not rhetorical questions. Why should the man be the one to make sure the woman doesn't get pregnant? Seems like a statement that removes the responsibility from the woman. She has as much responsiblity if not more than the man that she chooses to screw. Why should he be shooting blanks? Why doesn't the woman go get herself fixed. Walla, problem solved. Or better yet, keep her legs crossed. Go by a B.O.B. if you can't.
Remember, it takes two to fuck and two to be responsible. Let's not pass this off as soley the mans responsibility.
You tell me the reasons to have an abortion, when it does not constitute a health problem for the woman (would cause death or something as bad)? I can understand if the woman was raped and she chose not to carry to term. Or if the baby was malformed such as what happens with spina bifida.
1. Are they going to be a bad mommy? Oh well. This is on the job training.
2. Are they poor? Give the kid up for adoption and get paid for it.
3. Will it interefer with her party life? Get a life
4. Will it interfere with her professional life? Guess they shouldn't have fucked then.
5. Will it ruin or at least affect her physical appearance to some degree? See number 4.
6. Is she afraid sex won't be as good (since things get stretched out?) Suck it up.
7. Is she afraid her parents won't accept (if she is under 18)? Understand fear, parents are fucked up if they won't accept.
8. Is she afraid in general? Deal with it. There are a lot worse things out there.
9. Was her timing off? See number 4.
Most of the reasons I have heard from women who have had abortions were for selfish reasons or by threats from parents. Neither of which I find acceptable.