SPUNKY,hey bud, i'm new here so i hope you don't mind me throwin in on this one,but dude its all about priorities,in life,you decide what's important to you and then go after it likes theres no tomorrow,sometimes its makin a decision between 2 or more things,and the choices we make now,shapes are future,so reflect then act,don't waste life it wil be over before you know it.peace