One night uninhibited

[velvett]

did the strip club and it was great. we have done some role playing but this like role playing in front of a live audiance with no pre written script

Hmm

How does your wife feel about her "inhibitions"?

 

[sdever]

she's ready and excited on the way there. she chickens out when we are there. She's mad at her self on the way home that she didn't try . she drives me nuts!!!! I tell her what ever she wants is ok with me but we have gone thru the above senirio three or four times already

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL This actually sounds like a pretty funny scenario...

Goodness I can see me doing stuff like that... heheheheheh Driving my husband nuts.

What is your wife inhibited by? What is she afraid of? Perhaps once she can verbalize/figure out what she fears most then you will either be able to continue the fantasy or just shift your focus someplace else.

Did you guys ever think about dabbling in online dating?

 

[sdever]

Actualy Dee has had online sex with a few guys cam to cam both with me and with out me but always shares the messy details when i get home.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Actualy Dee has had online sex with a few guys cam to cam both with me and with out me but always shares the messy details when i get home.

Hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmm LOL

Then what could the problem be? I suppose there is fear associated with crossing over from cyber to real time?

What is it that she is afraid of? I think once you guys get to the bottom of that fear you will be able to get on with it.

 

[sdever]

thanks for your help Mom evan though i'm old enough to be your dad

 

[Bikini Mod]

thanks for your help Mom evan though i'm old enough to be your dad

I'm always happy to help. Know that I am married to a man who IS old enough to be my dad. LOL So I can't take credit for everything I *seem* to know.

I think that it is absolutely awesome that you still have a sex life that most young people would envy after all these years. Everyone that is <30 something thinks that your genitalia automatically falls off or something once you pass that age - heaven forbid you actually get to 40 and beyond! The fact that the two of you had made it thus far TOGETHER speaks volumes about your patience, wisdom and life experience not only as a couple, but as individuals.

There is SO MUCH that I am certain you and your lovely wife could help the entire board with and I would be pleased if you would stick around and share some more.

Perhaps the younger board members could help us remember what it was like when WE were young (the good memories and perhaps some of the memories that weren't so great <---- those are the ones that I feel are particularly helpful to us to guage how far we have come... in a GOOD WAY!) and those members of the board who are a weeee bit more senior can educate the rest on what types of physical and emotional pitfalls to avoid so that we can enjoy the sex we are having in the here and now sooner!!!

Goodness how I luuuuuuuuuuuv elite.

 

[sdever]

Mom nicely said but as we quickly approach the age of 55 we don't really like to hear the word senior mentioned in a sentance that includes us. We are by no means relationship experts but we are proud of our 36 years together much of which was great some of which was not but it was always good so we would just share two things. 1) we have done everything sexually together that two people can do to each other ,some we have done only once and some that we have done over a thousand times (love those BJ's) but the best sex we ever had was last night and i have a strong feeling that tonight will be even better. 2) when we fight ,and we do , we ask our selves whats the goal of this arguement and is it really important to win. 99.9% of the time we realize that this disagreement will not change our lives so who cares who wins so why fight .

 

[Bikini Mod]

Mom nicely said but as we quickly approach the age of 55 we don't really like to hear the word senior mentioned in a sentance that includes us. We are by no means relationship experts but we are proud of our 36 years together much of which was great some of which was not but it was always good so we would just share two things. 1) we have done everything sexually together that two people can do to each other ,some we have done only once and some that we have done over a thousand times (love those BJ's) but the best sex we ever had was last night and i have a strong feeling that tonight will be even better. 2) when we fight ,and we do , we ask our selves whats the goal of this arguement and is it really important to win. 99.9% of the time we realize that this disagreement will not change our lives so who cares who wins so why fight .

Senior... mature... you say tomaotoes and my husband says tomahtoe... Hhehehehee He is 57 so I get to use such verbiage.

Hell, his screen name is grumpy old man!! Believe it or not that was one of the things that drew me to him as we met online. After gobs of online dates I just had to send him an email telling him how hysterical I thought it was.

I am so glad that members like you are here to help us all along our journeys.

 

[sdever]

ok so now back to my question. we need some thing to lower her inhibitions ???