my wife won't fuck

[Stryker1992]

I have had it dudes, I try hard as hell in the bedroom and I am good. I have her cuming all over before I am ever done. She just stops!

I have to beg her for sex, I eat her pussy and she will not put out!

The only fucking position she knows is missionary and heaven forbid if I suggest something else!

I have chicks coming up to me weekly telling me they would fuck me despite me being married. I am ready to go for it. I am tired of being unsatisified.

What to do!

 

[PBR]

I take it you have talked to her in depth about this, and explained your dilemma....what is her response???

 

[Sundance]

I have had it dudes, I try hard as hell in the bedroom and I am good. I have her cuming all over before I am ever done. She just stops!

I have to beg her for sex, I eat her pussy and she will not put out!

The only fucking position she knows is missionary and heaven forbid if I suggest something else!

I have chicks coming up to me weekly telling me they would fuck me despite me being married. I am ready to go for it. I am tired of being unsatisified.

What to do!

Fuck the horny chicks...WTF? If she is lousy in bed you should seek other chicks that can satisfy you...

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

Re: Re: my wife won't fuck

Fuck the horny chicks...WTF? If she is lousy in bed you should seek other chicks that can satisfy you...

worst advice ever

 

[Sundance]

Re: Re: Re: my wife won't fuck

worst advice ever

I dont think so....It worked for me...

 

[Upper-cruster]

Re: Re: my wife won't fuck

Fuck the horny chicks...WTF? If she is lousy in bed you should seek other chicks that can satisfy you...

Ditto....Or get a divorce....

 

[out_at_sea]

I have had it dudes, I try hard as hell in the bedroom and I am good. I have her cuming all over before I am ever done. She just stops!

I have to beg her for sex, I eat her pussy and she will not put out!

The only fucking position she knows is missionary and heaven forbid if I suggest something else!

I have chicks coming up to me weekly telling me they would fuck me despite me being married. I am ready to go for it. I am tired of being unsatisified.

What to do!

What a lousy fuck you go there!!! She must be frigid!

I had a friend whose wife was frigid despite his best effort to get her aroused she would stay like a dam log.

It is a medical conditon--abnormally averse to sexual intercourse--- that it requires medical attention.

 

[Tiervexx]

I have to beg her for sex, I eat her pussy and she will not put out!

She takes but never gives. in the words of the great 2Thick "forget the bitch and find another"

 

[crimson coal]

Tell her there are three alternatives. Either she makes an effort to make you feel wanted and loved again being the first choice or the second two will be divorce or you cheating on her..It totally being her fault that you did.

 

[out_at_sea]

Tell her there are three alternatives. Either she makes an effort to make you feel wanted and loved again being the first choice or the second two will be divorce or you cheating on her..It totally being her fault that you did.

If she really is frigid , there is nothing she can do..

I will chose the last one....fuck some worhty bitches..

 

[Frackal]

Cheat

or

Divorce

Dont get caught

 

[Stryker1992]

I have told her exactly how I feel, she does not seem to care, she just yells at me!

 

[out_at_sea]

I have told her exactly how I feel, she does not seem to care, she just yells at me!

Dude, I feel sorry for ya for being such a pussy..

WTF? She can satisfy you and now she yells at you..Is she taking any medication? Depression?

Get out and get laid dude....let her yell at walls...Life is too short!

And hos are such a treat!

 

[Tiervexx]

I have told her exactly how I feel, she does not seem to care, she just yells at me!

That is all you need to know!! get the fuck out of there!

Seriously, your marrige is already dead.

 

[Upper-cruster]

I have told her exactly how I feel, she does not seem to care, she just yells at me!

How old are you? Is she older than you?

Did you try to use an intimate enviroment as to candles,champagne etc?

She could be very well frigid as Out at Sea has pointed out..

Get out and get your schlong some real pink.

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

what does she say when she yells at you, I am curious

 

[Upper-cruster]

what does she say when she yells at you, I am curious

"Dont fuck me anymore..."

 

[Devastation]

theres more to this story then you're telling us. why don't you start back at the beginning when she first started doing this and why. we may seriously be able to help you if you tell us what's up

 

[out_at_sea]

The thread is a really sad one...

 

[Frackal]

Not to self on marriage # 99939933

DONT GET MARRIED!!!

 

[jubei]

No shit... WTF is wrong with your wife. She sounds mental. You sound normal except for your incredibly poor choice of spouse. Get the fuck out.

 

[presguy]

i had the same problem. i tried everything from wine to candles to trips on weekends. she used to try and make me feel guilty for trying.

i went 7 months without sex trying to wait it out thinking it would get better. i eventually got some on the side and left her. it may sound shallow, but it causes frustration like ive never had before.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Yup

Been there... Done that.

No fucking way Id waste another day of my life on some cold bitch who doesnt like sex.

Just move on....

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

has she always been that way, or just recently?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

How many hours per week of undivided attention (no tv, no movie, just time with no distractions) do you give one another?

Do you ever try to just go with the flow vs. giving her the feeling that you only want to be with her to fuck her?

Who does the majority of the housework in the relationship?

Are you both in careers?

Do you have any kids? How old?

What is the last thing you did to make her feel appreciated? When was it? How long was it until the time before that?

Have you ever been to any form of marriage counseling?

Are you *nice* to your wife?

Is your wife on medication/birth control?

Are you on anything?

 

[Stryker1992]

theres more to this story then you're telling us. why don't you start back at the beginning when she first started doing this and why. we may seriously be able to help you if you tell us what's up

What are you, my therapist!

 

[Stryker1992]

i had the same problem. i tried everything from wine to candles to trips on weekends. she used to try and make me feel guilty for trying.

i went 7 months without sex trying to wait it out thinking it would get better. i eventually got some on the side and left her. it may sound shallow, but it causes frustration like ive never had before.

Finally, someone who knows what I am saying. I swear to you guys, I am very nice and normal. I have two masters degrees and I am working on my ph d. We spend time together but she likes to watch a lot of tv.

My wife is a pro athlete and I am a retired semi pro. We are 30. She just sucks in bed and is not sexually motivated. I try everything dudes! I am nice, flowers, dinner, eating the pink, kisses on the neck, etc, etc.

 

[gingersnap]

Sounds like she has anger towards you that she for some reason will not openly communicate. This sounds like passive aggressive behavior to me. If you want to save the marriage I think professional counseling would help immensely. Sorry you are going through this, nobody deserves to be treated like that!

 

[Badbart]

Is she on anti-depressants if she is that will kill her sex drive. Same thing happened to me when my ex-wife went on anti-depressants. It was the worst four years of my life. After I got rid of her its been great. Some people are just cold and heartless and a lot of times nothing can be done.

 

[Stryker1992]

After I got rid of her its been great.

Thanks for all the input guys, I am not going to answer all of the questions as it is personal, I am just venting. Believe me anything you can ask I have explored.

I am a psychologist!

 

[Sundance]

.

I am a psychologist!

Not a very good one.. A smart one would have moved on already....

 

[dzuljas]

just slip her some roofies and fuck her while shes passed out j/k

it sucks bro, im not married but i had a girlfriend who had problems with intimacy. Sometimes she would be ok and other times she would be really cold. I hated it, it sucked bigtime. Just tell her that u need intimacy and everything isnt always about what SHE wants.......

 

[Stryker1992]

Not a very good one.. A smart one would have moved on already....

Wow, interesting judgement call based on minimal information. But thanks for your support!

 

[Tiervexx]

Wow, interesting judgement call based on minimal information. But thanks for your support!

You did not give enough information to say anything about any friendship between you and your wife but you did say enough to determine that this is not much of a marriage.

 

[Puddles]

Has she had her hormone levels checked? Test isn't just for muscle development...her levels could be seriously low. She may need hormone replacement therapy.

 

[Upper-cruster]

Wow, interesting judgement call based on minimal information. But thanks for your support!

Dude what more info should we need in order to make a fair assesment as to just "MOVE ON AND GET A DECENT FUCK"....

Or stay in a doomed relationship and cry all over the net for sympathy and comfort.

Be a man!
Your choice!

 

[superr]

Finally, someone who knows what I am saying. I swear to you guys, I am very nice and normal. I have two masters degrees and I am working on my ph d. We spend time together but she likes to watch a lot of tv.

My wife is a pro athlete and I am a retired semi pro. We are 30. She just sucks in bed and is not sexually motivated. I try everything dudes! I am nice, flowers, dinner, eating the pink, kisses on the neck, etc, etc.

i'm in same shoes i kind of like my girl and she kind of does too
but never fucked her, it was 6 month only way i can do anything small time with her is if she is a bit drunk
i do not know what to do, i know bitch will be stalking me and shit, also she will go insane if i dump her but i really get sick of this bullshit all she wants to do is go out and party

 

[presguy]

this is a serious problem when you love someone, but are not getting what you need.

 

[bitter_man]

Sounds like there might be another. Just my 2 cents

 

[rvd_brock]

No one is asking the really preliminary question here:
How was she BEFORE you got married? Same? If so, what made you think things would change? The whole premise of marriage, I believe, is to be with someone you know well enough to be able to deal w/ all the shit. I have a hard time believing that she became frigid the day after your wedding night/honeymoon, so ya know......there's that saying....."LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP".

In a much less likely event, she may be fucking around too, so she doesn't have the energy to........well.......do stuff with you. Any signs of that?

Just my thoughts......

-rvd_brock

 

[birdstang80]

I'm not married or anything, but I agree, fuck the other girls. IMO she is getting it somewhere else anyway. The other girls want to earn it, let them. My buddies ex did the same thing to him and he did nothing about. Then he finds out she's riding some other guy.

 

[Lift Chief]

Whatever you do, don't cheat.

Get a divorce if you have to, don't cheat.

Karma's a bitch.

 

[Sundance]

Whatever you do, don't cheat.

Get a divorce if you have to, don't cheat.

Karma's a bitch.

Dont listen to him...

 

[anabolic24/7]

Sounds like there might be another. Just my 2 cents

Think'n the same thing. Maybe she like's to fuck...just not you.

 

[Stryker1992]

Dude what more info should we need in order to make a fair assesment as to just "MOVE ON AND GET A DECENT FUCK"....

Or stay in a doomed relationship and cry all over the net for sympathy and comfort.

Be a man!
Your choice!

me!

 

[Crazy Ivan]

She is a stupid fuken cunt ! Don't put out, then put her out!
Go fuck some other chicks, be stealth and whatever you do- DO NOT GET CAUGHT !

Don't waste any more of your time with her since she won't appreciate your efforts and love.

 

[Monkey Pox]

Maybe she's a lesbian and just can't break it to you, or just figured it out.

 

[jubei]

hahaha...well she is a dumb bitch that much has been established. Either that or your one ugly motherfucker. Please don't post a pic, I'll take your word on it either way.

 

[geoboy]

I have had it dudes

is this new behavior? if yes, that can mean either depression, new medication, or AFFAIR.

 

[Stryker1992]

hahaha... Either that or your one ugly motherfucker. Please don't post a pic, I'll take your word on it either way.

man

 

[HumpWhore]

you married a Stinger!!! Best advice don't get married, simple as that.

 

[TC2]

Has she had her hormone levels checked? Test isn't just for muscle development...her levels could be seriously low. She may need hormone replacement therapy.

Or she could simply be a selfish bitch, like 90% of women out there.

 

[rvd_brock]

Or she could simply be a selfish bitch, like 90% of women out there.

 

[Throwfarther25]

or she could be fuckin pimpin you out and running her game on you, see next time you have sex you should get yours but make sure she doesnt get hers..... or you will be her whore that she brags about to her friends.... I wouldnt want to be the guy my wife's friends talk about.

 

[under_dawg]

HAHA...no offense dude, but i don't care if you've got 5 masters and 2 phd's....i'm saying you're a dumbass!
i present exhibit A:

Wow, interesting judgement call based on minimal information. But thanks for your support!

What the fuck did you think he was gonna say after you set yourself up like that!

you come on here and give us minimal information....did you really expect someone to solve your problem based on that? just proves my theory that school smarts have no correlation with street smarts....no hard feelings though...i'm just buggin ya!

by the way...did you have sex before you got married? if it was like this then and you got married refer to my above comment and read through again carefully. If not and the sex has deteriorated, then time to evaluate your relationship.
Good luck bro...
UD

 

[robotrider]

Maybe you should show her these posts so she can see what the general consensus is on how she is holding up her half of the marriage.

 

[niloticus]

I don't know

what to tell you about your problem, But I will tell you not to come here for advice, these guys all sound about 12-14 yrs old.

Don't cheat, that lowers you as a human.

What is suprising about all of this is guys sometimes(not the smart ones) often chase girls who haven't had alot of sex(less than 10 partners) thinking these are the good girls and end up with scenarios like this later.

You like sex, want it forever.......get a girl who likes sex...alot. Be happy and forget the rest of the crap.

 

[Just2Flex4Ever]

TALK TO HER IN DEPTH YOU SPOKE TO HER ONCE SPEAK TO HER AGAIN!! Also try this have her start you off with a BLOWJOB whenever you are feeling close move to sex... Make sex fun not an OBLIGATION or CHORE... Like I was saying get a blowjob first when you are feeling close to busting move into having sex... Then see if you can make her cum but make sure you cum... If you bust first make sure you give her oral... But if that doesnt work and you are still having problems of her getting tired or what not have her finish you off with a bowjob!! DO NOT CHEAT!! That is the worst you can do!! " You dont know what you have until you loose it" BUT SPEAK TO HER ABOUT THE SITUATION THUROUGHLY!!! ENJOY...

 

[Big Jroy]

Fuck her first, cum, then make her cum. If she wont go for it then tell her youre gonna leave bro.

 

[fsupat70]

finger her ass women like that, that should get her to do u

 

[Deterass]

Re: Re: Re: my wife won't fuck

worst advice ever

dont listen to her! she's from canada. fuck em all

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

Dude, sorry you are being mentally and emotionally abused by your wife, she must be upset about something.

Forgive me bro, but...could she be having an affair? She is enjoying your begging and eating her pussy, it is giving her the power so to speak. It isn't fair to you, because she is not , in turn, submitting to you.

If no to the affair (and you are sure) then she has an emotional issue to deal with and you should seek counseling. DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE. You should trust her if you know her to be trustworthy, and you should not sleep around until you are no longer married. It will come back to haunt your conscience in future.

If she is not willing to undergo counseling to correct (not only sex issues) but all of your communication issues, then she doesn't love you and you must move on.

Sorry about what you are going through. Being a therapist you should be able to recognize communication issues and have some friends in counseling that you could talk to for a referral to a marriage counselor.
NOT SEX COUNSELOR, but marriage counselor. Fix the emotional problems, and the communication, and the sex should be there.

PEACE, and best of luck.