need some advice-about a boy...:)

[Smurfy]

the more i think about it, the more i think i would never ask for relationship advice on this board (or maybe any board for that matter).

that sucks about your bf's best friend. i think what youve done thus far is moer than appropriate. dont try too hard tho. let him know you are there to help him in any way and he can come to you for anything.

 

[evansteve]

the more i think about it, the more i think i would never ask for relationship advice on this board (or maybe any board for that matter).

but you folks are all I have. Or at least the only ppl that I would trust giving good advice, (as sad as that sounds) basically the ppl around me dont give very good advice.

 

[Lestat]

I;d chill on the flowers and gifts and just be there for him if/when he needs you.

 

[Lestat]

the more i think about it, the more i think i would never ask for relationship advice on this board (or maybe any board for that matter).

that sucks about your bf's best friend. i think what youve done thus far is moer than appropriate. dont try too hard tho. let him know you are there to help him in any way and he can come to you for anything.

asking for advice here works because it gives you a perspective you may not be able to get in other places.

You shouldn't go anywhere for advice and just take it point blank at face value.. whether it be online or from your mom.

 

[Smurfy]

yeah I guess thats just a personal preference on my part. Im not one to ask for advice in any situation really. I dont think Ive ever called up a friend or family member and said "what should I do?"


i guess Im weird.

 

[Smurfy]

I take that back, now that I think about it, I have asked for training advice from people I trust. Lumberg has helped me as has Clint, PolishHammer and Louden. Also some other powerlifters I know (sugarplum knows who Im talking about )

 

[onebigab]

His mind isn't stable right now, so don't try to do too much. He may feel smothered. Let him come to you. Maybe just go out for a drink and let him reminisce(sp) about their good times together. Or you could do this with him and his friends.

As long as he knows your there, he'll be fine.

Our prayers for you and your guy.

 

[EnderJE]

I dunno. I liked a distraction when I lost a friend of mine to drugs. I was pissed at him for days and days for being so stupid. My then gf did her best to distract me. And hell, it worked.

 

[anthrax]

Your presence is all that he needs

 

[black sheep]

A steak and a BJ would do wonders for the guy.

That would perk me up LOL - K for you!