My teenage son

[A Soft Koala]

F you SB I have nothing to be jelly of. I have no problem getting the puss. You know this.



Seriously. I'm worried that he is gonna lose his virginity to this girl. She looks quite a bit more "advanced" than he is.

Not to upset you more then you are, but how do you know he is still a virgin?

 

[Strongbow]

Raw Dog that bish and say it ain't yours

 

[Strongbow]

Not to upset you more then you are, but how do you know he is still a virgin?

WHo are you the kids father? STFU ngr

 

[SpyWizard]

14?? you should have said.. but son, is she into anal??

jk..

so your son is sexually active at 14 yrs old?? and you are ok with that??

There is a male birth control pill but it's in human trials still, so I'd suggest you get him signed up for "take a baby home" program so many of the high schools have, where he takes it home for the weekend, it cries and makes a mess 3x at night while they are suppose to be sleeping..

Or you could have said

"Really?? that's the most fascinating thing about her is her sexual preference/confusion?? "

 

[canadianhitman]

Not to upset you more then you are, but how do you know he is still a virgin?

This is a good point.

And if he's not, stressing about it is not going to help matters. Preaching abstinence is a fool's errand, too; if he's gonna, he's gonna. Best thing you can do as a parent is to throw him a 12-pack of condoms and tell him you'll kill him with your bare hands if he knocks a girl up, so he'd better be using one EVERY SINGLE TIME (speech about how oftentimes girls that say "relax, I'm on the pill" are LYING, how people can have STDs and look perfectly healthy, ect comes in at this point too). At that stage, you've done your job as a parent...then you have to trust that he's not a fool.

 

[nangiggles]

This is a good point.

And if he's not, stressing about it is not going to help matters. Preaching abstinence is a fool's errand, too; if he's gonna, he's gonna. Best thing you can do as a parent is to throw him a 12-pack of condoms and tell him you'll kill him with your bare hands if he knocks a girl up, so he'd better be using one EVERY SINGLE TIME (speech about how oftentimes girls that say "relax, I'm on the pill" are LYING, how people can have STDs and look perfectly healthy, ect comes in at this point too). At that stage, you've done your job as a parent...then you have to trust that he's not a fool.

I completely agree with canadianhitman, the important thing is to educate him on does and donts of safety, then it's in his hands.

 

[theoak01]

He's 14. And my oldest and I have always been really close. I try not to be that kind of mom that freaks out about things, but I can't help but wonder if this girl uses that to get attention. I'm really trying to be open minded, heck, my sister is bisexual. But she never advertised it. Then again, we grew up in very different times.

pics of your sister or it didnt happen

 

[Strongbow]

V has a family full of fine bishes, no shit

 

[theoak01]

I believe that

 

[just...v]

Not to upset you more then you are, but how do you know he is still a virgin?

I have a good relationship with my son. I know all about his first kiss and other things kids don't usually tell their parents.

And he is my oldest but not the first boy I've raised. I took another boy in and I knew right away when he lost his virginity. There is a noticeable change in attitude and demeanor.