or wouldn't look. This has nothing to do with you....There are women that are attracted to men..They look too...I have caught a few...And I am not overly attractive..usually they blush and walk away. If I get caught staring I just nod hello and go about my business because usually I am not staring for long.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I would except that type of workout would be contradictory to the gains I want to make...you COULD Do Max weight squats for 5 sets of 5 reps 30 seconds rest between then max weight Deadlifts 5 sets 5 reps then Max weight BB Rows for 5x5 and see how you feel the next day..Sorry I hate that..OH my work out would kick your workout's ass stuff.

Nobody says you would or wouldn't look. This has nothing to do with you....There are women that are attracted to men..They look too...I have caught a few...And I am not overly attractive..usually they blush and walk away. If I get caught staring I just nod hello and go about my business because usually I am not staring for long.

Famous last words.

LOL I would never debate that men won't look at an attractive woman REGARDLESS of the situation. Hell, I woe the day that men STOP looking at me. The only issue I had was these dumbbie men posting up about how a "woman is a slut who he could fuck IF he wanted" based on how she was dressed and what exercises she had "the balls to do" right there in front of him.

Men need to chilax and realize that while we women most certainly do realize that if we are pretty and in good shape and we go to the gym, whether we wear more or less clothing WE WILL GET LOOKED AT. But that is not *a crime*. It is when men make personal assumptions based on something that isn't necessarily directed towards THEM that there is a problem.

My example was fairly clear in that NO WOMAN would make any assumption regardless of what the man was wearing or what movement he was performing especially if he was a stunning man with an amazing body other than maybe, "Damn, he looks good." or given the woman she may even think, "EWWWWWWWwww he's too big and veiny. YUCK." (Yea, I think that's wierd to, but it takes all kinds. )

Look all you want guys, just don't be straight up ASSHOLES about it when a girl realizes you are looking at her. If you feel the need to smile or even say, "Good set" (or whatever) then do that. But please keep your eyeballs AND your tongues in your head.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh yea, I am still waiting for a dude to tell me what "message I am sending" given the fact that I work out in a bikini.

 

[NiteOwl]

Oh yea, I am still waiting for a dude to tell me what "message I am sending" given the fact that I work out in a bikini.

There is a simple answer to that question, which you have already provided - if you wear a bikini when you work out, you want guys to look at you. If you have the body to do so - rock on. I never claimed that dressing in a revealing manner meant you wanted sex from whomever was checking you out. Only direct correlation I made was the "I want to be looked at" part.

 

[Bikini Mod]

There is a simple answer to that question, which you have already provided - if you wear a bikini when you work out, you want guys to look at you. If you have the body to do so - rock on. I never claimed that dressing in a revealing manner meant you wanted sex from whomever was checking you out. Only direct correlation I made was the "I want to be looked at" part.

That is a fair answer.

But you do realize that I train IN A SWIMMING POOL, right?

Would I wear the bikini on the gym floor? Ummm no. It is inappropriate and would make me uncomfortable. I don't even like to wear shorts to be honest because even though I HATE to cover my legs (they are still damned fine) I hate it more when I stick to the equipment.

There was a day when I *first got* my hot body that I would wear very VERY revealing outfits in the gym. Why? Because I COULD. I worked hard to get that body and I was damned proud of it. I was married then too. Matter of fact even after I split from my exhusband I never EVER again dated a dude from the gym. NEVER... I've been training for over 20 years and the last thing I need is to have my personal business spread all over a room full of meatheads. LOL

All I ask is that the men realize that just because THEY THINK a woman is *this way* or *that way* that doesn't make what they think real.

Dudes, if there is a scantilly clad hottie bending over in front of you doing bent over rows or just stretching her hamstrings then for fuck's sake be discreet and keep your fantasies to yourself. Chances are, she won't even know you exist, no matter how great a gift from the gods to womankind you are.

If ya'll wanna bend over in front of me all sweaty and veiny, grunting with no shirt wearing tight little shorty-shorts pumped till you feel like your skin is ripping, believe you me, I will gawk in the most respectfull fashion. Best of all, you'll never even see me doing it. ...and I won't think any less of you. Hell, I'll most likely forget you are there by the time I have to do my next set.

Nothing disrespectfull to the men, just pointing out how differently men and women react to the identical stimulus.

 

[access]

Bikinimom I understand your standing up for the rights of your sex and for a large part agree with your sentiment as clearly men and women are wired quite differently BUT there are still exceptions and some girls are just plain dirty (and I mean that in a good way for the most part). That is fact and I don't particularly have a problem with that either. They seek the attention and generally speaking you can differentiate which ones fall into which category. I agree wholeheardetly about being discreet with your feelings regardless but damn if a hot girl is seeking your attention it's difficult not to oblige in a like manner. Obviously blatant ogling would be a turn off to any girl/women for the most part but I find a discreet smile goes a long way to acknowledge what their seeking and they get a kick out of it too.

I had my own experience this week whereby this new girl that actually works at gym has been giving me nice smiles every time I see her. She has only been there for about past two months and there has been seen some minor flirting going on with the smiles and eye contact. I wasn't completely sure of the intent on her behalf but I had my suspicions only becasue she works at the gym and being an employee I maybe misinterpreted her actions but I was reasonably confident she was showing interest. Anyways on Tuesday this week she was talking to this guy on the leg press and I was nearby doing my thing. When they finish their conversation the guy calls me over and asks if I am married. I said yes and he say's that girl wants to jump you so badly but she thinks your married but his impression was that she would be into it anyway. Now this girl is a Romanian and quite hot as was a former gymnast so you know I have to stop and think..LOL. So nothing has happened since that day (yet, and most likely won't) accept the contact now is very much more informal and obvious flirting but my point is that girls are out there and wanting it sometimes just as much as we men do. Just another part of the equation here.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Acccess, my brother there are TONS of *dirty girls* out there and there ain't nuthin wrong with it. Clearly this girl wants to get into your gym shorts as another has confirmed this. Whether you act or not is up to you. You aren't married to ME. LOL

All I am saying is that men should not put all the "dirty girls" into the same category with the women who have bangin bods that don't mind showing it off. That's all I'm sayin, nothing more and nothing less.

And yes, I AM a dirty girl... I just choose to share that dirt with ONE man. Luckily we get on quite famously as he is a dirty old man his own bad self!!

 

[access]

LOL..agree wholeheartedly!

 

[housemusik83]

plenty of those kind of skanks my gym

 

[Bikini Mod]

I've started a thread on the girl chat forum to see if women ever have similar reactions to the same situation (reverse gender though obviously). So far the women do NOT feel the same way that ya'll do.

... just sayin.

 

[access]

Does this really surprise you though?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Honestly, yes it does. I mean I really REALLY don't understand where MOST MEN get this notion that MOST WOMEN'S morality directly correlates to her clothing or lack thereof ESPECIALLY in a gym where it it hot and sweaty and people have hard-earned bodies.

Women just don't think the way that men do given the same situation. MANY men flat out refuse to *hear* that and I find it to be irksome sometimes....

 

[access]

I don't think it's just the clothing though. There are some obvious actions that go along with the clothing that differentiates between what guys are referring to as skanks and those that aren't. I mean I see some absolutely gorgeous women in the gym at times and they just get down and do their own thing. Gotta respect that. Not that I do disrespect the ones that are flaunting it to but their are sometimes obvious and sometimes subtle differences between the two were talking about here.

 

[rediculus]

Good god..is this shit ever going to die....when the F@#$ will society stop blaming shit on men?

When people realize that their opinions on finance psychology and medicine aren't factual or even typically correct. When pointing to someone else for a problem 3 fingers point back at you.

Treat men like pigs and you will see the dirtiest pig you ever met. It's factual and backed up by scientific study.

End womens Suffrage men!!!!

 

[localgirl]

Its sucha shame- cuz there are so many guys who dont do that @ the gym..

I mean.. how would this "hot" girls boyfriend feel.. all these pigs starring & drooling..

What a shame.. Take a quick side look & carry on w/ your workout!! Its sooooo disrespectful to me when guys ooggle girls.

 

[rediculus]

NOO

That is JUST IT!! most guys here look better than the 80 percent of flabby skinned women in their gym. WE AREN'T STARING!!!! Were too busy busting our asses trying to meet goals.

HOWEVER.....On occasion we do and on occasion we get caught..Sorta? I just smile and keep doing what I am doing..SOME bitches think the whole FUCKING WORLD Is staring every time they take a drink of water. Oh you KNOW THEM!!! Been workin out for long enough that they have made improvements and they think guys can't get withint spitting distance of them without a boner.

That's the shit we should be talking about..all this crap about hot girls at the gym...My mind doesn't have room for anyone that's more into themselves than I am.

 

[access]

You know you can tastefully (and respectfully) glance at an attractive woman in the gym too. It's like paying them a compliment. Doesn't need to be a tongue hanging out ogling look but a sly glance and smile as if to say "nice" . Interested in your thoughts on that BM?

This is something I am guilty of most definately. I love women..plain and simple and if I see an attarctive girl be it in the gym or anywhere then I find it hard not to catch her eye in some way. If she is with a man then that doesn't apply but on her own then I think it can be done with some respect and more often than not you tend to receive acknowledgement in the positive. As I say it's like passing a compliment.

 

[rediculus]

Ya, when I see a very attractive woman (not a 7 or 8 were talkin 9 or a dime can only handle one time kinda fine)I will glance then remind myself that is the reason Adam was kicked out of the damn garden of Eden. Poisonous life draining creatures of self righteousness!!!

lol yes I am TFB!!!

PS Flattering men is a sign of strength. If you can say wow your handsome!(when appropriate) And keep walking. You will do 2 things.

A Make that guys day and probably be the only woman strong enough in herself to do such a thing he will ever meet.

B Outwardly express your lack of fear of the world and other peoples opinions of you.

Woman's appreciation of flattery and complete lack of ability to give honest compliments that they expect themselves is proof they are still the weaker sex!!!

 

[access]

I used to have this in my sig for YEARS:

"A thing of beauty is a joy forever."

... and it is, male or female, child, work of art, fine meal... if it is aesthetically pleasing to the eye OF COURSE we will want to look.

I hope that I never EVER get passed over for those complimentary looks. There is nothing nicer than the sincere compliment of a respectfull passing glance.

I do it too. Hell, I am married, not dead. But I always make sure that the man doesn't see me looking EVER. If I am with my husband then I make sure that neither party can see me looking. Sorta silly though when you consider that my husband knows what I find physically appealing in a man. I point out hot women (as if he hasn't already scoped them out LOL) to him but still, he is a man and it bothers him to some extent. Me, I am not bothered in the least.

Ok, so we have a lot of common ground here with our thinking then but not sure why you wouldn't want a man to see you checking him out at all. Works both ways but I understand the perceived difference in this regard between the sexes.

 

[rediculus]

I would have said. Well stupid hope you learn your lesson for next time..Do the math first...Prolly tossed them 5 or 10 bucks because it sucks to fuck yourself over.

Sweetly calling someone a sucker is still calling them a sucker..OR worse..Awe your such a sweet momma's boy!! Gimmie your shit

TFB = Total Fuckin Bastard

Again if I see a woman or co worker that for whatever reason I can't help but stop for a moment and notice how they look. (some times it's even as simple as coordinating makeup and the outfit in a way that is striking) I'll say damn you look really good I Like how you (insert what impressed me) then walk off. Why? Because women are stupid enough to think whenever I compliment them I must want to "get in it" I am not the most attractive man. I'm not abercrombie model by any stretch. But I know my worth. Women I find most 99% of the time over estimate their own worth. Daddies princess syndrome I call it.

You are sweet...

Giving a sincere compliment to a man is not the same as a man thinking that you are checking him out (false compliment he formulates in his head because a female literally gave him the time of day).

I don't compliment men on their appearance as that is not what I find valuable in a man. I compliment men on their presence, character, wit, and balls. That can not be surmized in passing.

I will give an example:

Two young boys (high school) came to our door the other evening to sell raffle tickets to get their award winning wrestling team to Florida to compete (we are in Texas). My husband and I bought two tickets. The young boys made an error and had to eat 10$ but they brought the extra ticket over to the house. They could have kept the ticket themselves, hell they HAD to pay for it anyway. But instead it cost them gas and time to drive back over to deliver the extra ticket that they HAD to pay for. I complimented them for their forth-rightness and character and said that clearly their parents were bringing them up right.

Those are SINCERE compliments and with me are plentifull when the situation is appropriate.

 

[rediculus]

lol @ Bikini mom only one pond down here in So cal and I stopped fishin. And I think if you look even among your friends the attention women get from men allows them to over estimate their worth.

However a good woman simply cannot comprehend her worth because of what women are becoming. Good ones are so few and far between that they are simply irreplaceable as friends or lovers or mothers.

 

[rediculus]

Oh I am attractive. Just not "pretty" as other put it.

American women are among the most shallow women in the world. So cal women in general are even more likely to be so veritably shallow that their measurable depth is found by presenting a Trans union Report. This is not positive or negative simply the truth. Anyone that says physical attraction isn't a part of a relation ship is definitely a dreamer. But that's not my weak point. Lack of having many friends you hang out with would make explaining this to you more difficult. Women and men in general are loosing their moral compass. If they had any to begin with that is. Men are just as guilty I don't mean to sound morally upright because I am not. It's just disgusting to see what women respect and look for in men more often than not.

no there are not "Multitudes" of good women..There are multitudes of average women. With average minds and hearts and as americans in most cases less than average health. Loyalty and intelligence and beauty of mind are simply a dying aspects in my opinion. Look up porn...How many girls are there with great bodies willing to be choked and gagged and just...well...ya...thousands and thousands..that doesn't include prostitutes...Who Raises these girls? Same women are in the gym Looking for attention and pissing people like you off

 

[rediculus]

yes but the issue is socially men looking at naked women is acceptable. So how do you change that? I think in all honesty america's allowing the family unit to break down and that is directly effecting our countries strength.

a Bunch of tree hugging hippies want to be on the news every time a soldier is shot saying how horrible war is.

WE KNOW IT IS WAR!!

our family unit is becoming weaker. That is weakening our children especially our girls that have no half decent and very likely 0 morally strong males to look up to as a male figure.

We have grown too lazy, too weak in the mind and especially too weak in the moral department. I am guilty of this too some degree over my younger years to an extreme degree. I am lucky enough that I am paying a heavy toll and learning from it now.

I will be damned though if sometimes I am not just ACHING for a good FWB

 

[rediculus]

Actually studies do show that women are more likely to cheat than men in a relationship. Genetically because one man can impregnate several women our "survival instinct" is to screw everything we see. Men realize this and most men that I know curve this with frequent violent masturbation. I never blamed it all on women. Actually I think the break down of women's morals stems from the lack of male's with a reasonable moral back bone.

Look at the responses in this thread. Nobody would have even brought it up 10 years ago. They would have thought. Yes that person is attracted to me and kept working out. Today? oh we need to study which women really do want to juggle the balls stroke the pipe and swallow the gravy baby!! (sorry tropical thunder quote)

We live in a society where the is actually considered and addition to pornography and masturbation. Live and let live? The only thing that needs to happen for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing. That means that the evil men will do something..They will tell them what is ok and isn't and show them the way to make a few extra dollars doing what they "should already love" right?

In my opinion women and men both know where they stand. I Know this about women and how I feel. Men say the exact same thing and cry about women that cheat and screw around on them when they don't have enough self confidence and self love to even be in a relationship. Nobody wants to look at what is wrong within themselves. It's the fault of being self aware. The most painful thing to be aware of is mistakes and "wrong doings"

drifting off subject...look at a porn stars clit...that shit gets Tore up..

 

[rediculus]

lol yes there is such thing as "tore up pussy" the woman that had 329 men in 24 hours. her clit will never look the same.Does that mean she can't bring it down to the right size? No muscles are 90 percent of the vaginal openings size and how tight it is. The canal is a different story. yes men think of sex more often and google search.

In marriages women are more likely to cheat. whether its' because they finally hit 30 and go on their sexual peak when that great personality guy isn't cutting it anymore or he doesn't "listen to them" like he used to. It's been studied repeatedly. Yes we are wired to do it and still somehow the studies show men cheat less...WOW Crazy? Lumping women together isn't what I am saying...But you started to drift waaay off that a long time ago.

Little to no consequences...Go back to the family unit being weaker than a wet paper bag. Women are looking for the success that men have. Financial and physical. In essence what at one time was someone happy with good children and loving family now wants a BMW and to be paid equal wages. Awesome good job you have equal wages...sorta..business at the high end is still very male dominated but gradually women are loosing their "mother" tatoo and getthing their CEO tattoo.

Is that helping society? Not one Iota..The woman get's stronger the mother get's weaker.

 

[rediculus]

I actually had a fantastic little post up..but I will delete it and just say.

We used to have mothers.

Soldier used to be a good career.

Some men have moral fiber. Some men can say no to their own desires.The men that can look in the gym and walk off.

Women? More and more women are pimping each other out in pornography and the more that is available the weaker men will get.

Why do you need men?

Ask yourself why you are married. Why you only share your bed with 1 man when you could have 50 men with "no consequence" ..SO your saying Japanese women are Liberated? lmao I am pretty sure the population growth has very little to do with women making so much money and more to do with a culture that being restricted to an island with a huge population has limited the "big family" idea

and Here I go with the big stick. The OH all women will hate me stick.

You (women) are NOT cut out to do the same jobs. We are not equal. Our work capacities are different. Plain and simple. Women will now forever try to be the one thing they aren't, Men! They will loose the 1 thing that made them the most powerful.

The title Mom

not mother or Janice or Sarah or VP of Marketing. Women used to be strong enough to be mothers. Now they work the day showing how equal they are to men in the work force. Come home to children that have been home watching some mind numbing TV show for hours and barely know their children. Cook dinner set the table clean up a little (just in time for everyone to have a meal in their bedrooms or on a sofa and NOT as a family) shower and go to bed with a man that has forgotten what warmth and softness she used to possess but respect her GREAT Career and how well she balances everything and excels at nothing.

 

[rediculus]

The point being women are trying to go for the male role in society. First any good relationship can never be spurned of need. If you need someone you need a psychologist.

Too many women are trying to be men. But they complain about how shitty we are. For looking in the gym or staring blah blah blah. It sounds like you have a great husband! If women weren't willing to film it men couldn't make it. Do we look? hell ya we do were visual and while I am on supplements right now that have me just RAGING sexually ..which by the way can actually physically hurt. Who'da thunk it huh? I will admit it would be nice if men (myself included) were able to not only realize the degradation but the fact of it is..Porn actually hurts their chances of a good relationship.

 

[rediculus]

today this chick in the gym....was totally wet looking at my pecs!!!

Cool stuff independent woman trap..I like

 

[rediculus]

ooh

we don't care if your not interested

we just wanna look at you and think about poking you because it makes us horny

and we like to be horny...pretty shitty huh? Or funny some men can hang some can't you were obviously a high point in that man's day..at least that's how I would choose to look at it.

 

[rediculus]

I never said we don't like to stare. look think Oh ya that's hot shit!!!

or

Damn that girls got a nice pooper!!!

Just saying some women like it.

 

[manmeet008]

I always watch them upside down which give her indication what I want.