Past loves (serious thread)

[TableFun]

Stick to just banging broads for the next half decade or so. You don't need to be in a serious relationship at 21.

 

[sterolizer]

Your profile says you're 21?

Yes being 21 is much different then being 18

 

[PICK3]

I'm going to give the full story on what happened. We were fighting a lot one month, I had a job in the city, we were not living together and seeing each other much. I started visiting this other girl, and used our fights as an excuse that I was going to go hang out with this other girl. Now this is the part that kind of sucks. This other girl I was visiting, we were not hooking up, no kissing, touching, or even cuddling.
Doesn't mean I wasn't thinking about making that happen. I'm not trying to make excuses, because yes I still cheated and broke her trust by doing that.

So you're letting this bish stress you and you didn't even get your pathetic little wiener stinky?


You gotta learn how to get your ho's in line.




just sayin'

 

[digimon7068]

Ok I'm going to do some venting so bare with me. Please don't flame or make a joke about it. It's a rather sensitive topic for me right now.

I had dated this girl for 4 yrs. She was the first person I had ever really loved, and became very attached to. I was young and immature at the time. I had cheated on her, she found out and we then broke up. I never did get over my feelings for her. And I regret ever cheating on her in the first place. It's been kind of like a fucking curse, knowing I hurt someone I cared about so much and having to live with that feeling.

We haven't talked for years, and just the other week she started talking to me again (for some unknown reason), which has totally began to tear me apart mentally. I still have feelings for her. And she says she misses us but she can't ever trust me again. I've changed since then, I'm a different person now. I'm not that same immature kid that I was when we were dating. But she seems to think that people don't change. It's just really frustrating hearing that she misses "us" being together, but at the same time hearing she doesn't think we can ever be together again. It's just really been a huge mind fcuk for me. I really wish she would give me that chance. And if she doesn't I feel it would almost be easier if we didn't talk again, because I have too much feelings for her still, to still talk and not be apart of her life, I'm finding that really hard to handle.

I just wish she was able to see what I'm willing to do for her, and that she could see through the blinding pains of the past, and see that I really have changed.

Any suggestions? it's really been tearing me apart mentally so please try to be sensitive to the subject

i doubt that the pains of the past are all that blinding for her at this point...most women don't operate that way...they cry about shit and then it's over...caput...done...finito.

as you seem to suggest, you would likely be better off if you didn't talk to her anymore imho.

 

[nangiggles]

so you didnt actually cheat on her, I see a betrayal but if she cant even forgive the fact you were hanging out with someone then you really need to move on, I thought you had a girlfriend right noe or at least were dating a girl....
If she says she cant be with you she should be talking to you telling you that u hurt her and dangling things from the ast, clearly she's not gonna let it go, start fresh with a new girl.

 

[brownbrown]

so you didnt actually cheat on her, I see a betrayal but if she cant even forgive the fact you were hanging out with someone then you really need to move on, I thought you had a girlfriend right noe or at least were dating a girl....
If she says she cant be with you she should be talking to you telling you that u hurt her and dangling things from the ast, clearly she's not gonna let it go, start fresh with a new girl.

This
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[brownbrown]

i doubt that the pains of the past are all that blinding for her at this point...most women don't operate that way...they cry about shit and then it's over...caput...done...finito.

as you seem to suggest, you would likely be better off if you didn't talk to her anymore imho.

And this too.

 

[TableFun]

Yes being 21 is much different then being 18

Quoted for future use. Let's revisit this in 5 years.

 

[shirlene29]

dude..when you're thirty you'll barely remember her name

move on
a person not getting over someone hanging out with someone of the opposite sex when things aren't so hot within a relationship and NOT actually cheating (betrayal sure but not the whole deal) sounds like a high maintenance asshat that maybe needs a good deep dicking and a slap on the ass on the way out the door

scuse me but the ex sounds like a moron and you sound unbelievably whipped

jus sayin

 

[shirlene29]

oh yeah, and there are way bigger betrayals in life....,you're both sheltered idiots