I give my whole body the once over with clippers every few weeks, trim the underarm hair with siscors, shave the chest and belly with my trusty mach 3.
I have a friend who does waxing and salon stuff. She says a lot of guys are getting full body waxes these days. Even the ass crack and scrotum. I've waxed my chest before and it hurt like a bastard. I can't imaging what waxing your asshole would be like.
And yes, to most "normal" people, male shaving is gay as hell. My friends know I keep myself trim and they bug the living shit out of me. lol