Question For The Females

[puddlemonkey]

I still say B. This way she knows you have some issues!!!! LOL

lol, that's not nice! Seriously though, I do. I even remember at one point during sex last night thinking, "did I remember to get bananas at the store?"

 

[rudeboyja]

Did you even make the O face when you faked it. How about hit her with some yougurt on her back?

And another thing, why are women always fascinated with the size of a load?

 

[blueta2]

...that you are aware of....LOL. ;-)

true.....but I'm 99% sure

 

[Mickey36]

I have a question for the ladies. Lets say you were with a guy sexually for the first time. You've met a few times prior but never slept together until now. Everything seemed to go well that night, some fun and sexual foreplay, there were a range of positions used, kitties got licked, etc. Now lets say the guy isn't getting off, and he knows its not going to happen. Would you rather he:


A: Fake the orgasm convincingly enough to where you have no idea he didn't climax.

Or

B: Just stop and tell you not to worry about it that its not that big of deal.



Reason I ask is I faked an orgasm for the second time in my life last night and I feel pretty shitty about it. My intentions were good, I didn't want her to feel bad or awkward, yet I can't help feel I should have been straightforward and honest.

Just stop and not worry about it. Most women would not take it wrong as we know that sometimes too much pressure to perform for a man makes him less likely to perform.

 

[heatherrae]

Did you even make the O face when you faked it. How about hit her with some yougurt on her back?

And another thing, why are women always fascinated with the size of a load?

ummmm...we aren't.

Actually, I could care less as long as I got my kitty licked in the deal...lol.

 

[puddlemonkey]

why are women always fascinated with the size of a load?

They are? Since when?

 

[blueta2]

I appreciate the comments. In my experiences though there has never been a time where I was honest about it and it didn't depress the girl. It's happened a good 6 or 7 times where I didn't try faking it and the girl gets all weird or even to the point of tears. Remember, I'm use to dealing with 19-25 year olds, not 'mature adult women'.

Of course not!

Well I won't even begin to analyze the male O, but I was a mature 19 yr old and when my b/f could not cum, I was not all freaked. I would be like "cool, wanna go catch a movie"
Maybe it's the type of women you're chosing?!
JUST maybe you're wanting sex with emotion and not just sex?

 

[puddlemonkey]

Just stop and not worry about it. Most women would not take it wrong as we know that sometimes too much pressure to perform for a man makes him less likely to perform.

So lie and tell her I was nervous? I think that lie would have been harder to pull off than the orgasm.

 

[covergrl80]

lol, that's not nice! Seriously though, I do. I even remember at one point during sex last night thinking, "did I remember to get bananas at the store?"

You needs a shrink

 

[rudeboyja]

ummmm...we aren't.

Actually, I could care less as long as I got my kitty licked in the deal...lol.

Yes women like to see the condom results and usually have a comment.

meow....