My friend, his new wife & a guy they picked up in a bar in a thressome tangle...

[BUBBLES]

A friend of mine who got married recently just showed me pics of his new wife getting fucked by himself and some guy they met in a bar. My friend and this other guy were banging my friend's wife.

When a guy loves his NEW wife or g/f there is no way he would watch her have sex with anyone else or participate in it....I am a little taken aback by his actions ... I told him this and he said he loves her very much and that they were just having fun.

Where is the love without the jealousy factor???

If my guy did that in front of me with some woman I would go mental...obviously some people do not feel the say way.

 

[*MissFit*]

I like u wouldn't do it. But to each his own

 

[Sassy69]

Where is the love without the jealousy factor???:

Its a trust issue. I don't know why but when a third is added to a pair, all of a sudden the you + me factor is messed up and there is almost a "which one is better" situation. I'm sure there's a huge thrill / taboo factor to the whole threesome thing, but damn, it sure seems like a huge violation of the trust and respect between two people. And I think what happens is that people might think they can handle the situation until they are actually in the situatino and there is that moment when the you + me tie of the "pair" swings, if even for a moment, and the jealousy starts.

I think people need to think long and hard about the impact of that moment before getting into it. Sometimes there's a greater show of trust by just not allowing that situation to happen.

 

[ceo]

Its a trust issue. I don't know why but when a third is added to a pair, all of a sudden the you + me factor is messed up and there is almost a "which one is better" situation. I'm sure there's a huge thrill / taboo factor to the whole threesome thing, but damn, it sure seems like a huge violation of the trust and respect between two people. And I think what happens is that people might think they can handle the situation until they are actually in the situatino and there is that moment when the you + me tie of the "pair" swings, if even for a moment, and the jealousy starts.

I think people need to think long and hard about the impact of that moment before getting into it. Sometimes there's a greater show of trust by just not allowing that situation to happen.

Agreed!

 

[KillahBee]

shit man, that may be the truest love of all!

 

[BUBBLES]

I like u wouldn't do it. But to each his own

Yes, everyone is different.

He has been bugging me about having a threesome with his wife and himself for 12 months now. And apparently it is her idea...

They are so pushy and rude...my answer from the beginning has been a flat NO.

 

[BUBBLES]

Its a trust issue. I don't know why but when a third is added to a pair, all of a sudden the you + me factor is messed up and there is almost a "which one is better" situation. I'm sure there's a huge thrill / taboo factor to the whole threesome thing, but damn, it sure seems like a huge violation of the trust and respect between two people. And I think what happens is that people might think they can handle the situation until they are actually in the situatino and there is that moment when the you + me tie of the "pair" swings, if even for a moment, and the jealousy starts.

I think people need to think long and hard about the impact of that moment before getting into it. Sometimes there's a greater show of trust by just not allowing that situation to happen.

These two must have a lot of trust because they have had a threesome with women a few times last year and with a guy just recently. I have just found this out now and have seen the photos.

The pics were not actually a turn on because they are my friends...

 

[ceo]

Yes, everyone is different.

He has been bugging me about having a threesome with his wife and himself for 12 months now. And apparently it is her idea...

They are so pushy and rude...my answer from the beginning has been a flat NO.

some friend! Obvious they have a lot of respect for you huh?

 

[CipherLock]

datz fuct zup.

 

[BUBBLES]

some friend! Obvious they have a lot of respect for you huh?

well...whichever way you want to look at it...
respect in the sense that they want to touch me and feel good with me...or disrespect for not listening to my answer and becoming pests!

 

[BUBBLES]

My friend mentioned a few times how goodlooking the other guy was. He had beautiful facial features, no hair on his body, was hard all night and had a huge penis.

Is my friend gay/bi??

 

[The Shadow]

My friend mentioned a few times how goodlooking the other guy was. He had beautiful facial features, no hair on his body, was hard all night and had a huge penis.

Is my friend gay/bi??

....sounds like it...maybe HE wanted to be the bottom

 

[hamstershaver]

could you post the pics, thanks

 

[BUBBLES]

i have asked for the pics, he did not want to give them to me, I will see what i can do..

it was the other guy's idea to take them, can you believe it?

 

[ceo]

...or disrespect for not listening to my answer and becoming pests!

right!

 

[CipherLock]

This thread is hot.

 

[Meantime1]

WELL WELL WELL
I would say this GONE at the days of monogamy in relationships, especially our generations, I HAVE LOADS OF friends doing the whole 3some act/ open relationship, you name it, and it is especially common on the gay scene.
Been A gay man myself, it saddens me that, the whole, i will sleep with one person for ever, does not really exist anymore.
I understand why people do it, and lets be honest, we have or know people who cheat on their Bf, Gf, wife or husband, with out them every getting caught
So by having everything in the open, sometimes helps strengthen a relationship, some people are not made to sleep with just one person for the rest of their life's and we have to understand that there is nothing wrong with that, as long as both parties are adult about it, then there is nothing wrong with that.

 

[BUBBLES]

shit man, that may be the truest love of all!

I am not sure if its trust. I think true love is missing there...but people may disagree with me..

 

[WODIN]

Boy I bet he was so hoping you would be up for a 3some with him and his wife. You've probably crushed him.

 

[BUBBLES]

Boy I bet he was so hoping you would be up for a 3some with him and his wife. You've probably crushed him.

Yes he was crached but NO CAN DO.
He actually liked me a lot but I was not interested so he found a girl and within 5 months of knowing her married her!!!

 

[john937]

Pairs sex is about emotional bonding, and sensual pleasure.
Three way sex is about play, and pushing boundaries, breaking established patterns.
Don't knock if you haven't tried it.
Ok, it's not for you. Leave it at that. Don't diss you friend cause he does.
On the other hand, when you say no, your friend should stop asking.

 

[BUBBLES]

Pairs sex is about emotional bonding, and sensual pleasure.
Three way sex is about play, and pushing boundaries, breaking established patterns.
Don't knock if you haven't tried it.
Ok, it's not for you. Leave it at that. Don't diss you friend cause he does.
On the other hand, when you say no, your friend should stop asking.

I won't diss it because I have not tired it...each with their own. I am too posessive to let my loved one being taken away by someone else...
After seeing the threesome photos he kept asking me if he is big enough. So there is also a reassurance issue I think.

1. I would not do a 3sum.
2. I would not show my man's naked pics to a g/f. End of story! Intimacy should stay between the couple IMO.

 

[Carmen]

now where is milo hobgoblin when he's being called? he could shed some light on it for you.
that isn't for everyone, but i'm sure they would say that they have more love and trust for eachother than others because they aren't confusing it with sex.
i know a couple who thinks nothing of that. its not for me, but its not a surprising thing either.

 

[PICK3]

That's so wrong for newly wed's to involve another in their sex lifes. Well, I guess if the third member was a chick ... that would be alright.

I want to be with 3 bitches. Me doing 2 at the same time in the bedroom and one in my kitchen cooking me lasgna.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Im here.. formulating an answer.. hehe

didnt see the post until I got to work this morning. Have to think about it some..

 

[IwouldSlamU]

could you post the pics, thanks

agreed

 

[rnch]

That's so wrong for newly wed's to involve another in their sex lifes. Well, I guess if the third member was a chick ... that would be alright.

I want to be with 3 bitches. Me doing 2 at the same time in the bedroom and one in my kitchen cooking me lasgna.

BWHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! and for all 3 to clean up the house, program the timer on the coffee pot and leave before you wake up?

 

[PICK3]

BWHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! and for all 3 to clean up the house, program the timer on the coffee pot and leave before you wake up?

Yep that will work!

 

[rnch]

could you post the pics, thanks

LMAO......my thoughts also!!

 

[hamstershaver]

yasmina if you are interested in a 3some with me and klu there is a opening in our schedule

 

[gtrcivic]

My ex would fantastize once in a while about bringing a girl back from the bar....think she was bicurious and wanted to do some things with the girl...and afterwards watch me bang this girl and she how much i would enjoy it...well never came through w/the idea...i was really up for it....

come to think of it , was watching some euroslut dvd and had 2 guys banging one girl at the same time.. both their dicks were in her ponanny..damn that was a first for me to see

 

[gonelifting]

He's using the pics as ammunition or bait, to get you to join in. They're getting desperate and tried this route since they had the pics. His asking of "am I big enough?" is another example of him trying to get you into the 3-some. You should just have said "No, you're not big enough, and I'm so glad I never said yes" lol That would probaly deter him next time.

As long as they're consenting adults, everything's fine. They may do this forever, or they may get sick of it, who knows? They're having a ball now, and that's what life's all about. I personally would'nt do that with my wife, but have been with women who I may have done it with. It depends on the women's personality and ability to deal with it (in my case and IMO).

Marriages are tough, we all know that. If this makes them happy forever... good for them. But I agree, it's not for me.

 

[jerseyart]

Ditto GL on the bait.

Whats sad is that you will never be able to explain the lack of actual love, commitment, and intimacy to people like them. They think they already possess it because they don't know the difference.

 

[ChefWide]

Boy has issues.

Sounds like he wants some cock, sounds like he is filling holes in his life with too much spackle.

 

[PICK3]

I heard that! No way I'm sharing my new bride with another dude.

He should just fess up and admit that he's

 

[gonelifting]

I heard that! No way I'm sharing my new bride with another dude.

He should just fess up and admit that he's

She can find out if he's gay by saying she would do the FOUR-way with the couple AND her and her boyfriend. BUT ONLY if her bi-boyfriend can "be with" him as well. Not really have sex, just get really close and "touch". lol He'll fall for it and say "Yes". Then you say "AHAAAAAAAAA!!!"

 

[jerseyart]

She can find out if he's gay by saying she would do the FOUR-way with the couple AND her and her boyfriend. BUT ONLY if her bi-boyfriend can "be with" him as well. Not really have sex, just get really close and "touch". lol He'll fall for it and say "Yes". Then you say "AHAAAAAAAAA!!!"

There is somethign to that man.

I was approached once by some chick who was soliciting for that (her and her guy, me). Said not interested, dont want some guy touching me etc. She said no he'll just watch.......Later in the convo she did adfmit that he liked to go down on her right aftrewards

 

[Razorguns]

usually when guys do this -- they're borderline gay.

cuz straight guys, when the word THREESOME comes up -- it conjures up images of another woman. NOT another man!

 

[Y_lifter]

I'm not risking touching some dudes hairy sweaty nut sack
no matter how much she would want to try this..

 

[TruBalla4Real]

At least wait 5 years they are already bored with eachother jesus.

 

[gotmilk]

This guy I used to work with introduced his wife to a threesome with another chick.

His wife recently left him for the other chick!

Muahhahaahhaha!

 

[SoKlueles]

omg i dont think i could watch my man screwing some other woman, i guess im a jealous person and i would kick someones ass
I would HOPE he is like that with me and doesnt want to see someone else fucking my brains out

 

[gotmilk]

omg i dont think i could watch my man screwing some other woman, i guess im a jealous person and i would kick someones ass
I would HOPE he is like that with me and doesnt want to see someone else fucking my brains out

Hammy needs to cancel his plans with Yasmina then.

 

[velvett]

....sounds like it...maybe HE wanted to be the bottom

LOL

MAY1010 - told the top/bottom stories the best

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Damn, shit has changed...
I need a time machine.

 

[BUBBLES]

omg i dont think i could watch my man screwing some other woman, i guess im a jealous person and i would kick someones ass
I would HOPE he is like that with me and doesnt want to see someone else fucking my brains out

my feelings exactly...

 

[BUBBLES]

Hammy needs to cancel his plans with Yasmina then.

I never had relations with that woman ...or any plans for that matter!

 

[BUBBLES]

Damn, shit has changed...
I need a time machine.

Things have not changed that much in the last 24 hours!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Things have not changed that much in the last 24 hours!

You know what I ment, Yasy...

 

[PICK3]

There is somethign to that man.

I was approached once by some chick who was soliciting for that (her and her guy, me). Said not interested, dont want some guy touching me etc. She said no he'll just watch.......Later in the convo she did adfmit that he liked to go down on her right aftrewards

That reminds me of the time I went down on this bitch and I came up with a piece of corn in my mouth ... I ignored it and went down again a came up with a piece of potato. Then I asked her if she was sick. She replied, "no, but the guy that was down there before you was."

 

[BUBBLES]

That reminds me of the time I went down on this bitch and I came up with a piece of corn in my mouth ... I ignored it and went down again a came up with a piece of potato. Then I asked her if she was sick. She replied, "no, but the guy that was down there before you was."

 

[EnderJE]

omg i dont think i could watch my man screwing some other woman, i guess im a jealous person and i would kick someones ass
I would HOPE he is like that with me and doesnt want to see someone else fucking my brains out

Why? Its not a love thing. Its just a sex thing.

 

[Creepusmaximus]

I had a roommate who loved to watch. He gave me girls to fuck for a thrill I guess. I was surprised how many agreed. Only problem was I always wondered if he was watching the girl or me? He always did a few things that seemed gay to me but he would just watch. Kind of strange but it was fun.

 

[BUBBLES]

I had a roommate who loved to watch. He gave me girls to fuck for a thrill I guess. I was surprised how many agreed. Only problem was I always wondered if he was watching the girl or me? He always did a few things that seemed gay to me but he would just watch. Kind of strange but it was fun.

haha...he got his kicks from watching you....he is gay...

by the way, my friend and his wife were at it again last night, they had a ball...

if they enjoy it ...well that is all that counts!!!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Yes, everyone is different.

He has been bugging me about having a threesome with his wife and himself for 12 months now. And apparently it is her idea...

They are so pushy and rude...my answer from the beginning has been a flat NO.

They could just be crazed eccentric nymphos.

 

[ThatGirl]

I tried the threesome thing with my ex girlfriend years ago and it worked great because her and I had been together for a while, the guy we got involved with was a very good mutual friend. Everyone knew that it was just pleasure and fun. However with my last male LTR we tried it with a couple (his best friend and his girl) and the guys ended up getting very jealous of us girls spending time together outside of the bedroom, because they figured when we said we were going to the mall we were really sneaking off to have sex, which was never the case. In the end that turned into a big huge mess, my ex hated her, her and her man ended up breaking up for reasons that had nothing to do with the situation, I got very close to her man (who was my ex's best friend all of his life) him and I ended up getting together, and they stopped being friends, we broke up. It was a huge disaster. (And I fell very much in love with the guy, but it was just too weird)

These are newlyweds but have they been together long? I mean, I wouldn't dare do it in a new relationship/marraige, but if you have been with someone for a long time and have exceptional trust and confidence in your SO and are just trying to explore new things, then it CAN work, just not recommended most of the time.

 

[rudeboyja]

These are newlyweds but have they been together long? I mean, I wouldn't dare do it in a new relationship/marraige, but if you have been with someone for a long time and have exceptional trust and confidence in your SO and are just trying to explore new things, then it CAN work, just not recommended most of the time.

I think it works better if your not in a relationship period, but have someone who is a causual sex partner, booty call or whatever. Someonw w/ no real emotional attachment. I've known more horror stories from the after effects of a 3some. That being said, only a guy who's a fool will turn down the oppertunity. You can always deal w/ the consequences later!!!

 

[BUBBLES]

I tried the threesome thing with my ex girlfriend years ago and it worked great because her and I had been together for a while, the guy we got involved with was a very good mutual friend. Everyone knew that it was just pleasure and fun. However with my last male LTR we tried it with a couple (his best friend and his girl) and the guys ended up getting very jealous of us girls spending time together outside of the bedroom, because they figured when we said we were going to the mall we were really sneaking off to have sex, which was never the case. In the end that turned into a big huge mess, my ex hated her, her and her man ended up breaking up for reasons that had nothing to do with the situation, I got very close to her man (who was my ex's best friend all of his life) him and I ended up getting together, and they stopped being friends, we broke up. It was a huge disaster. (And I fell very much in love with the guy, but it was just too weird)

These are newlyweds but have they been together long? I mean, I wouldn't dare do it in a new relationship/marraige, but if you have been with someone for a long time and have exceptional trust and confidence in your SO and are just trying to explore new things, then it CAN work, just not recommended most of the time.

have you now given up on threesomes?

my friends have been married for 11 months, but they were into threesomes before they got married... the guy has been flitring with me in front of his wife so many times (i hate it by the way) and yet his wife never got jealous ....weird!