Being sore the next day doesn't necessarily promote growth. Training properly promotes growth. doing 16-17 sets is not proper training. It is proper over-training.
Fewer sets, all taken to failure will cause more growth that 17 sets. You're right, it does depend upon the individual, but the chances are that you are not an individual that needs that much volume.
You grow when you rest. Why bother spending ages in the gym breaking yourself down when you can be at home eating, resting and building yourself back up? You'll soon reach dire straits.