that sucks about your bf's best friend. i think what youve done thus far is moer than appropriate. dont try too hard tho. let him know you are there to help him in any way and he can come to you for anything.
thanks everyone. I really appreciate all the responses. I really like him!!! It's amazing...I never thought I'd feel this way again for anyone. It's so hard to see him in this much pain. The only thing I have is my time and some money and naturally part of me thinks that buying him things will make it all better. But I know better. I'm just gonna chill, let him come to me, when he needs me and take it one day at a time.
Guys really don't care much about flowers, I would find it a little strange if someone bought me flowers. Taking him out to eat would be good, but just being there and being good company would probably mean more to him than anything. You sound like a great girl, BTW.