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Made a HUGE mistake!!

blueta2

blueta2

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I had sex with my ex last night!! ugh!

We broke up close to 5 months ago, had very little contact and I didn't see him at all since the break-up.
But 3 weeks ago, he called me and I didn't answer. He never calls, so I knew something was up but still didn't answer. I didn't want drama.
He called 4 times that day and I was at a funeral, so finally txt him back to ask if something was wrong and I get a reply "J, I am in trouble"

He has a checkered past, so I knew this must have been big.
I called him, he told me he was wanted by police for seriously assaulting a guy and he wanted to come to my place to hide from the police.
Well of course I said "NO" and wished him well but that I could not help him.

There was a few quick txt since to say hi or whatever, but last night while having a few drinks, our txt's escalated to meeting up to talk. I went to meet him and within seconds we were all over each other.

Our relationship ended, not b/c of lack of love or cheating, but because we were just two totally different people. We both are still totally in love. Prob love him more than any other man in my life but I also found out stuff about him that I could not live with (will not get into that), so had to walk and never look back.

So of course seeing him after 5 months with wine in me, was more than I could bare.
We spent the entire night together and now I feel messed up.
I know I can't ever see him again because it will happen again.

This was a big mistake!!!
 
oxymoron said:
So when u left or he left this AM, what was said? Or has he left yet... :worried:
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He came to my place.
Nothing much was said
He asked if I had any regrets, we hugged, we both told each other "have a good day" and he left
Nothing more.....but we both were sad

Chris, we used a condom.
 
Exhibit A for the theory of women preferring jerks over nice guys. Something tells me you would not have touched him if he just got out of a PTA meeting.
For all your posturing about healthy lifestyles you just need to accept that youre attracted to certain men and thats not gonna change
 
-SD- said:
Exhibit A for the theory of women preferring jerks over nice guys. Something tells me you would not have touched him if he just got out of a PTA meeting.
For all your posturing about healthy lifestyles you just need to accept that youre attracted to certain men and thats not gonna change
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I'm pretty open about my bad choice in men, no huge secret.
Living a healthy lifestyle has many facets to it. I'm not perfect.

My Father is a great man, Married to my Mom for 56 yrs. Nicest man alive. so no daddy issue here.

And I prefer nice men over jerks, but there are so many jerks, not easy to find the nice men
 
blueta2 said:
I'm pretty open about my bad choice in men, no huge secret.
Living a healthy lifestyle has many facets to it. I'm not perfect.

My Father is a great man, Married to my Mom for 56 yrs. Nicest man alive. so no daddy issue here.

And I prefer nice men over jerks, but there are so many jerks, not easy to find the nice men
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You had sex with a guy wanted for assault trying to hide from the cops. Youre a middle aged woman in canada, it cant be so difficult to find a decent guy, its not like you live in america lol. All your choices in men arent accidental, you just prefer jerks to nice guys.
Just stop kidding yourself and own that you prefer assholes for boyfriends, its ok millions of women do also.
 
-SD- said:
You had sex with a guy wanted for assault trying to hide from the cops. Youre a middle aged woman in canada, it cant be so difficult to find a decent guy, its not like you live in america lol. All your choices in men arent accidental, you just prefer jerks to nice guys.
Just stop kidding yourself and own that you prefer assholes for boyfriends, its ok millions of women do also.
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He was hiding. He gave himself up, has a court date, is back at work and will face the music. That's his problem, not mine!

Not kidding myself, I've admitted many times my choices in men are not ideal.
HENCE, why I am not with him or back with him or will get back with him. Or the other men who I left.
This is why I am staying single...... :-)

Now easy
 
Typo, probably a better person that you will ever be! Now who the fuck are you again? The color black suits you
 
blueta2 said:
He was hiding. He gave himself up, has a court date, is back at work and will face the music. That's his problem, not mine!

Not kidding myself, I've admitted many times my choices in men are not ideal.
HENCE, why I am not with him or back with him or will get back with him. Or the other men who I left.
This is why I am staying single...... :-)

Now easy
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Ok cool at least you know yourself and dont play the victim card when you pick assholes and expect otherwise
 
Just try to stay busy the next 7 days to keep your head clear. Your head and your heart might be in conflict right now. bonne chance tes capable.
 
blueta2 said:
I had sex with my ex last night!! ugh!

We broke up close to 5 months ago, had very little contact and I didn't see him at all since the break-up.
But 3 weeks ago, he called me and I didn't answer. He never calls, so I knew something was up but still didn't answer. I didn't want drama.
He called 4 times that day and I was at a funeral, so finally txt him back to ask if something was wrong and I get a reply "J, I am in trouble"

He has a checkered past, so I knew this must have been big.
I called him, he told me he was wanted by police for seriously assaulting a guy and he wanted to come to my place to hide from the police.
Well of course I said "NO" and wished him well but that I could not help him.

There was a few quick txt since to say hi or whatever, but last night while having a few drinks, our txt's escalated to meeting up to talk. I went to meet him and within seconds we were all over each other.

Our relationship ended, not b/c of lack of love or cheating, but because we were just two totally different people. We both are still totally in love. Prob love him more than any other man in my life but I also found out stuff about him that I could not live with (will not get into that), so had to walk and never look back.

So of course seeing him after 5 months with wine in me, was more than I could bare.
We spent the entire night together and now I feel messed up.
I know I can't ever see him again because it will happen again.

This was a big mistake!!!
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for all the bad boys in the world we like you.... did you give him money yet??? :supercool
 
Woody it was a mistake because we both still have feelings involved and yes sex with him has always been incredible. Best I ever had :-)

Digi, his tits or mine?! ;-)

Mav: it's just right! Not like the huge ones we talked about! hahahah

Spy: money? No, he's never asked for money. He has a great job so he doesn't need it. Though I did want to send him off with the supplement program I had him on before we broke up. He was doing great on it. But nurturing him would keep me attached.
 
blueta2 said:
Woody it was a mistake because we both still have feelings involved and yes sex with him has always been incredible. Best I ever had :-)

Digi, his tits or mine?! ;-)

Mav: it's just right! Not like the huge ones we talked about! hahahah

Spy: money? No, he's never asked for money. He has a great job so he doesn't need it. Though I did want to send him off with the supplement program I had him on before we broke up. He was doing great on it. But nurturing him would keep me attached.
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your tits, por favor...
 
blueta2 said:
Nope, last time!
I've never slept with an ex in my life
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The fact that you both have feelings towards each other and, the sex was good it's enough reason for you to do it again.



Hey, nobody is judging! It's your life, do what makes you feel good/happy.
 
princesa said:
The fact that you both have feelings towards each other and, the sex was good it's enough reason for you to do it again.



Hey, nobody is judging! It's your life, do what makes you feel good/happy.
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feelings and good sex are to me, not a good enough reason.
I had feeling for my other ex's and never was intimate with them once it was over.

Doing this did not make me happy...at all!
it's done and won't happen again....I'm pretty vigilant with my word
 
SpyWizard said:
I have to agree here, but as we know females can't have sex without emotional attachments.. .

otherwise they are prostitues and even they get connected..
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prostitutes may be the only truly honest women out there. You put something on the table and they put something back, all predetermined...nobody's suckered into anything. They are good businessmen. :lmao:
 
redsamurai said:
prostitutes may be the only truly honest women out there. You put something on the table and they put something back, all predetermined...nobody's suckered into anything. They are good businessmen. :lmao:
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It's an honest relationship. We should have more of them.
 
SpyWizard said:
I have to agree here, but as we know females can't have sex without emotional attachments.. .

otherwise they are prostitues and even they get connected..
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Very true! Emotional attachment is key for me to giving awesome sex.
But there was already an attachment with this guy. Some guy I just met, meh, it takes me a few times to get any attachment at all.
 
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