Looking for some Input from the "Younger Crowd"

[musclemom]

I got into a brief discussion with a 20 something the other day and I'm curious for some broader input. I fully admit I'm absolutely out of touch with what is socially expected and accepted in terms of dating these days so I just want to hear what the consensus is, that's all. Specifically, guys, do you consider a girl who sleeps with you (or engages in anything more than a kiss really) on the FIRST date someone you can consider a long term relationship with, or is the simple fact she was "easy" always going to be in the back of your mind, impact how much you respect her and pretty much guarantee that she's someone you'll eventually dump?

 

[-SD-]

I fucked my wife on the first date and we got married

Besides i thought feminism took care of all that crap about women not being long term material if they put out on the first date? Especially for todays younger people. Which is it?

 

[Faizakafez]

I got into a brief discussion with a 20 something the other day and I'm curious for some broader input. I fully admit I'm absolutely out of touch with what is socially expected and accepted in terms of dating these days so I just want to hear what the consensus is, that's all. Specifically, guys, do you consider a girl who sleeps with you (or engages in anything more than a kiss really) on the FIRST date someone you can consider a long term relationship with, or is the simple fact she was "easy" always going to be in the back of your mind, impact how much you respect her and pretty much guarantee that she's someone you'll eventually dump?

hard to say, would depend on circumstances.

I hate when women set these "x amount of dates" limits. if its gonna happen the first night let it.. why stop n be like nope have to wait till day xyz.

So would have to be depending the vybe of the date etc..

good question actually.

 

[sexyMFer]

I don't think it would make a difference if there's a good connection. Though, making me wait until the second date to show she's not easy wouldn't hurt either. Either way probably wouldn't make a difference.

But I've been married for a few years and probably been on maybe 10 or less real dates with anyone but my wife. In college you didn't have to go on dates to get laid. But those girls definitely were out of the question for long term relationships.

 

[sexyMFer]

We always believe when they say "I don't usually do this on the first date"anyway. It's good for our egos.

 

[musclemom]

hard to say, would depend on circumstances.

I hate when women set these "x amount of dates" limits. if its gonna happen the first night let it.. why stop n be like nope have to wait till day xyz.

So would have to be depending the vybe of the date etc..

good question actually.

I should have qualified that I'm not thinking in terms of three date limit, one week limit, etc., it's more just the question of "does a first date fuck still equal slut"?

That being said, I actually had rules back when I dated and the funny thing was whenever I broke those rules I truly regretted it. I stuck to every rule with my current husband and it was the best decision for both of us. The stakes were so high we really had to be sure, we were and still are ... but that's me and I'm old

 

[Faizakafez]

I should have qualified that I'm not thinking in terms of three date limit, one week limit, etc., it's more just the question of "does a first date fuck still equal slut"?
That being said, I actually had rules back when I dated and the funny thing was whenever I broke those rules I truly regretted it. I stuck to every rule with my current husband and it was the best decision for both of us. The stakes were so high we really had to be sure, we were and still are ... but that's me and I'm old

I would say it depends, I mean if there is a connection and the vibe is right no not all..

but if you can tell there's no connection on either sides but both individuals are attracted to each other than maybe a hit it and quit it scenario..

 

[WoodyO]

Ain't nobody got time for a 2nd date with a girl who didn't give it up on the 1st date.

 

[sexyMFer]

 

[WoodyO]

lol