Sexual Encounter etiquite?

[jubei]

Assuming that you are having sex with a person for the FIRST TIME and that you have a "relationship" what is the best course of action?

1. Pull out all the stops

2. Reveal a few tricks

3. Go slow at first

 

[out_at_sea]

Assuming that you are having sex with a person for the FIRST TIME and that you have a "relationship" what is the best course of action?

1. Pull out all the stops

2. Reveal a few tricks

3. Go slow at first

Neither..just bang the shit out of her..

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Out 2 Sea....

I agree 99% the other 1% is my magic secret that yall dont know which gets the ladies commin back for more and more......

 

[Sinistar]

reveal a few tricks. im also against going down on a chick ill i really get to know them.

 

[ZKaudio]

in a relationship bro... you're not going to be "fucking" your first time... if your relationship is with a decent girl youre going to be "making love" for awhile until you get to "fuck" her. Stick with up close and personal missionary, face to face... if you get lucky and she wants to switch it up, go maybe cowgirl. I would not hit it doggy the first time though. Keep it semi conservative/in her best interests.

 

[Puddles]

Jubei...#3, then 2, then cuddle. Round 2, #3.

Seriously, if you two have a good relationship, take some cues from her. ZKaudio said it well, but you never know...you may have a freak on your hands.

 

[Lumberg]

I think you pull out all the stops........

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Bust out the duffle bag filled with all sorts of toys and get her to role play in the beginning until she opens up and gets more comfortable w/you.

 

[jubei]

The question was put out for conversational purposes, and doesn't relate to me personally.

 

[Puddles]

The question was put out for conversational purposes, and doesn't relate to me personally.

You're married, aren't you?

 

[jubei]

I'm not married. God thats a scary thought though.

 

[flexygrl]

You don't want to pull out all the stops. What does that leave you with? You have to add a little bit more each time. The worst thing in the world is to have sex become routine. Not cool!! If you pull out all the stops, what does she have to look forward to?

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Flxygrl....

Very nicely put.....eventually u get to the point where your like fuck it and start using diff styles of play, maybe a swing like Puddles luvs , and what have you!!! I think its good to just be yourself in the bed "DONT THINK JUST FUCK" would be my slogan!!! Each time doing whatever it takes to make it enjoyable i would say....

 

[flexygrl]

Thanks ninja!!

Yes, I also wanna do a swing one day. Not a full swing, just another girly, would be really fun!! One day...

 

[Lumberg]

well i suppose it depends on how you feel about the girl.

if it's a one night stand you throw caution to the wind.

if it's a girl you want to keep you take it slow.