dont ask a women, they dont know what they want.....be the man, control the situation, findout what she likes (by observing her reactions) dont make plans, make it happen, touch her to make her know your confortabe with her and yourself (not in the private areas yet though).....if you want sex, work for it, tease her, take your time, dont just stick it in, make it your goal to please her.....when she is pleased you will be pleased, if you like her enough......offcoarse i dont date much, i just read alot.....and have a girlfriend (may not be the smartest move, but ill see)......o, roofie bad=charge.