My roommate is dating a guy she thinks is gay. How can she tell for sure?

[p0ink]

so yeah, my roommate is dating a totally gay guy, in both of our opinion, but she wants a definite way to find out whether or not he is gay. i told her sleeping with him won't do it, because some gay guys will do that anyways, especially if they are trying to convince themselves to be straight for what we think might be religious reasons.

he is: an art graduate, professional photographer, too good of a dresser, many stereotypical gay man piercings, talks like christopher lowell and big gay al had a kid, thin, super emotional, etc, etc, etc,

we need a gay litmus test.

 

[javaguru]

Walk naked in front of him and have her watch his reaction.....

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Walk naked in front of him and have her watch his reaction.....

That should do it. Or maybe just come right out and ask him.

Why is she still dating this guy if she thinks he's gay?

 

[notoriousQQ]

she should just fabricate a story and find out - such as, "my fantasy is to have a threesome with two guys and for the guys to be with each other cause that would really turn me on" and see what he thinks about it and get him to elaborate

 

[notoriousQQ]

where's aap when you need him to discuss window treatments, skin care products, fashion, all the tell tale signs. maybe she should ask him if he knows what eros is.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

If he wants to tap that ass, then I'd say he doesn't play for the pink team.

 

[BradG]

Umm... have her hire a male stripper and let the guy she is dating know about it and that it is open to him if he "would feel more comfortable being there while it was going on" then that's alright. If he comes, there's a HIGH chance he's gay, not definate. However, if he watches the stripper rather than watching the girl watching the stripper then he's gay.

 

[obiwan9962]

tell her to get a strap on or vibrator and use it on him and see his reaction

 

[Spartacus]

we need a gay litmus test.

does he eat her pussy?
does he do it well?
as in is it apparent he enjoys it?
or better yet,has he asked to fuck her in the ass?

 

[Longhorn85]

Does he have a female room mate that he is not sleeping with? Oh, never mind.

j/k poink

 

[rnch]

pOink:

butt (no pun intended) out, dude.....this is none of your business. if you try to prove it to her dissatifaction, she will get pissed at YOU. this is called feminine logic. she will find out the truth sooner or later. this is a no-win situation you are settig yourself up for.











unless YOU are hot for the guy.

 

[SoKlueles]

If he wants to tap that ass, then I'd say he doesn't play for the pink team.

thats what i was gonna say great minds think alike

 

[Dial_tone]

does he like doing her in the butt more than the coochie?

 

[Beachbum1546]

ask him what shoes she is wearing. if he gets it right then he is gay.

 

[Spartacus]

when she farts does he get turned on?

 

[p0ink]

pOink:

butt (no pun intended) out, dude.....this is none of your business. if you try to prove it to her dissatifaction, she will get pissed at YOU. this is called feminine logic. she will find out the truth sooner or later. this is a no-win situation you are settig yourself up for.

unless YOU are hot for the guy.

motherfucker, she is the one that had me ask. she is sitting here and had me type this.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

he hit it yet?

 

[CFZB]

ask if he enjoys this.....that oughta do it...

http://dickcream.com/quatre/

 

[SoKlueles]

dang your getting as good as perkele at those posts PERFECT WORLD

 

[krissynicky]

Hey I married a gay marine and never knew he had any tendencies.He is a workout freak and nice looking. Never acted gay at all. I think if he is obsessed with himself and talks about other guys like they are women then there is a problem. I found out after two weeks of marriage that he was sleeping with Steve his workout partner. So he got a double work out after the gym. Most of these confused men try to be straight and try have that normal life but most who are truly gay can't do it. My husband had been sleeping with men since highschool. I would tell your roomate to start talking about maybe bisexual experiences and see if he is willing to try one with a man.

 

[FreeballinDC]

Walk naked in front of him and have her watch his reaction.....

That may not work. What if p0ink is not his type? I've had plenty of guys around me naked, and didn't phase me a bit, all because they weren't my physical types.

 

[EnderJE]

Hey I married a gay marine and never knew he had any tendencies.He is a workout freak and nice looking. Never acted gay at all. I think if he is obsessed with himself and talks about other guys like they are women then there is a problem. I found out after two weeks of marriage that he was sleeping with Steve his workout partner. So he got a double work out after the gym. Most of these confused men try to be straight and try have that normal life but most who are truly gay can't do it. My husband had been sleeping with men since highschool. I would tell your roomate to start talking about maybe bisexual experiences and see if he is willing to try one with a man.

And you're still married?

 

[RaZor Ramon]

Hey I married a gay marine and never knew he had any tendencies.He is a workout freak and nice looking. Never acted gay at all. I think if he is obsessed with himself and talks about other guys like they are women then there is a problem. I found out after two weeks of marriage that he was sleeping with Steve his workout partner. So he got a double work out after the gym. Most of these confused men try to be straight and try have that normal life but most who are truly gay can't do it. My husband had been sleeping with men since highschool. I would tell your roomate to start talking about maybe bisexual experiences and see if he is willing to try one with a man.

Damn Jerry Springer shit all the way. Sorry you had to find found after you got married.

 

[delete]

if the roommate has a picture of her brother and her date gets a chubby from just looking at the pic, that's a sure sign there's trouble in paradise...

 

[2 brains]

Tell her to go buy some porn. Regular ones. Make her buy a gay one to. She then tell him she wants to watch porn together. Later on when he get used to this then one day tell her to pop in the gay one and for her to tell him she likes to watch this shit to. See if he gets hard watching the video.

genius

 

[Muscular Minnesota]

I didn't read all the threads so this may be a dup. If anyone knows a muscle guy that is gay or at least bi, arrange something and see if he picks up on anything. Most gay and bi dudes have a definite weakness for muscle and all it takes is a casual, innocent social setting to get the sparks flying.

 

[FireForEffect]

Hey I am definately NOT gay and I think its kind of hot when a chick farts so that isn't a good litmus test. That probably just makes me a freak!
I also love anal, with women that is. Again, bad litmus.

I think the threesome thing would work best, just ask him if he has ever been with two other people, take it from there. I would guess if he is half a fag he would be into a threesome with a guy and a girl. Sorry but yuck! I have had some threesome's but always without another cock present thank you very much. Whatever floats your boat.

I have noticed that tons of guys nowadays seem gay. Men have been demasculated by our wussy society. Its hard to tell who is gay anymore.

 

[Snarf]

Do any of his 'friends' seem gay too? Can you talk to an ex-girlfriend. Someone else will know what the deal is.