question for EF guys...

[heatherrae]

do you actually know any men?
i would estimate that probably 8 out of ten of your male friends (that aren't gay) want to sleep with you.

bingo

 

[*ebony*]

Like hell they ain't. If you really want to rail a girl she already knows it. Saying it don't make no difference at all.

If she says no then your still in the same spot. She know you want to rail her, you know you want to rail her, and your stuck in the friend zone.

I mean don't act like you can't already tell when a man wants to ream your poon hole. You know, all the womens know.

nah babe, i disagree, there is always the awkwardness after evan if things are "back" the way they were.

and to address you other comment, yes i can ususally spot when a man is interested in me...but there is just one of those times it is totally unexpected!

 

[Jocques Straap]

Never in my life have I ever seen a straight guy have a girl that was a friend and didn't want something more. Ever.

Guys will take what they can get. If all they can get out of you is friendship, then that's better than nothing. We can hopefully move up from there.

 

[Jocques Straap]

If a guy pays any attention to you what-so-ever, it's pretty safe to assume he wants to nail you.

 

[DJ_UFO]

There is only 1 reason why I wouldn't be interested in a female friend, and is because she is ugly and/or fat. Even if she is my friend's girlfriend I'd be interested anyways but I wouldn't do anything for respect to my friend. But if is a female friend under normal circumstances, hormones decide first.

 

[Spartacus]

I don't have female friends that I'm romantically interested in
it either happens or they distance themselves

 

[needtogetaas]

Never in my life have I ever seen a straight guy have a girl that was a friend and didn't want something more. Ever.

Guys will take what they can get. If all they can get out of you is friendship, then that's better than nothing. We can hopefully move up from there.

ya hang around wait for you to get drunk or need a rebound. Then its on.

 

[nimbus]

do you find yourself romantically interested in your female friends? do you find it difficult to express you feelings?

i think the reason men are often hesitant to express interest is because of fear of rejection if they think the girl probably does not find them romantically interesting. I think the most common reason a guy would stay quiet, though, is that he doesn't want to wreck the friendship at the moment.

also i think men connect with women on a "sisterly" level, where they enjoy spending a lot of time with a woman without developing romantic interest in her, maybe because he is not at all physically attracted to her or feels she would not be a good match.

Guys if you have been in this situation...please share you expierence if you don't mind.....and tell me if my reasoning is off.

yes to all of this

 

[*ebony*]

do you actually know any men?
i would estimate that probably 8 out of ten of your male friends (that aren't gay) want to sleep with you.

i have a few very good looking male friends....and that all we are, friends.

if there is a bit of flirting sometimes i honostly don't think anything of it b/c it doesn't feel like anyhting other than friedly harmless remarks like the ones friends aim at each other.

 

[nimbus]

Never in my life have I ever seen a straight guy have a girl that was a friend and didn't want something more. Ever.

Guys will take what they can get. If all they can get out of you is friendship, then that's better than nothing. We can hopefully move up from there.

this is bullshit