Sex and thats about it

[Falklands]

Have you ever been in a relationship based totally around sex and nothing else? How did things end up for a finish?

 

[ippon1]

Yep, it was cool. I joined the marines and never spoke to her again. I was dating another girl at the time and married her after bootcamp.

 

[Cutiebaby]

it ends fine....if it is a sex only relationship then once you have had enough sex from one another it ends..there are no strings attatched, just fun

 

[texasbrainsandbeef]

when I was in the Army had a total of three of those...but in each on, the chick started to have feelings and it had to end. The all started to get pissy when I wouldn't call the next day or the fact I didn't ask them out for dates. They wanted to go for coffee, meet for lunch, all kinds of stuff. And in every case, this happened about 3-4 weeks after we started the fun. Now I am married and very happy with my wife.

 

[rnch]

unfortunately, one of the 2 parties involved usually wants to take it to another level.

 

[rudeboyja]

hell, that just about describes almost every relationship i've had

 

[aandd]

When it was an understanding between both parties, it was a lot of fun. We talked about it before hand, and knew that all either of us wanted was a good pounding once or twice a week. We got together to romp in the bed, and then saw each other in class and acted like nothing had ever happened.

But once, there was a guy who was with me just for sex, but *forgot* to tell me. I got wayyyyyy too attached and got my heart broken. That one sucked.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Once. It was a one night stand. We both had fun. Came in torrents. She went back to her BF, I went back to drinking with my bud's.

 

[PBR]

it ends fine....if it is a sex only relationship then once you have had enough sex from one another it ends..there are no strings attatched, just fun

yep....

 

[Falklands]

Do you not get bored eventually?

 

[PBR]

Do you not get bored eventually?

yes...but if they are infrequent, it doesnt get boring...but we all tend to go on to other things, if its loosely based.

 

[Growth&Courage]

unfortunately, one of the 2 parties involved usually wants to take it to another level.

That seems to be the case.

There's always one party that desires the other more and when you move on they start clinging.

I guess that is why sex should be upfront.

 

[PBR]

it doesnt matter if sex is "up-front"....it is an intimate connection and over time it strengthens- you begin to let down and trust....when this happens, it gets emotional- and as mentioned above, will be desried to be taken to another level.