Selfish girlfriends?

[heatherrae]

thats what i was thinking.

if a girl thinks she has to complete it everytime, well then no she's not gonig to be excited or want to do it often

Yes, this is true. I like to do it, but I've had bf's who were selfish about it, too and would try to hold off orgasm while I did it. No matter if your gal likes it, she is going to get tired and pissed at you if you are taking an hour to finish up on purpose and her jaws and neck are TIRED.

 

[calveless wonder]

date a jew

problem solved. those girls are genetically inclined to blow you

 

[cindylou]

Yes, this is true. I like to do it, but I've had bf's who were selfish about it, too and would try to hold off orgasm while I did it. No matter if your gal likes it, she is going to get tired and pissed at you if you are taking an hour to finish up on purpose and her jaws and neck are TIRED.

I think this alone is exactly the reason why some women hate donig it. because it feels good, he does not want to orgasm and she is just plain tired. lol

or she thinks she is bad at it. that could be a reason too.

or she has had a bad experience with a dude shoving her face into him

 

[digimon7068]

thats what i was thinking.

if a girl thinks she has to complete it everytime, well then no she's not gonig to be excited or want to do it often

lol at a girl that "thinks she has to" complete it everytime. . .never met one of those.

 

[cindylou]

lol at a girl that thinks she has to complete it everytime. . .never met one of those.

I thought this for a long time! I'm serious! I hated giving blowjs cuz it was just so much effort! Then i finally took that pressure off myself and I started enjoying it more, just making him feel good for a while is enough and I dont feel selfish for not doing it, but I dont feel like I'm dreading it either.

and at first I was also afraid I was bad at it. that could also be a reason why she is reluctant to do it.

You only learn through experience and books dont help. lol. If you are not blowing every dick that comes around, a girl can feel like she is not up to par when shes of the youngish age.

there are a million reasons why she's not doing it. the only thing to do is talk to her about it.

 

[digimon7068]

I thought this for a long time! I'm serious! I hated giving blowjs cuz it was just so much effort! Then i finally took that pressure off myself and I started enjoying it more, just making him feel good for a while is enough and I dont feel selfish for not doing it, but I dont feel like I'm dreading it either.

and at first I was also afraid I was bad at it. that could also be a reason why she is reluctant to do it.

You only learn through experience and books dont help. lol. If you are not blowing every dick that comes around, a girl can feel like she is not up to par when shes of the youngish age.

there are a million reasons why she's not doing it. the only thing to do is talk to her about it.

bad at it?? pffft. . .i've walked away bleeding and it was still better than the best day i EVER had at work. . .

 

[cindylou]

bad at it?? pffft. . .i've walked away bleeding and it was still better than the best day i EVER had at work. . .

lol! Well, we know how you guys talk and we dont want to be known as the bad blowj giver.....lol

guys need to tell girls this stuff! hahahaha

 

[heatherrae]

I think this alone is exactly the reason why some women hate donig it. because it feels good, he does not want to orgasm and she is just plain tired. lol

or she thinks she is bad at it. that could be a reason too.

or she has had a bad experience with a dude shoving her face into him

Yes, to all 3! lol. We women probably all have had these bad experiences.

 

[cindylou]

Yes, to all 3! lol. We women probably all have had these bad experiences.

its all fun and games until you puke all over the place

lol

most of the time things inserted to the throat result in purging

 

[heatherrae]

its all fun and games until you puke all over the place

lol

most of the time things inserted to the throat result in purging

I actually don't have a gag reflex. I can't make myself purge. I would be a lousy bulemic.