Looking for some Input from the "Younger Crowd"

[sexyMFer]

Sometimes she dresses up with a wig and acts like a stranger

I like the redhead maid named Jessica a lot

 

[dabuffguy]

Sometimes she dresses up with a wig and acts like a stranger

I like the redhead maid named Jessica a lot

Hahaha!!!!

 

[nangiggles]

Get your love making ass out of here

Lololol

 

[Cali72]

Of course not, I was speaking in general, not to you specifically.







I get that to. But, people do not have sex ever with a first date because they are in love with them. It's always to "fuck them" not "love them" as you put it, and doing that with someone you just met is just not a good decision, period. IMO, the first time you should have sex with someone is to love them, not just to get off.

* too

 

[nangiggles]

I've never found myself having sex on a first date with a total stranger, in all fairness I've never really dated strangers, only guys I knew from school, work, mutual friends, etc

I once made out with a total stranger I danced with a lot with one night at a club, it was quite disturbing to me. Cant even imagine doing a stranger

 

[caligirl85]

I don't think that's true for everyone. What I was trying to say awkwardly in an earlier post is that I cannot separate emotional intimacy from physical intimacy.



And to think of it that way it sort of brings around what my thread is about, emotional intimacy vs. physical intimacy. It seems that people are more connected in a superficial way, more information is being exchanged at a higher rate than in all of history, but how much of that information carries weight? People seem to be engaging in more sex and more openly than ever but increasingly the sex is beyond casual. It has no value, it's release, nothing else.



I personally have no feelings about these matters, no true opinions, just an observation. I'm just glad I'm permanently out of the dating pool

I think you hit the nail on the head! Even dating at my age isn't nearly what it was 20 years ago. Not uncommon for sex to be a part of the first "date"

 

[PICK3]

I got into a brief discussion with a 20 something the other day and I'm curious for some broader input. I fully admit I'm absolutely out of touch with what is socially expected and accepted in terms of dating these days so I just want to hear what the consensus is, that's all. Specifically, guys, do you consider a girl who sleeps with you (or engages in anything more than a kiss really) on the FIRST date someone you can consider a long term relationship with, or is the simple fact she was "easy" always going to be in the back of your mind, impact how much you respect her and pretty much guarantee that she's someone you'll eventually dump?

the old guy is allowing you to date now

 

[musclemom]

the old guy is allowing you to date now

My husband is not an "old guy"! Amazingly, age is like money, the more years you acquire, the higher you set the mark, so to speak

And I have no interest in dating again, ever. Never, never, ever again!

A conversation got me thinking, that's all.

 

[-SD-]

I should have qualified that I'm not thinking in terms of three date limit, one week limit, etc., it's more just the question of "does a first date fuck still equal slut"?

That being said, I actually had rules back when I dated and the funny thing was whenever I broke those rules I truly regretted it. I stuck to every rule with my current husband and it was the best decision for both of us. The stakes were so high we really had to be sure, we were and still are ... but that's me and I'm old

why?

 

[WoodyO]

why?

They were both married to other people at the time