whassup freak i got some advice for ya
ive never taken silat but i know some about it and i say jiu jitsu is for you its popular right now because of the gracie family and a lot of people are teaching it. now be careful, why? because its popular and a lot of people are teaching it. check refereces and ties to larger schools or associations any one can say they are teaching kungfu or karate and make up thier own documentation and its legal. also look for jeet kune do and any martial arts with range specific training as in : weapon range , long range(punch kick), trapping range(not all range arts have this one), and close or grappling range(sometimes divided into standing/throwing and ground grappling). the ecclectic martial arts are the best i like jeet kune do because they take the best martial arts and incorporate the art into thier art jeet kune do today(its always changing) is a mixture of boxing, escrima, tai kickboxing, shoot wrestling, jiu jitsu, savate and other arts and it is very rational and real world.
just my opinion
oh i was a bouncer and a street fighter in my youth and i took karate but when i was exposed to a range specific training regimen i truly learned how to fight and yet i havent been in a streetfight in 6 or 7 years. oh one more thing in boxing the ref makes them unclinch right so even if both combatants are trained in boxing the combat would still devolve to grappling unless a ref was there. on the street theres no ref.
dams i ought to put that in my sig
"on the street theres no ref"