Stefka said:
you find out that he is really small.
I think the right answer would come from looking at the reciprocal of this situation. Lets suppose that a woman in this case you had an abnormally large vulva and loose fitting vaginal opening, and he felt no friction at all due to your size becuase he was of an average endowment.
Sure Kegals can help, but naturally tight is best, and there is something to be said for the asthetics of large sized punanay. Women are far less willing or able to talk openly about how their size affects the sexual equation, but none the less women control one half of the variables in the sexual compatiblitity equation.
How would you want to be treated and dealt with when you are the one being looked at as being sexually insuffient or abnormal? If you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly answer that you treated this guy with human decency and respect and that you handled this sitauiton the way that you would want to be treated, then you have done the right thing.
If you can't do this, you may need to do some self examination as to why you operated using a double standard.
I dont think I have a double standard. If a guy finds that he is just not sexually compatible with a woman because she is to loose then there is nothing wrong with him ending things. Sexual compatability is very important.
This was my first experience with this type of thing. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and it just didn't work. I wasn't in love, maybe it would have been different if I was - but I doubt it.
I just wanted to know what other girls do when faced with a similar situation. But apparently the guys are more interested in this topic.
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