Stern's ranked 9th this year.
Dude, stop talking about sports. Grad/professional schools could not possibly care less. They won't care about your life story, either -- they train business leaders, not college freshmen.
Your GMAT is below Stern's FT average. Subtract about 50-75 from your practice scores to extrapolate your real score, which would still be below their PT average.
Not sure what you mean by "my gpa SHOULD BE 3.6" -- are you still in UG? This is only important if you're a recent grad, because:
Stern's average work experience for incoming students is over 4.5 years. And that's relevant experience with consistantly increasing responsibilities.
The references that matter for bschool are professional work references. Faculty/admin can give a good word, but you must first meet the entrance criteria -- that means glowing LORs from companies.
Where will you get the $80+k/year for this program? Have you calculated loan payments for GradPLUS (6.5%, fixed) with over $100k in debt?
Without knowing your work experience, NYU is definitely a reach... and probably not worth the application fees.