The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother Pay Attention....

[heatherrae]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

i guess 1 out of 2 aint bad huh????

 

[bigmann245]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

can we go best out of 3???

 

[heatherrae]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

can we go best out of 3???

lol...i didn't list 3. I'm a woman of simple tastes.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have been saying this for like, forever.

It is 100% true.

 

[LuluDeren]

This thread did not blow my pants off. JG needs to submit an assvatar.

 

[javaguru]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

and your avatar looks like a mix of greta van susteren and ann coulter

MILF I tapped a few years back....owned an advertising business. I always thought she looked like Coulter too.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have been saying this for like, forever.

It is 100% true.

There are many many men who are bright and witty and have wondefully generous hearts and are strong of character - will be a good partner for you and an excellent male role model to your son. He may not be your physical ideal - so? If his mind and his heart are beautiful then what difference does it make how he looks on the outside?

I am not trying to offend anyone here, but from the vantage point that you cite (and from where I sit too) poor = not too bright. And my number one criteria for perspective date = SMART.

One of the most amazing men that I dated was born BIGTIME backwoods poor, N Carolina DIRT POOR - four to a bed in a one room shack with four beds. He altered his birth certificate and enlisted when he was only 15. The man NEVER even finished high school, let alone attended college. He was INCREDIBLY SMART though. He was 65 when we dated, had EXCELLENT taste, was very down to earth and owned near half the state of Florida. He made every dime honestly and with the power of his BRAIN.

That sort of person is what attracted me and though he was very taken with me he dumped me because he could not handle the drama that my ex was wreaking in my life.... and I can't say that I blamed him, though I felt duped to a certain extent as I never hid it from him and a man of his life experience should have been able to *get it*n before he pursued me full steam ahead. I was happy to keep our relatioship friendly and casual, but he insisted he wanted so much more then just ran when he felt himself getting to close - what kind of lilly livered bullshit was that?

But hey, it was a lesson well-learned. I just realized that to the laundry list, one more characteristic was mandatory in any man I would allow into my life - GUTS and HONOR to back it. So I held out until My Old Grump came along and said that he was up to the task if I would have him.... and so far, he has been.

I am very blessed.

The author of this article may have used slightly different verbage - but we were pretty much saying the same thing. I may not have used the word KIND in these particular posts but I have ad nuaseum on other occasions.

It isn't that hard to weed through the sea of perspective mates once a body figures this out for themselves.

 

[javaguru]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

interesting.

I still think women look for money, guys look for a chick who can get them going multiple pops per night.

Most of the women I've dated haven't valued money as one of their top traits. Maybe it's a SoCal thing.... Of course you have to factor in the women I date tend to be financially successful so it tends to reason a woman making six figures will value money less than the chick making 30k a year.

 

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lol @ bmom quoting herself multiple times then commenting on it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Re: The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off - Healother

Most of the women I've dated haven't valued money as one of their top traits. Maybe it's a SoCal thing.... Of course you have to factor in the women I date tend to be financially successful so it tends to reason a woman making six figures will value money less than the chick making 30k a year.

If a man is SMART then there is no reason that he should be making bank (if he is older) or shouldn't be well on his way to making bank.

I dont understand why some men have trouble making this association.

Why would a quality woman WANT a dumb mate?