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My friend is Transgender........

blueta2

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and is fully healed from her operation. She wants to start dating, but has no idea how to approach it.
Would guys be totally freaked knowing their girl was a former male?
Even though she has all the female parts, is super cool and is amazingly hot?!


Serious answers please...........unless it's ATW cat pics
 
I would NEVER post her pic but yes I have some
And yes Smurf, it works but she has had some issues with it.

And yes I am dead serious. She wants to start dating but believes no normal guy will date her.
 
blueta2 come on now. What kind of logical thinking would make a straight man want to be with a tranny? To anwser your question it's a big fat HELL NO!
 
blueta2 said:
I would NEVER post her pic but yes I have some
And yes Smurf, it works but she has had some issues with it.

And yes I am dead serious. She wants to start dating but believes no normal guy will date her.

I SERIOUSLY really know someone like that. Went to high school with her. Actually, she's more pretty than me. That's the only reason I asked about pics. I don't know if she tells the men about how she once was a man..... but she does a good job hitting up the sugar daddys. Seriously.
 
Mysterio said:
blueta2 come on now. What kind of logical thinking would make a straight man want to be with a tranny? To anwser your question it's a big fat HELL NO!


she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!
 
Mysterio said:
blueta2 come on now. What kind of logical thinking would make a straight man want to be with a tranny? To anwser your question it's a big fat HELL NO!
I agree with this. You know guys won't go for that. Does she plan to tell everyone she gets close to about it right off the bat?
 
myway said:
I SERIOUSLY really know someone like that. Went to high school with her. Actually, she's more pretty than me. That's the only reason I asked about pics. I don't know if she tells the men about how she once was a man..... but she does a good job hitting up the sugar daddys. Seriously.



I bet she doesn't tell them. There is no need since really they are women.
I believe anyway
My friend is a sugar momma. Makes a TON of money!
 
silverstar1025 said:
I agree with this. You know guys won't go for that. Does she plan to tell everyone she gets close to about it right off the bat?

She wants to tell them, I told her not to. Let them get to know her so they can see how awesome she is
 
blueta2 said:
I bet she doesn't tell them. There is no need since really they are women.
I believe anyway
My friend is a sugar momma. Makes a TON of money!

If she told them then they would all run! Only ones she would get to stay I bet wouldl be bi guys
 
THere is a difference between transexual and transgender.

there are actual people out there born as a female OR male, but may be a hermaphrodite (sp?) partially. you can be a predominant sex...look like a girl, talk like a girl, be chromosomilly and develop like one but still have male genetalia.
and you know, if they(attractive ones) got the surgery....you wouldn't have a fuckin clue

i saw on hbo special on this once. it's crazy, but it happens in alot of parts of nature

rumor has it that jamie lee curtis was one of the above and her operation done when she was little.
 
blueta2 said:
she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!

Don't say that!! Once a man always a man.
 
Can she have an orgasm or did she give that up? Will she be on meds the rest of her life?
 
blueta2 said:
she's not a tranny. She's transgender. She's a full functioning female now.

So no.........should she not tell the guys right away she is transgender.
I said not to say anything since she is a woman........period!

She has to be honest. He/she might be lucky and find someone that will be open minded. I just know about 99% wouldn't go for that. Tough situation.
 
Arabian said:
Can she have an orgasm or did she give that up? Will she be on meds the rest of her life?


ohhhhhhh I never asked her that.........I will let her offer that info up....hahah!
 
blueta2 said:
I bet she doesn't tell them. There is no need since really they are women.
I believe anyway
My friend is a sugar momma. Makes a TON of money!

I think it's her choice to tell or not to tell.
Good for ur friend. She will prolly be more happy not needing a sugar daddy.
Pisses me off when people tell people what rules they should use in life. If it's not hurting anyone----> leave em' alone. It's her choice to tell or not.
Maybe if a relationship gets serious enough to want to tell everything..then still... it's up to her. PERIOD.
 
calveless wonder said:
THere is a difference between transexual and transgender.

there are actual people out there born as a female OR male, but may be a hermaphrodite (sp?) partially. you can be a predominant sex...look like a girl, talk like a girl, be chromosomilly and develop like one but still have male genetalia.
and you know, if they(attractive ones) got the surgery....you wouldn't have a fuckin clue

i saw on hbo special on this once. it's crazy, but it happens in alot of parts of nature

rumor has it that jamie lee curtis was one of the above and her operation done when she was little.

I heard that about Jamie lee as well, but think it's bs.......but who knows!

But the rest of what you are saying is 100% correct. She knows she's been a woman her whole life. And when I knew her as a man, I was like "GIRL, you need to come out"....haha!
 
Mysterio said:
She has to be honest. He/she might be lucky and find someone that will be open minded. I just know about 99% wouldn't go for that. Tough situation.


It's very tough. I tell her to be honest, but not right away.
 
myway said:
I think it's her choice to tell or not to tell.
Good for ur friend. She will prolly be more happy not needing a sugar daddy.
Pisses me off when people tell people what rules they should use in life. If it's not hurting anyone----> leave em' alone. It's her choice to tell or not.
Maybe if a relationship gets serious enough to want to tell everything..then still... it's up to her. PERIOD.


She is so happy now too and will attract a great soul I'm sure.

I wonder if my guy told me he used to be a woman if I would freak.
I think I would be mad that he held off for so long, but I would not leave him because of it.
It would explain his most perfect penis though :-)
 
blueta2 said:
It's very tough. I tell her to be honest, but not right away.


It's gonna take some courage and alot of rejection to come. One reason why, not to have one night stands anymore. It's scary out there and you never know what you just got into bed with.
 
blueta2 said:
and is fully healed from her operation. She wants to start dating, but has no idea how to approach it.
Would guys be totally freaked knowing their girl was a former male?
Even though she has all the female parts, is super cool and is amazingly hot?!


Serious answers please...........unless it's ATW cat pics


Yes, seriously, seriously freaked.

No, he doesn't have all the female parts.

His best bet is to be honest from day one and find someone cool with it. I could not deal with it and I would react very badly. I am guessing that most guys would feel the same.
 
blueta2 said:
and is fully healed from her operation. She wants to start dating, but has no idea how to approach it.
Would guys be totally freaked knowing their girl was a former male?
Even though she has all the female parts, is super cool and is amazingly hot?!


Serious answers please...........unless it's ATW cat pics

To each his own but I would be totally freaked out. And he/she doesn't have all the female parts, she/he has a butchered cock made to look like a hatchet wound.
 
calveless wonder said:
THere is a difference between transexual and transgender.

there are actual people out there born as a female OR male, but may be a hermaphrodite (sp?) partially. you can be a predominant sex...look like a girl, talk like a girl, be chromosomilly and develop like one but still have male genetalia.
and you know, if they(attractive ones) got the surgery....you wouldn't have a fuckin clue

i saw on hbo special on this once. it's crazy, but it happens in alot of parts of nature

rumor has it that jamie lee curtis was one of the above and her operation done when she was little.


i don't know much about this, but i just checked the meaning of transgender, and it seems that this is a general term which encompasses transsexuality. what is your impression of the difference between these two terms?

blueta2, what are you talking about? someone who undergoes surgery to 'become' a woman will never actually be a woman. it doesn't matter what 'she' looks or feels like. obviously, it takes an unusual man to go for that.
 
blueta2 said:
She is so happy now too and will attract a great soul I'm sure.

I wonder if my guy told me he used to be a woman if I would freak.
I think I would be mad that he held off for so long, but I would not leave him because of it.
It would explain his most perfect penis though :-)

EXACTLY.
Imagine if she would have just stayed a man!?!?! That would be sad. Imagine if you could never be who you felt like you were? Sad.
I wish her the best.
 
Mysterio said:
It's gonna take some courage and alot of rejection to come. One reason why, not to have one night stands anymore. It's scary out there and you never know what you just got into bed with.

Yeah she knows she will get rejected a lot.
She is the CFO of one of the largest co's in Canada and her boss and all her coworkers were SO cool with it. She feels if they accepted, men just may.

She would never have a one night stand. She's been full transgender for close to 2 yrs now and has not used the new equipment yet ;-)
 
blueta2 said:
Yeah she knows she will get rejected a lot.
She is the CFO of one of the largest co's in Canada and her boss and all her coworkers were SO cool with it. She feels if they accepted, men just may.

She would never have a one night stand. She's been full transgender for close to 2 yrs now and has not used the new equipment yet ;-)


CFO?? $$$$$$$$$ There might be hope for he/she just yet.
 
blueta2 said:
I would NEVER post her pic but yes I have some
And yes Smurf, it works but she has had some issues with it.

And yes I am dead serious. She wants to start dating but believes no normal guy will date her.
she's got a surgically implanted love canal? I bet its tighter than tight
 
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trizo said:
To each his own but I would be totally freaked out. And he/she doesn't have all the female parts, she/he has a butchered cock made to look like a hatchet wound.

U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.
 
Smurfy said:
she's got a surgically implanted love canal? I bet its tighter than tight

A complete reconstruction of a penis is done on both cisgendered men who have lost their penis through either illness or accidents, and transmen, that is, female-to-male transgendered or transsexual people.

The basic procedures are the same, (except in extreme cases of micro/macropenis) although surgery on cisgendered men is usually a lot simpler, since the urethra still ends in the front of the genital area, whereas the urethra of transmen ends near the vaginal opening and has to be lengthened considerably. The lengthening of the urethra is the most difficult part of phalloplasty, and also the one where most complications occur.

With all types of phalloplasty in transmen, the labia (see vulva) are united to form a scrotum, where prosthetic testicles can be inserted.

An erectile prosthesis can be inserted into the neo-phallus to replace the erectile tissue and enable sexual penetration. This is usually done in separate surgery for healing reasons. There are several types of erectile prostheses, ranging from simple rods that have a hinge so that the neo-penis can either stand up or hang down, to elaborate pumping systems.

There are three different techniques for phalloplasty:

Free graft from the arm or leg
This technique involves using a free graft of tissue, usually from the inner side of the forearm, sometimes from the upper arm or the leg. This tissue is removed from its original place, rolled up, with a part of it forming the new urethra, and grafted to its new place between the thighs.

For transmen, the urethra up to this point is formed from the inner labia. Often, this is done in a separate procedure, sometimes a full-scale metoidioplasty is done a few months before the actual phalloplasty to prevent complications or make intervention easier when they occur.

Sensation is retained through the clitoris which is at the base of the neo-phallus; also, often a large nerve in the graft is connected to nerves either from the clitoris or other nearby nerves. Also, nerves from the graft and the tissue it has been attached to usually connect after a while, thereby allowing additional sensation.

This is by far the most common surgical technique for phalloplasty today, and also the one which produces the best results in both function and aesthetics.
 
You know I lived in Thailand for years and there are numorous transgender ladies there. It is really just a normal part of their society and you actually know people that have dated or married one.

I would give this advice, she needs to be upfront with the men she dates. Guys get pissed when the find out after the fact.

Some guys dig it. I saw on a special one time on HBO where the guy said it is the perfect relationship - she has the sex drive of a man but all the working parts of a woman.

Good luck to her.
 
myway said:
U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.


It's just because it was a guy before sweety. It has to be 100% women for a straight guy.
 
myway said:
U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.

Boobs are a totally diffrent ball park. We are talking about cutting off your dick and turning it into a vagina and this is a GUY not a girl. So yea it's WAY diffrent IMO.
 
Smurfy said:
she's got a surgically implanted love canal? I bet its tighter than tight

She said her gynecomastia could not tell almost it was constructed, cept for a few things.
I guess she would be tight..........hahah!


Friggin abbrev thingy

HER GYNOCOLOGIST
 
blueta2 said:
I would NEVER post her pic but yes I have some
And yes Smurf, it works but she has had some issues with it.

And yes I am dead serious. She wants to start dating but believes no normal guy will date her.

I hate to say it, but she's right. It's going to be difficult for a heterosexual male to accept that his partner is XY. I know it would be a deal-breaker with me. She might have better luck with bi dudes, maybe she should hang out at a gay bar?
 
myway said:
EXACTLY.
Imagine if she would have just stayed a man!?!?! That would be sad. Imagine if you could never be who you felt like you were? Sad.
I wish her the best.

ahh thanks.....
You know...........she is her authetic self and I never saw her smile this much before her surgery.
 
i would have to start out friends with the post op, and have to scope it out.

if i randomly hooked up with someone and then later on in the dating process they "broke the news"....well thatd be stupid of them.

tell her to start as friends and be honest and eventually she will find a guy almost as nice as me
 
mountain muscle said:
Yes, seriously, seriously freaked.

No, he doesn't have all the female parts.

His best bet is to be honest from day one and find someone cool with it. I could not deal with it and I would react very badly. I am guessing that most guys would feel the same.

no, she does have all the parts. She has a vajayjay and a excellent set of boobs, what other parts are there?
 
billfred said:
You know I lived in Thailand for years and there are numorous transgender ladies there. It is really just a normal part of their society and you actually know people that have dated or married one.

I would give this advice, she needs to be upfront with the men she dates. Guys get pissed when the find out after the fact.

Some guys dig it. I saw on a special one time on HBO where the guy said it is the perfect relationship - she has the sex drive of a man but all the working parts of a woman.

Good luck to her.
+1 honesty is the best policy.
 
trizo said:
Boobs are a totally diffrent ball park. We are talking about cutting off your dick and turning it into a vagina and this is a GUY not a girl. So yea it's WAY diffrent IMO.

Maybe I just don't understand because I am a woman.
I have never needed a boob job but didn't think less of a woman who did.
I love being a woman. If a man spent their entire life feeling like a woman trapped in a man's body...just sounds sad to me.
I think people should get to be what they feel.
Fat men on here are trying to be skinny. Skinny men want to be buff.
No boobed women buy boobs.
Seriously, if everything tells u that u are a woman...whats wrong with changing ur body to match the soul contained within?
 
jackangel said:
i don't know much about this, but i just checked the meaning of transgender, and it seems that this is a general term which encompasses transsexuality. what is your impression of the difference between these two terms?

blueta2, what are you talking about? someone who undergoes surgery to 'become' a woman will never actually be a woman. it doesn't matter what 'she' looks or feels like. obviously, it takes an unusual man to go for that.

being male or female is defined by chromosomes. Trust me, she is a she born with a penis. It happens all the time.

I think it takes a man that is secure with himself to go for that no?
 
myway said:
U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.

There's a huge difference. Breast implants augment something real that's already there. A fake vagina is a hole that was cut between a man's legs.
 
myway said:
U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.


I agree. Fake boobs or vag is the same thing. They both are functional
 
SublimeZM said:
i would have to start out friends with the post op, and have to scope it out.

if i randomly hooked up with someone and then later on in the dating process they "broke the news"....well thatd be stupid of them.

tell her to start as friends and be honest and eventually she will find a guy almost as nice as me

she would be lucky to find a nice guy like you. At least you would know she wasn't a man hater ;-)
 
blueta2 said:
She wants to tell them, I told her not to. Let them get to know her so they can see how awesome she is

She could end up dead. Seriously.
 
You ever here the joke about the guy who pics this chick up at the bar in Thailand?

He gets her back to the hotel and finds out she has a dick. He was so pissed off he almost didn't fuck him.

Sad part is it probably happens more than most men admit. I remember distinctly there was this poor guy from an un-named oil company that sounded like YOU KNOW CAL that pics this girl up from the bar/ turns out to be a dood/ they play slap and giggle take pics etc. She goes and turns it all in at the local paper. Needles to say, he was divorced shortly after.
 
blueta2 said:
I agree. Fake boobs or vag is the same thing. They both are functional

Second time tonight I have to disagree with you.

Boobs just sit there and look good (sometimes), but I fail to see how a fake vag can get wet. Totally non-functional.

And why the hell am I posting here?
 
blueta2 said:
Yeah she knows she will get rejected a lot.
She is the CFO of one of the largest co's in Canada and her boss and all her coworkers were SO cool with it. She feels if they accepted, men just may.

She would never have a one night stand. She's been full transgender for close to 2 yrs now and has not used the new equipment yet ;-)


Damn she is almost real woman now!

She denies she would ever have a one night stand. :rolleyes:
 
blueta2 said:
I agree. Fake boobs or vag is the same thing. They both are functional

You guys miss the point, this is a GUY!!!!! Who has feelings of being a female, that does not change the fact that he is a DUDE! Just because he butchers off his cock and has it turned inside out to look like a skin sock does not make this person a female.

If it walks like a duck
Quacks like a duck
It’s probably a duck

I'm happy your friends happy, like I said to each his own.
 
blueta2 just tell he/she to be honest right away. Could be hurt really bad if she dosen't let them know. Trust me ok.
 
Jack Schitt said:
There is a lesbian trapped in Jack Schitt's body. This I know.

There is a lesbian trapped in ATW's basement. This I know
 
myway said:
U are completely entitled to ur opinion.... but men never complain when a woman gets fake boobs but suddenly a fake vagina is wrong?
Maybe im crazy but it doesn't make sense to me.


Not crazy, but fake boobs are still functional, you can breast feed a child with them.

Can you have a child with a fake vag?

And yes a fake vag is wrong if you are not 100% honest from day one with the man. Fake eyelashes, lips, tits, hair extensions, push-up bras, make up, collagen etc. are bad enough to have to sift through already.
 
Jack Schitt said:
Second time tonight I have to disagree with you.

Boobs just sit there and look good (sometimes), but I fail to see how a fake vag can get wet. Totally non-functional.

And why the hell am I posting here?


She gets wet........hahah! She does. Not that I was there but she told me
 
trizo said:
You guys miss the point, this is a GUY!!!!! Who has feelings of being a female, that does not change the fact that he is a DUDE! Just because he butchers off his cock and has it turned inside out to look like a skin sock does not make this person a female.

If it walks like a duck
Quacks like a duck
It’s probably a duck

I'm happy your friends happy, like I said to each his own.

but what you're not getting is, chromosones determine if someone is male or female, not just body parts.
 
Mysterio said:
blueta2 just tell he/she to be honest right away. Could be hurt really bad if she dosen't let them know. Trust me ok.

yeah I worry about that. I tell her to wait a little bit. Date and be friend with the guy and then tell him
 
blueta2 said:
you think?

If said tranny is attractive and looks/sounds completely like a woman, how would they know? (especially if they'd been drinking @ a club/bar or something).
 
Cal_21 said:
If said tranny is attractive and looks/sounds completely like a woman, how would they know? (especially if they'd been drinking @ a club/bar or something).


never thought of that..........I guess what you don't know won't hurt right?
 
blueta2 said:
never thought of that..........I guess what you don't know won't hurt right?


Well that's just sex. I think if your friend wants a relationship honesty is still the cornerstone. Gender issue or not.
 
Cal_21 said:
Well that's just sex. I think if your friend wants a relationship honesty is still the cornerstone. Gender issue or not.


Yeah she wants to meet a great guy. She deserves it.

Men are so picky.........penis. vag...all the same ;-)
 
superdave said:
a sex change operation is a sure sign of not having any of your shit together.

actually, it's not. She found her true self and had the courage to face who she really is. I would say that is having your shit together
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
I can't help but think a fake vag feels totally different

You better just keep working on getting a real one first.


seriuu.jpg
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
I can't help but think a fake vag feels totally different
It has to. theres nothing like the real natural thing and anyone with enough vag experience would spot a fake anytime. Of course I would have to kill it if it got that far.
 
blueta2 said:
I wonder.........though I would never ask to see it. I can only ask how she thinks is feels.
yeah, a quick search on google will show you some disturbing pics of that surgery I'm sure...
 
superdave said:
It has to. theres nothing like the real natural thing and anyone with enough vag experience would spot a fake anytime. Of course I would have to kill it if it got that far.


she's not an it.........

If someone is born without a lower torso, are they an IT?
 
blueta2 said:
she's not an it.........

If someone is born without a lower torso, are they an IT?
"it" meaning the fake vag, bad choice of words.
 
calveless wonder said:
THere is a difference between transexual and transgender.

there are actual people out there born as a female OR male, but may be a hermaphrodite (sp?) partially. you can be a predominant sex...look like a girl, talk like a girl, be chromosomilly and develop like one but still have male genetalia.
and you know, if they(attractive ones) got the surgery....you wouldn't have a fuckin clue

i saw on hbo special on this once. it's crazy, but it happens in alot of parts of nature

rumor has it that jamie lee curtis was one of the above and her operation done when she was little.

That is a true statement.......
 
superdave said:
It has to. theres nothing like the real natural thing and anyone with enough vag experience would spot a fake anytime. Of course I would have to kill it if it got that far.

Would that be going through your mind if you were fucking a girl who appeared attractive? I mean I have no fucking clue what fake vag feels like, but I'm not on my toes waiting to spot a fake vag. Just not something that would even cross my mind. that's just me though.
 
Cal_21 said:
Would that be going through your mind if you were fucking a girl who appeared attractive? I mean I have no fucking clue what fake vag feels like, but I'm not on my toes waiting to spot a fake vag. Just not something that would even cross my mind. that's just me though.
It might not immediately go through my mind but I would probably tell her she feels unlike any vag ever and see what she says. If she has her shit together she would disclose that fact before the sectchoowals occured. But since she is now a female, she is now much more likely than when she was a man. LOL
 
SublimeZM said:
i would have to start out friends with the post op, and have to scope it out.

if i randomly hooked up with someone and then later on in the dating process they "broke the news"....well thatd be stupid of them.

tell her to start as friends and be honest and eventually she will find a guy almost as nice as me


Her best bet is trying to find someone open minded like subs.
 
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