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My friend is Transgender........

I tend to look at people's soul. Someone who has the need to go through this surgery obviously wasn't born in the correct physical form. Nature/god really does fuck up every now and then.....shocker.....I know it's hard for some of you OT types to digest that. But reality is reality. When a 5 yr old child actually verbalizes to they're parents that they feel in the wrong body........that means something. So I'm inclined to give this person the benefit of the doubt and just call it a woman. Because when all is said and done, after the surgeries and the hormones........it pretty much is with the exception of the internal reproductive organs. If we want to judge women by their capacity to have children......what of women who have had to have their ovaries removed? I can't say either way whether I would date someone like this or not........I guess I'll cross that bridge once I get there.

Blue...........you said she's had "issues" with her new nanay......could you elaborate?

trizo said:
You guys miss the point, this is a GUY!!!!! Who has feelings of being a female, that does not change the fact that he is a DUDE! Just because he butchers off his cock and has it turned inside out to look like a skin sock does not make this person a female.

If it walks like a duck
Quacks like a duck
It’s probably a duck

I'm happy your friends happy, like I said to each his own.
 
blueta2 said:
she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!



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HELL NO!!!!!NO FUCKING WAY IN THE WORLD!!!!!!!!
 
blueta2 said:
she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!

you are serious??

You really think she shouldn't tell the guy right away??

Yeah she should tell that shit up front and you are playing with your friends life by telling her that shit.

She is going to run into like me who would have no problem giving her a Sicilian Necktie over that shit.
 
myway said:
Maybe I just don't understand because I am a woman.
I have never needed a boob job but didn't think less of a woman who did.
I love being a woman. If a man spent their entire life feeling like a woman trapped in a man's body...just sounds sad to me.
I think people should get to be what they feel.
Fat men on here are trying to be skinny. Skinny men want to be buff.
No boobed women buy boobs.
Seriously, if everything tells u that u are a woman...whats wrong with changing ur body to match the soul contained within?

Are you on meds????

you gotta be on something to even consider that this is the same thing as a natural born woman getting implants.

She/he wtf ever can slice and dice whatever she/he wants and be what ever she/he wants BUT...a man or woman getting romantically or sexually involved or even thinking about that person in that way has every right to be told upfront and right away.
 
TC2 said:
Are you on meds????

you gotta be on something to even consider that this is the same thing as a natural born woman getting implants.

She/he wtf ever can slice and dice whatever she/he wants and be what ever she/he wants BUT...a man or woman getting romantically or sexually involved or even thinking about that person in that way has every right to be told upfront and right away.

Wow. Sounds like maybe YOU need some meds. This seems to be a touchy subject for you. :worried: Are you doing ok? I hope I didn't destroy ur entire day.
 
Posting this thread on EF is a good idea.

I'm sure you'll get good, honest, non-sarcastic comments and plenty of positive feedback.
 
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i'm a bit confused about your friend/specimen, blueta2. you originally referred to this person as a 'he' that became a 'she.' i'm working off the assumption that this is a dude who wanted to make his physical/hormonal/etc. profile as much like a woman's as possible.

but you're saying that the former 'he' was never really a male because 'he' has had a largely female genetic makeup all along, but wanted to remove some 'minor' external appendages and become more like the woman 'he' already is?

you and myway have crazied up this thread like a motherfucker.
 
Blueta, you didn't answer to the two posts saying this but I urge you not to encourage her to wait to tell people. ATW is right - do that with the wrong person, and she could end up dead. It's not worth her life to take the chance.
 
The best thing to do in any situation is to be honest.

That is that. THere is no way she will ever be able to keep any relationship and she will end up hurting herself and others. No good will come from not beign totally upfront about it.

Just because there are not many men out there who are okay with this situation does not make it okay to delay the truth. One day she will find someone to love her for her.
 
if she gets romantically involved with someone, and engages in sexual intercourse BEFORE she tells them, it could end VERY badly for her should the person ever find out <PERIOD>!

sucks that she has to go through this, but she isnt a "real" woman plain and simple. to not be honest with potential lovers would be more fucked up than her being "rejected". you cant force your own issues down other peoples throats.
 
That's like swapping a Ferrari engine into a Chevy. The specs might be close to a ferrari but it's still not the real deal.
 
myway said:
Wow. Sounds like maybe YOU need some meds. This seems to be a touchy subject for you. :worried: Are you doing ok? I hope I didn't destroy ur entire day.
Hes right. Its a lot more than simply "oh I dont have a penis and balls so Im a real woman and everything is just dandy". Every man who gets involved with a woman does so assuming that the woman is a 100% female, not a male who got chopped on and given hormones. The psychological ramifications for both parties (not to mention the potential physical danger she puts herself in) are severe. I would also be willing to bet that if she decided to not tell anyone and it is found out at an inopportune time and she gets the hell beat out of her a court would probably not even find the guy guilty of any wrongdoing. Besides she might even regret going through with the surgery later on, Im sure thats happened before.
 
myway said:
Wow. Sounds like maybe YOU need some meds. This seems to be a touchy subject for you. :worried: Are you doing ok? I hope I didn't destroy ur entire day.


I'm fine...its you women and your fucked up logic never cease to amaze me.
 
redsamurai said:
I tend to look at people's soul. Someone who has the need to go through this surgery obviously wasn't born in the correct physical form. Nature/god really does fuck up every now and then.....shocker.....I know it's hard for some of you OT types to digest that. But reality is reality. When a 5 yr old child actually verbalizes to they're parents that they feel in the wrong body........that means something. So I'm inclined to give this person the benefit of the doubt and just call it a woman. Because when all is said and done, after the surgeries and the hormones........it pretty much is with the exception of the internal reproductive organs. If we want to judge women by their capacity to have children......what of women who have had to have their ovaries removed? I can't say either way whether I would date someone like this or not........I guess I'll cross that bridge once I get there.

Blue...........you said she's had "issues" with her new nanay......could you elaborate?

issue like spotting (blood) and some swelling
 
After further thought...my stance on the honesty thing goes beyond just for her safety.

To engage in any physical act with another man, even kissing, and not revealing this beforehand is a violation. It's intentionally withholding information from someone because you know they might not be physical with you if they knew - and while it doesn't pose the same health risks, it's no different in principle than knowing you have herpes and sleeping with someone without telling them. If you're going to be physical at all with someone they have a right to have all the pertinent information. You may not see her transgender status as relevant - but many many others will, and they should be able to make that choice for themselves.

I'm sure your friend is lovely...and it's a brave thing she did, and it's sad knowing how difficult her life will be as a result. She might have some luck with bisexual men? In any case...she shouldn't resort to trickery, and it seems that she knows that. It's unsafe...and it's not fair to her potential partners.
 
TC2 said:
you are serious??

You really think she shouldn't tell the guy right away??

Yeah she should tell that shit up front and you are playing with your friends life by telling her that shit.

She is going to run into like me who would have no problem giving her a Sicilian Necktie over that shit.


nah, I changed my tune. I think she would need to tell them right away.
Better to be honest
 
patsfan1379 said:
Posting this thread on EF is a good idea.

I'm sure you'll get good, honest, non-sarcastic comments and plenty of positive feedback.

you don't give enough credit to some super smart well informed EF members.
Not everyone here is a tool ;-)
 
jackangel said:
i'm a bit confused about your friend/specimen, blueta2. you originally referred to this person as a 'he' that became a 'she.' i'm working off the assumption that this is a dude who wanted to make his physical/hormonal/etc. profile as much like a woman's as possible.

but you're saying that the former 'he' was never really a male because 'he' has had a largely female genetic makeup all along, but wanted to remove some 'minor' external appendages and become more like the woman 'he' already is?

you and myway have crazied up this thread like a motherfucker.


Well I met her when she was in a mans body. She was a she since she was born. She always felt like a SHE and had a penis.
I'm not sure why you're confused
 
I wonder if this procedure has been around long enough and there are enough data points to see the stats for those who regretted getting a sex change.
 
manny78 said:
That's like swapping a Ferrari engine into a Chevy. The specs might be close to a ferrari but it's still not the real deal.
ummmmmmm I think you mean swapping a chevy for a Ferrari

Thanks
 
blueta2 said:
Well I met her when she was in a mans body. She was a she since she was born. She always felt like a SHE and had a penis.
I'm not sure why you're confused

Is this thread secretly about tatyana?
 
nefertiti said:
After further thought...my stance on the honesty thing goes beyond just for her safety.

To engage in any physical act with another man, even kissing, and not revealing this beforehand is a violation. It's intentionally withholding information from someone because you know they might not be physical with you if they knew - and while it doesn't pose the same health risks, it's no different in principle than knowing you have herpes and sleeping with someone without telling them. If you're going to be physical at all with someone they have a right to have all the pertinent information. You may not see her transgender status as relevant - but many many others will, and they should be able to make that choice for themselves.

I'm sure your friend is lovely...and it's a brave thing she did, and it's sad knowing how difficult her life will be as a result. She might have some luck with bisexual men? In any case...she shouldn't resort to trickery, and it seems that she knows that. It's unsafe...and it's not fair to her potential partners.


you're right and it was weird for me at first when I saw her for the first time as a woman. I called her by her male name first (her name was Brian....haha)
But she was so hot, I was shocked. She has the hottest dress on that day.
Everyone who knows her and works with her accepted this. As I am sure some men will. Her heart will win them over :-)
 
superdave said:
I wonder if this procedure has been around long enough and there are enough data points to see the stats for those who regretted getting a sex change.


She will NEVER regret it.........ever!
 
blueta2 said:
yes it's fully functional and no her hands are sexy. Long nails and thin

does she have an adams apple?

and you're SUUURE it's fully functional?

I need a pic..

though I'm entirely hetrosexual, I'd give her a date, hah.

Why not.

I bet 80% of the people in this thread would hit it, but it's the internet so everybody acts all tough.

I'm sure they've slain worse dragons, then a fake vagina!

fuck I mean I bet 50% of them use a fleshlight for crying outloud.. (though I guess that wasn't made with a penis)
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
does she have an adams apple?

and you're SUUURE it's fully functional?

I need a pic..

though I'm entirely hetrosexual, I'd give her a date, hah.

Why not.

I bet 80% of the people in this thread would hit it, but it's the internet so everybody acts all tough.

I'm sure they've slain worse dragons, then a fake vagina!

fuck I mean I bet 50% of them use a fleshlight for crying outloud.. (though I guess that wasn't made with a penis)



She had the adams apple shaved but it was so faint anyway. She was a femine "male"
I've never seen it or touched it (nor would I), but she claims it's fully functional.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
does she have an adams apple?

and you're SUUURE it's fully functional?

I need a pic..

though I'm entirely hetrosexual, I'd give her a date, hah.

Why not.

I bet 80% of the people in this thread would hit it, but it's the internet so everybody acts all tough.

I'm sure they've slain worse dragons, then a fake vagina!

fuck I mean I bet 50% of them use a fleshlight for crying outloud.. (though I guess that wasn't made with a penis)

Since when does "acting all tough" mean that you don't want to fuck a "chick" who used to be a man??
 
blueta2 said:
She had the adams apple shaved but it was so faint anyway. She was a femine "male"
I've never seen it or touched it (nor would I), but she claims it's fully functional.

Why wouldn't you touch it?

do you have a picture of her.. not her vagina..
 
TC2 said:
Since when does "acting all tough" mean that you don't want to fuck a "chick" who used to be a man??

I'm saying get fucking loaded.. you're looking at a gorgeous WOMAN who looks exactly like a woman who has breasts.. an ass.. etc..

and you juuust might..

but I guess everyone on here is a fucking mind reader.

Seriously though, everyone on EF acts like an uber tough I'm super badass hyped up on my testosterone.

I don't want to fuck a chick who used to be a man, but if there are absolutely no signs of any sort of manhood left behind then I don't exactly think it would be a homosexual act.

I might be convinced to do it.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
I don't want to fuck a chick who used to be a man, but if there are absolutely no signs of any sort of manhood left behind then I don't exactly think it would be a homosexual act.

I might be convinced to do it.

I don't think it makes a man gay if he has sex with a transgender.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
I'm saying get fucking loaded.. you're looking at a gorgeous WOMAN who looks exactly like a woman who has breasts.. an ass.. etc..

and you juuust might..

but I guess everyone on here is a fucking mind reader.

Seriously though, everyone on EF acts like an uber tough I'm super badass hyped up on my testosterone.

I don't want to fuck a chick who used to be a man, but if there are absolutely no signs of any sort of manhood left behind then I don't exactly think it would be a homosexual act.

I might be convinced to do it.


I'm not saying me or anybody couldn't be fooled into that shit....I'm talking if you know she used to have a cock and balls and you still fuck her...uhhh yeah you are gay.
 
I'd like to say that men (in general) are secure enough to date her and not freak out if they ever find out. I'm sorry to say that I would probably freak out and start hanging out at the Blue Oyster.

Tackleberry!
 
EnderJE said:
I'd like to say that men (in general) are secure enough to date her and not freak out if they ever find out. I'm sorry to say that I would probably freak out and start hanging out at the Blue Oyster.

Tackleberry!

Well from this thread, I'm seeing many men would freak.
I think love is love though. If you fall in love with somene, sometimes it doesn't matter.
 
blueta2 said:
Well from this thread, I'm seeing many men would freak.
I think love is love though. If you fall in love with somene, sometimes it doesn't matter.


I think as long as the person told me "before" we got intimate, I'd be cool. I say that because I'd feel like if she waited till after, it would seem a bit "manipulative". Honestly, I don't know if I'd have major problem with it.........I guess it would just depend on the person. But no way would I flip out on someone if they were honest with me...........unless of course they gave me the herpaleeze or something....... :lmao:
 
redsamurai said:
I think as long as the person told me "before" we got intimate, I'd be cool. I say that because I'd feel like if she waited till after, it would seem a bit "manipulative". Honestly, I don't know if I'd have major problem with it.........I guess it would just depend on the person. But no way would I flip out on someone if they were honest with me...........unless of course they gave me the herpaleeze or something....... :lmao:


What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man :-)

So when u hooking up with my sis?
 
i think it would be hot if her brother was her sister
hawtness

I wonder if they would compare pussies
 
Wulfgar said:
i think it would be hot if her brother was her sister
hawtness

I wonder if they would compare pussies


every man should have a friend like you......who his SO will obviously despise, but god what greatness. Wulf, you remind me of arty in beer league.......just that awesome appalingness that keeps us all young.... :lmao:
 
redsamurai said:
every man should have a friend like you......who his SO will obviously despise, but god what greatness. Wulf, you remind me of arty in beer league.......just that awesome appalingness that keeps us all young.... :lmao:
thanks man
I am honored

:beer:
 
Wulfgar said:
KB is awesome
I gotta meet that dude up for drinks soon
we live like 15 min apart

I don't think I could stand a night with the two of you.......my stomach would be in such pain from choking back the giggles all night.
 
blueta2 said:
and is fully healed from her operation. She wants to start dating, but has no idea how to approach it.
Would guys be totally freaked knowing their girl was a former male?
Even though she has all the female parts, is super cool and is amazingly hot?!


Serious answers please...........unless it's ATW cat pics


It's sad that someone has to resort to physically changing gender before something much more simple like hormonal therapy. No one in their right mind will touch "her" now. She'll basically have to limit herself to the transgender pool so as to avoid damaging anyone else's psyche.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
It's sad that someone has to resort to physically changing gender before something much more simple like hormonal therapy. No one in their right mind will touch "her" now. She'll basically have to limit herself to the transgender pool so as to avoid damaging anyone else's psyche.

I think the person in question did hormone therapy first bro......I don't you think they'd do SRS to some guy walking in looking like a big hairy biker. You have to go through alot of shit before they give you that op.
 
blueta2 said:
What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man :-)

So when u hooking up with my sis?
Yes, hook up with her sis and post up what a freak she is and how she now stalks you. Like all EF conquests.
 
patsfan1379 said:
how does shim get wet enough for bangin' seems like a brotha would essentially be bangin a dry pocket of skin.

fuggin gross
that's why I asked how it looks and how it actually works.

also, if there's no Gspot and no clit, how does "she" have an orgasm? or DOES she?
I ask all the tough questions
Im here all night folks
 
Wulfgar said:
Transgendered pussies are better to look at than real pussies
i was reading how they tuck the balls up in the vag area during surgery
so trannies with a fake vag can still have orgasms i guess
 
bluetah no shit post pics
not like your friend will ever find out...and she walks around in pubic right? how is that any different than posting a pic online? post it
 
blueta2 said:
she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!


But it isn't a woman. Just because it got boobs, had the surgery, and takes estrogen pills doesn't mean it's a woman. If a black person bleached his skin and straightened his hair it wouldn't make him white or asian.
 
Vagabino said:
i was reading how they tuck the balls up in the vag area during surgery
so trannies with a fake vag can still have orgasms i guess

wtf...how would that help having orgasm? Getting pounded in the balls does not make for a good time.
 
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