No sex in months!

[skacorica]

Ive been with my girlfriend on and off for about 3 years now (most of the time on) and our sex has dwindled slowly to nothing. Im a good looking guy, Ive got the body/face to attract plenty of girls and I dont have troubles meeting them but damn, I just want sex with my gf. I love her and we get along great, and still flirt and stuff ...but this no sex in a month and a half is killin me. Theres always a reason 'too tired' 'stomach hurts' 'no time right now' etc etc etc.

Anyone else had this happen over the span of a relationship? Maybe Im too nice to her, donnow wtf.

Suggestions?

 

[Cutiebaby]

well i guess first thing is first how old is she?????
i think that maybe she is not sexually attracted to you? if she is not interested at all then that is a real problem........you should talk to her and see what is going on with that........

 

[Fajitas]

Could she be cheating on you?

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

sorry bro, I'd say she's cheating or found out you did and is afraid to confront you.

 

[Gymgurl]

There might be plenty of reasons....did she go on the pill? That can kill the mood right there

 

[skacorica]

There might be plenty of reasons....did she go on the pill? That can kill the mood right there

No, but she has been under a lot of stress lately...

 

[Mr. Black]

Find a new girl...

 

[Gymgurl]

well stress can play a major factor on the hormones.....

 

[HiDnGoD]

Although it is frustrating, it isn't uncommon.
Wifey & I went through something like this, several years into our marriage. Can be caused by many things.
Basically you need to talk to her & tell her how you feel.
If nothing else, she can help you out when you're in the mood & she's not. If she loves you, she should be happy to help you, while not having to be expected to put out all the time.

 

[BOWTECH]

Not to be a dick, but she is probably getting it from someone else. Out with the old in with the new! Go find some new my friend