I completly agree with Gymgurl!! 100% It is more the way we are treated than what is spent on us...well there are always the exception to the rule but stay away from those.
Give her your total attention and let her know you are just totally into her. Move slowly at first...even if I am attracted and want to jump there bones, I would feel much better about that person if they did everything but trying to get into my pants...shows your into her and that your just not wanting to be IN her. lol
Hope that made sense.