Not afraid of being alone at all. Know why? Glad you asked and for several reasons.
For one thing say I for example hook up with a honey and we spend our lives together, thats fine nothing wrong with that. But reality dictates that either one of us will die before the other and will ea alone anyway.As long as people realize this up front and accept it you can get on with your life.
Another thing. Ask any guy/girl here who has either been married, common law, divorced, separated how they feel about thier situation. Being single has ups and downs but so does the act of being attached for more then a year with anyone.
Another thing. I am single by choice at this point of my life and am happy with that. I can do what(and whomever hehe) I want when I want, where I want etc.
I dont have to tell someone where I am going, when I am coming home. I can work all the hours I want, I can go on vacation where I want, I can spend my money on what I want.Am I alone or even lonely? Fuck no!!! I spend my day as a carreer talking and meeting with people, everywhere I go there are people I know. I am free to date women and have fun same shit as people who are in relationships do but I have more freedom and choice in what and who I do this with.Example many people in relationships like alot of guys on this board when falling in love give up all thier buddies and stuff they did before they met thier chick. Well when the shit hits the fan(and the majority of the time it does) you guys are fucked. You have guys or girls night out? Well everynight is guys night out for me if I choose.
My business is growing and with a project that is in the works and will be up and running by the end of the year my future earnings will be drastically improved over the next 5 years(like increasing what I make big fucking time lets put it this way). Now do I want to go thru all these years I have struggled and the eventual hard work that will be put in as well over the next few years just to hook up with a gal, and possibly giving up half of that one day or having some ankle biter to deal with? My choice right now is no fucking way!!!
Now the above I just said about myself and how I feel may seem negative and all that other shit but it is quite the contrary. Main thing I am trying to say is yes I am open to a relationship but....
1) I am not going to give up anything I do now for it(excluding the running around with other chicks stuff obviously)
2) I am not making sitting around whining like a little he-bitch because I cant find true love. Besides if some of you guys/girls cant be happy in your own skin alone how the fuck can you make anyone else around you happy. I am a happy, sarcastic, intense friendly, fun loving , fierce motherfucker in my life and dont need someone else to make things better. If I met someone who i want to spend time with and vice versa then great, if not big deal.
Your gonna do well and be fucked either way, so enjoy what today has to offer ad the tommorows can only get better and increase your prospects.
I will probably get married when I am 70 and dont give a fuck cause I am gonna die soon anyways.