Men. any idea?

[BNG]

Exactly, he thinks if he remains silent and denies it, then it will be hell for a month or so however she will forget about it...

If he's dumb enough to believe a woman would forget this, he's to stupid to stop a crime! It will never be forgotten. Forgiven maybe. Forgotten...never.

 

[ceo]

The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.

OH...WELL...DAMN!!!!!!

That paints a whole new light on this. That motherfucker reeeeally got some 'splainin to do bout dem panties!!!! Although it doesn't sound like that's going to happen.

So, you've had issues in the past. Even though they were somewhat minor (as far as we know), you ignored them. Now you've got the beginnings of some bigger issues. Something stinks myway. I have a feeling there's more you're not telling us. More you chose to ignore possibly? I hate to say it but it sure doesn't look good from here.

 

[GUARDIAN]

what else u no splaining lucy?

 

[binö]

I understand that fcuked up stuff(like ur story) can happen. The problem is:
If he's afraid of getting caught and is not ready for our marriage to end... why would he ever tell me the truth? If I decide I need a confession before I'm SURE he's innocent, then he needs to just never confess. That doesn't mean he's being honest. It bothers me how he's not giving much of a reaction. It's like he realizes that I will never have any other way to find out any truth other than what he tells me.

this is why i'm doubting his guilt
a guilty man would over react with excuses/explanations
the fact that he is laid back about it leads me to believe he is innocent and not concerned.
i think you are reaching for reasons to leave him imo

 

[puddlemonkey]

The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.

Not sure how I missed this the first time around. I've known way too many scandalous cheating cops, I even work with a retired one. You've got the green light from me to remove his genitalia.

 

[silverstar1025]

this is why i'm doubting his guilt
a guilty man would over react with excuses/explanations
the fact that he is laid back about it leads me to believe he is innocent and not concerned.
i think you are reaching for reasons to leave him imo

Maybe not some people can keep their cool and will still deny if they think you have no proof it happened to me. The truth would come out eventually if she now kept her eyes wide open.

 

[musclemom]

this is why i'm doubting his guilt
a guilty man would over react with excuses/explanations
the fact that he is laid back about it leads me to believe he is innocent and not concerned.
i think you are reaching for reasons to leave him imo

Naaaaa, the best way to get away with a bald faced lie is to be totally nonchalant about it. Look the person in the face and basically go "you're nuts," then let THEM stew on it while you leave the room, go about your business and think like a mutherfucker.

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

 

[musclemom]

Okay, here's the answer here, people:

If he didn't know where the panties came from, he'd be just as perplexed as Myway is about how strange underwear got in his laundry. He's a fucking cop, he'd want an answer to the mystery, it's in his nature.

He sure as shit wouldn't go, "Huh, well ain't that funny? You know I love you babe."

He'd go "Where the fuck did those things come from and how the fuck did they get in there?!" He'd be scratching his head, he'd be bouncing some ideas off his wife, he'd come home from work and tell her about how he asked a couple of buddies he'd pulled pranks on if they put them in his pocket to get him in trouble with his jealous wife.

The man is not wondering where the panties came from because he knows where they came from.

 

[EnderJE]

this is why i'm doubting his guilt
a guilty man would over react with excuses/explanations
the fact that he is laid back about it leads me to believe he is innocent and not concerned.
i think you are reaching for reasons to leave him imo

Interesting, never considered that angle.

 

[EnderJE]

Okay, here's the answer here, people:

If he didn't know where the panties came from, he'd be just as perplexed as Myway is about how strange underwear got in his laundry. He's a fucking cop, he'd want an answer to the mystery, it's in his nature.

He sure as shit wouldn't go, "Huh, well ain't that funny? You know I love you babe."

He'd go "Where the fuck did those things come from and how the fuck did they get in there?!" He'd be scratching his head, he'd be bouncing some ideas off his wife, he'd come home from work and tell her about how he asked a couple of buddies he'd pulled pranks on if they put them in his pocket to get him in trouble with his jealous wife.

The man is not wondering where the panties came from because he knows where they came from.

I'm glad you speak on behalf of all people. lmao

Maybe he's calm by nature...lmao, you know what? It really doesn't matter at this point. You people are determined to nail him on the cross without really know him, the situation or anything about it. Sure, you might have been in similiar situations when things have turned out; but we all know this situation is just a repeat of your life because it's all the same. Sure, all guys are crap and all girls are sluts. lmao...