question for EF guys...

[*ebony*]

In my opinion, its hard to be "just friends" with an attractive female. Not that its impossible but its hard. 1 way is that they just aren't into you and you don't have a choice. Another would be that there is someone else that you don't want to hurt by pursuing this "friend."

Guys will always have some kind of sexual thought about a girl they are close to friends or not IF they are attracted to them, and some guys will even if they aren't attracted to them. Now that doesn't always mean they will try something, but its still there.

Now, its different for girls Ebony. I think Chris Rock said it best...."It's easy for women to turn down sex, every guy you have met since you were 16 has been offering you sex... Would you like a glass of water?(how bout some sex) Can I get the door for you?(How bout some sex?)" Girls can be friends with out being interested in a physical relationship because girls are emotional creatures.(yes I know not every girl, but im going off the sterotype of a typical girl) Besides girls like to keep "guy friends" around for other reasons. If they need a favor, or if they need something done and want help or someone else to do it. All you do is batt ur pretty eyes flash a smile and you know you have that one guy friend who will run right over to help....


Just sayin

true..about girls turning down sex. its is much easier than it is for males and you hit it on the mark about why too.

 

[hurricane]

if i ever meet you in real life, i don't think we should have any drinks...no?

i think we are past needing a few drinks level

 

[*ebony*]

i think we are past needing a few drinks level

lol

 

[*The_West*]

i think basikstyles pretty much hit the nail on the head, so to speak

 

[ricco561]

lol

I don't drink........but I'll buy.

 

[*ebony*]

I don't drink........but I'll buy.

lol....is that how you canadian guys roll?

 

[ricco561]

lol....is that how you canadian guys roll?

Whatever it takes beautiful.

 

[*ebony*]

Whatever it takes beautiful.

wise words babe...lol

 

[ricco561]

wise words babe...lol

It's a skill of mine.