Picking up women in public places

[thewanderer690]

all u do is go zneak up behind her and grab her ass hard and say hi

"excuse me, does this rag smell like chloroform?"

 

[megamania500]

How do you guys try to pick up women at a public place like a blockbuster video or a grocery store??? Should I just say "Hi, Im ____" and then go from there or if she is buying something at a grocery store "Hmm Ive been thinking about buying that, how do you like it??

The "Hi, Im____" is a bad idea from the start. First, starting off this way will make you appear too eager. Plus, if she's nice looking she probably has been approached by men more times than she can count. Probably several times daily since she was a teenager. A thousand guys before you probably approached her with this same, "Hi, I'm ___". So using this will probably put into her mind, "Oh, no. Not another one!". You'll be instantly categorized with all the other nameless, faceless, many who approached her in this generic way.
Never give your name to a woman while attempting to pick up a woman. On a certain level, not giving up your name signifies confidence, like saying without words, "I don't NEED for you to know who I am". While giving your name right away connotes just the opposite, and subconsciously a woman may see you as 'needy'.
Also, purposely NOT giving your name can work to your advantage in another way. In meeting a woman and interacting with her for those first few moments, if she ASKS you for your name at any point, that means you've interested her enough to make her want to ask for it. In other words, if a woman asks for your name, your doing something right. If she doesn't ask, you better find a more interesting and/or humorous approach because she was too uninterested to care what your name was.
Also, SMILE as you make your approach. A poll was given to women about how they would like to be approached by a man, and 97% said that they would like it if the man was smiling during the approach.
Body language is very important, too. Don't fidget or act too passive. Show confidence in your body language. Women like confidence in a man. Biologically speaking, a woman sees a confident man as someone who would make offspring more likely to survive than a man who isn't confident. This sets off an attraction mechanism in a woman. So showing self-confidence is VERY important if you want to be successful in picking up women.
Also, remember that what attracts women even more than looks is how you make them feel. If in the first few moments that your interacting with her you've made her laugh and she feels that your someone she would enjoy and feel comfortable being around, your chances are much greater that she will want to go out with you. On the other hand, if the interaction between you and her made her feel uncomfortable, there's no way in hell that she'll go out with you.
These are just a few tidbits to help you get started in your quest to "pick up" women.

 

[Inhibitor13]

Just adding a bit to megamania 500 very helpful post.

Eye contact when she is talking or when ur talking... listen to what she has to say but dont let her just babble on throughout the whole date, have her hear what u have to say too.

Always be a gentleman ! ( of cours

 

[Inhibitor13]

Just adding a bit to megamania 500 very helpful post.

Eye contact when she is talking or when ur talking... listen to what she has to say but dont let her just babble on throughout the whole date, have her hear what u have to say too.

Always be a gentleman ! ( of course ! )

Like mega said above, I am just saying it again cuz I believe its important...make her laugh !!

AT the end of the date leave her wanting more...do something to make her have u on her mind the rest of the night and the next morning ! Always works !

Inhibitor

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Just go with it bro. Don't try to chase women. Let them come to you. I once got laid by just going to Kroger 2 miles from my apartment to get a gallon of 2% milk. I bumped into a girl I used to know who was getting some milk also, and we hooked up for a quickie at my place 5 minutes later after a short conversation at 8 am in store.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

There really aren't any tricks. if you're good looking in their eyes they want you to talk to them and if they don't find you attractive they want you to leave them the hell alone. Picking up a girl in a public place really is a "either you have it or you don't" type of situation. Even in a bar you're not going to play some girl into giving you the kitty unless you got it goin on looks wise - there are exceptions but they are rare. If you look good that biatch will be rooting for you to say anything but the wrong thing so she can give you the puss.

 

[immortalis]

...If you look good that biatch will be rooting for you to say anything but the wrong thing so she can give you the puss.

amen

 

[Razorguns]

"Hi"

if ur good at conversations - you're on your way. If not - you'll probably fuck up.

Practice talking to everyone. male, female, strangers, everybody. There's no excuse for being a bad conversationalist. Practice, practice, practice. I talk to strangers all day. Talking to a cute girl is nothing different.

 

[PlateheadJim]

Hit the Health Food Stores... GNC or even better some local shop with a huge gang of psedo-intellectuals buying up organic products.

Dress down - I don't show off my muscle too much and what a stud I am - they can see it even with a loose T. Try to have a little stuble (grooming is usually not favored by organic girls) going and say:

"Excuse me do you know anything about - INSERT USELESS HERB HERE - .....

Go from there. Turn the boldness down a notch say you'd love to call them for lunch/coffee or some euinich line like that and then turn on the heat.

Not that I advise having long term relationship with the pseodo-intellectual herbal mommas (coffee shop chicks are about the same) since they are very borish and usually shallow and not as bright as they think - just fuck them and never talk to them again.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

There really aren't any tricks. if you're good looking in their eyes they want you to talk to them and if they don't find you attractive they want you to leave them the hell alone. Picking up a girl in a public place really is a "either you have it or you don't" type of situation. Even in a bar you're not going to play some girl into giving you the kitty unless you got it goin on looks wise - there are exceptions but they are rare. If you look good that biatch will be rooting for you to say anything but the wrong thing so she can give you the puss.

dude teh girl in your avatar is reasonably pretty, but i couldnt disagree with your post more