Ok serious question/problem/concern

[SC4EVA]

Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married

 

[-SD-]

Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married

Well, what the fuck bro. "better half" and "living together" equate as being married to most people. Clarify next time.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Here is an idea. If you want to sleep with other people, don't get married. What a fucking concept.

according to your logic, if SC4EVA and his wife did not marry, this situation might still have arisen. if anything, it is even more likely, since each of them would have more partners.

hence, the likelihood of infection (and thereby harm caused) would not be lessened by your suggestion.

therefore id have to say that your statement is based on your preconceptions about marriage and sex (which SC4EVA clearly does not share) rather than any concern for another human being, and furthermore, given the situation in which you have tried to impose your frivolous ideas (that SC4EVA IS married and his partner might be infected with a deadly, incurable disease) id have to say that everyone would be best served by you staying out of this thread. with that attitude anyway.

edit: ok fine so he isnt married. not the point. they are together. lol feeling sheepish

 

[GoldenDelicious]

The situation that has arisen here is a direct result of them fucking other people. If they werent fucking other people then no STD problems can occur. Thats my judgement call.

first and foremost: none of anyones business but theirs

secondly, if 2 people are so sexually liberated that they can include others in their sex life, chances are they would not be satisfied with being totally exclusive. hence, they might break up and find new partners (there goes your theory about less std exposure) or, even worse, sleep around behind each others back, in which case at least one partner might not know about a possible infection in the other.

this isnt a sexual morality debate, its about controlling SC4EVAs anxiety about what is going on, and making sure the right thing is done in terms of assessment and treatment

since he is on the right track its ok that we hijacked his thread though

 

[MR Pink]

why don't you ask the guy you're talking about to get himself tested for HIV....if he's negative the changes are alot smaller your girl has got it

 

[sweetnes11]

first and foremost: none of anyones business but theirs

secondly, if 2 people are so sexually liberated that they can include others in their sex life, chances are they would not be satisfied with being totally exclusive. hence, they might break up and find new partners (there goes your theory about less std exposure) or, even worse, sleep around behind each others back, in which case at least one partner might not know about a possible infection in the other.

this isnt a sexual morality debate, its about controlling SC4EVAs anxiety about what is going on, and making sure the right thing is done in terms of assessment and treatment

since he is on the right track its ok that we hijacked his thread though

Just had to say That you took the words right out of my mouth
I agree 100%

 

[jubei]

It is our business because it has been brought to us in this forum. If you want a personal matter to be your own private business, than it is your obligation to keep it as such.

It is not a morality debate, that is true. It seems to be about who will type a louder response and introduce flawed logic as if it were fact.

On a more opinionated note, what kind of loser lets another guy fuck his "better half" ROTFL.

I guess it would be nice if we could all say, wow bro I really feel for you... I hope you don't get aids or another STD.

I stand by my original statement of:Too bad, but you brought it on yourself.

 

[Pamela]

Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married

Please go to the dr. and have yourself tested. And if you know the guy ask him if he would to. Just for everyone's health.

Pamela

 

[GoldenDelicious]

It is our business because it has been brought to us in this forum. If you want a personal matter to be your own private business, than it is your obligation to keep it as such.

LOL love the dry wit

anyway just to be pedantic id have to say that the original intent of the post was to seek advice and help on the matter of infection, not preference- hence discussion of the latter is inappropriate

On a more opinionated note, what kind of loser lets another guy fuck his "better half" ROTFL.

I guess it would be nice if we could all say, wow bro I really feel for you... I hope you don't get aids or another STD.

I stand by my original statement of:Too bad, but you brought it on yourself.

not nice, but i wont repeat myself about why.

 

[SC4EVA]

Geez, I never would have thought that this would have become so heated. I have been in contact with the person and they are tested reguarly for work and everthing has been good so far so hopefully it will all turn out good.

Golden and everyone else thank you very much for the support and contributions.

Other than that I am recovering too much from NYE to type anymore LOL