I never had an issue with a girl letting me go down on her but then again I never really wanted to cause they all smelled like my last deep sea fishing trip. I hated it!! I have only done it to 2 girl friends and both of them maybe twice a piece and I was with one for 3 years and the other one 4 years. This last girlfriend of about 9 months I absolutely loved it!!! She took great care of herself, showered 3 times a day and always looked and smelled great!! When I would go down on her I would bring a tent and camp out down there until she was pleased and then ask for seconds... I don't know why but she actually tasted very good and I just really enjoyed it. Weird I guess