Men a quick question .........

[Gymgurl]

Men a quick question for you....why when you say you want to be friends can you have a ton of sex with this person and say all this lovey things and say your madly in love ...but once the relationship trys to be a serious one (no different from what it was really except for a "name") you guys are done? I never will understand that one.......why does friends with benifits work better when your in love then a real relationship?

 

[DVSSKY]

Come to New Zealand Id love to be more than friends with you

 

[rudeboyja]

because it is different. besides, if you're telling someone you're in love with them, or even seeing them more than 2X a week it has passed the friends with benifits stage. Sounds like you're describing a situation where someone is trying to have a hold on someone while they're waiting for something better to come along.

 

[artrius]

some guys are afraid of the big "C". commitment. I guess they just want as much different ass as they can get, see which one's the best

 

[karde]

It's really a question of monogamy, responsibility, and decision making.

 

[swole]

Because with a title/relationship there is a required level of commitment, respect and responsibility. I am very faithful in relationships so this is a big step for me. If I'm not 100% confident I want to be with you, I won't jump in. If we're friends and fucking, I can still go about my daily life without worrying about what I'm doing and whether or not you're going to get upset over it...because at the end of the day I'm still single and able to do what I want.

 

[buffer1]

i,m not like that

 

[MikeMartial]

It's really a question of monogamy, responsibility, and decision making.

I second that.

 

[slat1]

Some guys have a fear of commitment in "name" only. They may be in a committed relationship but as soon as a label is put on there they feel like they lost their freedom!
My turn. How come women withhold sex? We don't ever do that! Isn't the threat of that more than enough...

 

[Dial_tone]

I'm not afraid of commitment. I'm looking forward to it actually.