No sex in months!

[skacorica]

Ive been with my girlfriend on and off for about 3 years now (most of the time on) and our sex has dwindled slowly to nothing. Im a good looking guy, Ive got the body/face to attract plenty of girls and I dont have troubles meeting them but damn, I just want sex with my gf. I love her and we get along great, and still flirt and stuff ...but this no sex in a month and a half is killin me. Theres always a reason 'too tired' 'stomach hurts' 'no time right now' etc etc etc.

Anyone else had this happen over the span of a relationship? Maybe Im too nice to her, donnow wtf.

Suggestions?

 

[Cutiebaby]

well i guess first thing is first how old is she?????
i think that maybe she is not sexually attracted to you? if she is not interested at all then that is a real problem........you should talk to her and see what is going on with that........

 

[Fajitas]

Could she be cheating on you?

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

sorry bro, I'd say she's cheating or found out you did and is afraid to confront you.

 

[Gymgurl]

There might be plenty of reasons....did she go on the pill? That can kill the mood right there

 

[skacorica]

There might be plenty of reasons....did she go on the pill? That can kill the mood right there

No, but she has been under a lot of stress lately...

 

[Mr. Black]

Find a new girl...

 

[Gymgurl]

well stress can play a major factor on the hormones.....

 

[HiDnGoD]

Although it is frustrating, it isn't uncommon.
Wifey & I went through something like this, several years into our marriage. Can be caused by many things.
Basically you need to talk to her & tell her how you feel.
If nothing else, she can help you out when you're in the mood & she's not. If she loves you, she should be happy to help you, while not having to be expected to put out all the time.

 

[BOWTECH]

Not to be a dick, but she is probably getting it from someone else. Out with the old in with the new! Go find some new my friend

 

[MILF69]

Not to be a dick, but she is probably getting it from someone else. Out with the old in with the new! Go find some new my friend

I'll agree with that! From a girls point of view if she's making excuses and not wanting to be with you there is a big problem. Find out quickly...it's probably someone else. Sorry!

 

[anabolic highlord25]

Damn bro! If I went more than a week without sex my balls would be the size of basketballs!.... Just ask her WTF the problem is? Try to be nice about it at first and then if she tells you she's cheating, that's when you choke her out!.... .............kidding

 

[TC2]

The simplest answer is that women become selfish bitches after awhile.

 

[heavy_duty]

amen

The simplest answer is that women become selfish bitches after awhile.

 

[HiDnGoD]

The simplest answer is that women become selfish bitches after awhile.

Aye

 

[GrandMaster]

i say just come out with it... say u want booty and ask her y she aint puttin out!!

there are very few reasons y shes not
1: the pill
2; Lots of stress...work... home... self-consious
3; intrest in somsone else
4; getting it elsewhere
5; just doenst feel like it
6; doest feel for u that way much.. or anymore..
7; .......i can go on and on

i've been there, u have to figure out this one on your own bro!

i've gone about that time maybe a little more in my last relationship without sex, tho i wanted it bad... but sometimes too much sex makes u take things for granted,.. looses its intimate touch.
her and i would coudle, kiss....all the affectionate things without the sex...
if thats whats happening... then i woudlnt worry too much about all the negative possabilities.... but bring it up... tell her ya want it, and ask her y your not getting it... but dont be so blunt... or u will continue to not get any.... at ALL! lol


good luck!

 

[biteme]

When I was working full time and going to school, I think we went for 2 months without sex. And you all know what a horny bastard I am. So stress can definitely affect a person's sex drive.