Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Need some ideas to help wife lower her inhibitions. We have talked about a threesome often. Even have gone out to bars with that plan in mind but when it comes to chunch time she backs out . then on the way home she is mad for not doing it. we need some thing to lossen her up at the right time. so she can go thru with her fantasy. Alcohol makes her sleepy so to much of that does not work. any suggestions
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If the wife/gf needs more than the buzz that comes from a drink/two then I am thinking that a threesome isn't for her?
Often times fantasies should remain that way because once you cross the line, there is no going back.
May I ask what it is that brought you two to the conclusion that you need to invite a third party into your bed in order to *spice things up*?
Often times fantasies should remain that way because once you cross the line, there is no going back.
May I ask what it is that brought you two to the conclusion that you need to invite a third party into your bed in order to *spice things up*?
Mom in the 36 years as man and wife we have crossed many lines together. How many couples do you think marry at 17 and still get to say that. so we know each other very well. The best part of every fantasy is the pursuit of that fantasy and that swhat we are doing. I don't think she will ever do it but i do think she wants to get very close. maybe we pick up some one at the bar chat for a while a little flirting some teasing and maybe some fondeling is as far as it might go. The fun and fantasy will be playing the game.BIKINIMOM said:
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il have a threesome with you and your wife if you want
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Point well taken...
I just would hate for something to happen that neither one of you can take back.
With the exception of his first wife (that he married right out of the service) I am the first NON-swinging wife my Old Grump has married. I had also dabbled a bit in all kinda adult activities as a single woman after my divorce from my first husband so I know that this was *meh* at best for me and NOT preferential for a longterm committed situation. But that is ME and I don't judge. I was merely advising you on the experiences that my Old Grump had had for 20+ years while cautioning others AGAINST swinging.
After 36 years though I am thinkin that the two of you are beyond grown and know yourselves and one another well enough to partake if you so choose.
Better still, I will ask my Old Grump to take a look and see what advice he can offer you. To this day my Old Grump and I get approached constantly, matter of fact, used to creep me out because I wasn't looking for any sort of threesome situation, yet there it was ALL THE TIME.
Now I realize that it is just that the two of us are so much fun and are so laid back that these women just want to *capture a bit of the magic* we have. But sorry... I am too possessive over that magic. Maybe one day I will change that, but I don't see that happening any time soon.I know there are several members of couples who do swing on elite, though they don't always post up frequently... which is a shame really. Lotta people could benefit from the healthy exchanges about human sexuality.
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BIKINIMOM said:Point well taken...
I just would hate for something to happen that neither one of you can take back.
With the exception of his first wife (that he married right out of the service) I am the first NON-swinging wife my Old Grump has married. I had also dabbled a bit in all kinda adult activities as a single woman after my divorce from my first husband so I know that this was *meh* at best for me and NOT preferential for a longterm committed situation. But that is ME and I don't judge. I was merely advising you on the experiences that my Old Grump had had for 20+ years while cautioning others AGAINST swinging.
After 36 years though I am thinkin that the two of you are beyond grown and know yourselves and one another well enough to partake if you so choose.
Better still, I will ask my Old Grump to take a look and see what advice he can offer you. To this day my Old Grump and I get approached constantly, matter of fact, used to creep me out because I wasn't looking for any sort of threesome situation, yet there it was ALL THE TIME.
I know there are several members of couples who do swing on elite, though they don't always post up frequently... which is a shame really. Lotta people could benefit from the healthy exchanges about human sexuality.
Committed relationships that can handle a third party either are destroyed or can have fun.
If you have a woman that doesn't start the thing without you then leave it alone. It is not worth it!
I guess I may be misleading a little. We don't want to be swingers. And personally i don't want to go thru with a 3some. What we really want i believe is to go looking for one. It's kind of like when i was young I loved to go hunting but I never wanted to actually kill something it was more the trill of getting close eniought that i could have !!!
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sdever said:
Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh I see... so it is more about the thrill of the hunt.
Gotcha...
Well then isn't it the adrenaline rush you get from the titilation of the experience that is *this close* what you both are seeking?
Maybe going to a strip club and getting private dances might be enough to satisfy your fantasy?
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