I used to do dumbells. I went up in weight but I never felt it working or feeling my chest sore. Only with decline do I feel like Im hitting my chest, but it doesnt look right to have the bottom of my chest noticable and the middle and top of my chest to look flat.
I looked up another post and someone said that they were pushing with their arms and thats what I think Im doing. My upper arms/shoulders will ache after I bench with a barbell or dumbells.
so WizKid25, just to make sure I understand you right, are you saying that when the bar is low to keep my elbows closer to my rib cage and midway into pushing up bring them out, paralell to the bar?