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Ok, alot of the Sheets have followed my fucked up love life on here. The girl who I feel for who dumped me, and ask me to never call her or come by her place again, is still on my mind. I know that it will never happen, but even after a month I'm so depressed (of course I have other major issues going on as well). I never took her off of my yahoo messenger,, because I just can't bring myself to do it, and she is online right now... she asked me to not call her, and I assume that means IMing her as well. I never met anyone else worth my time, or that special. I feel so undeserving of having had her for the short time I did. I truely wish that I could move on, but I can't.

I even have a good friend who is a fuck buddy right now, and we talked about this, and I told her (she understood at least) that I am in love with someone else, and my feelings have not dimenished at all, and I couldn't give her my love. My fuck buddy is a nice person who has had a hard life and deserves someone to love her, but it can't be me. The other girl, is the only person I have ever been with that I could see myself with the rest of my life. This sounds fucked up, but when I first meet her, I truely thought I had found my soul mate.

How do I move on?
 
I keep asking myself the same question .....just take it one day at a time ....im learning this right now.
 
The only thing that will reveal the answer is the passage of time. It sucks, but that's the way it is. For now, it's gonna hurt...but keep in mind that it will hurt just a teeny bit less every day.
 
Wow BBF I feel your pain bro...really. Its the price you pay for letting opening up to that degree. It gets easier with time bro. Best of luck. : )
 
Pain is the best experience,. The harder the blow, the stronger the body, mind and soul become later on in life.

Don't contact her. Let the old saying; "Let her go, if it was meant to be, she'll come back to you" play here.
 
^^

Great advice. Despite how you feel, its a great time to really find yourself. Try and realize that you are deserving of better, not worse.
 
been there my friend,however when the right one comes along you will be thankful that this was meant to be.

RADAR
 
I was in love with someone for almost 8 years. For the first 3 I didn't realize they felt the same and after that it was too late to do anything about it. For 8 years she was all I wanted in life. I finally accepted that nothing was going to come of it and that I was doomed to be miserable until I did accept it. You're still in college and way too young to be thinking that fatalistic. I've met some great women since then including one i'm involved with now.
 
How old are you bro.
Also the first thing you need to do is delete her from the YM list or it will be staring at you everytime she is online, taunting you to message her. In order to let go of someone you have to literally cut off all ways of communication.
 
I kinda feel you right now....the only girl I see myself with has a boyfriend, we go along very well and go out to parties together but she isn't the kind of girl that cheats on her boyfriend.....so it's seems impossible to get something going with her and that sucks
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Ok, alot of the Sheets have followed my fucked up love life on here. The girl who I feel for who dumped me, and ask me to never call her or come by her place again, is still on my mind. I know that it will never happen, but even after a month I'm so depressed (of course I have other major issues going on as well). I never took her off of my yahoo messenger,, because I just can't bring myself to do it, and she is online right now... she asked me to not call her, and I assume that means IMing her as well. I never met anyone else worth my time, or that special. I feel so undeserving of having had her for the short time I did. I truely wish that I could move on, but I can't.

I even have a good friend who is a fuck buddy right now, and we talked about this, and I told her (she understood at least) that I am in love with someone else, and my feelings have not dimenished at all, and I couldn't give her my love. My fuck buddy is a nice person who has had a hard life and deserves someone to love her, but it can't be me. The other girl, is the only person I have ever been with that I could see myself with the rest of my life. This sounds fucked up, but when I first meet her, I truely thought I had found my soul mate.

How do I move on?
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I have told you this before under seven different
handles but you don't get it.
Just come out of the closet,
You are obviously gay and STUPID.
Please shoot yourself directly in the temporal region.
Please.
Then go away.
Thank You.
 
WTF? I've had sex with dozens of women, and no men, but am obviously gay. I've had my IQ tested several times, with an extemely high score each time, am an honor student, but I'm also obviously stpud as well. I'm impressed by your keen observations and proficiency for finding deeply hidden truth about people.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
WTF? I've had sex with dozens of women, and no men, but am obviously gay. I've had my IQ tested several times, with an extemely high score each time, am an honor student, but I'm also obviously stpud as well. I'm impressed by your keen observations and proficiency for finding deeply hidden truth about people.
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Thank You.

Blow on.
 
Go 4 IT

I would not give up. If your heart is breaking and you feel with every fiber of your being that she is the 1 you love and you can make her happy then IM her or send her a note. In the game of love, time is not on your side.
Jake
PS I know I don't know all the details regarding how you "fucked it up". I can imagine being that I fucked up a few good relationships myself. If you want to talk via private messages then I'm all ears and I will offer my humble opinions & advice.
Good luck & happy new year.
 
Re: Go 4 IT

ElvisP said:
I know I don't know all the details regarding how you "fucked it up". I can imagine being that I fucked up a few good relationships myself. If you want to talk via private messages then I'm all ears and I will offer my humble opinions & advice.
Good luck & happy new year.
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Carry on homo's.
 
Notice that H.E.R. calls everyone else homos, when we are talking about women we love or have sex with, but he spends his time stalking male bodybuilders online. Just an observation....
 
Bro, I'm not saying you are gay... so don't take it that way. I'm just saying you might have some repressed homosexual tendancies that you might want to resolve.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Notice that H.E.R. calls everyone else homos, when we are talking about women we love or have sex with, but he spends his time stalking male bodybuilders online. Just an observation....
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You are NOT a male bodybuilder.
 
Hmmmm... I have pictures of my body posted, which is obviously built considerably beyond that of the average guy who works out, and I have posted a picture of my penis, but you are right, I'm not a male bodybuilder, again, I'm amazed at your uncanny ability to detect the real truth behind people's words.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Hmmmm... I have pictures of my body posted, which is obviously built considerably beyond that of the average guy who works out, and I have posted a picture of my penis, but you are right, I'm not a male bodybuilder, again, I'm amazed at your uncanny ability to detect the real truth behind people's words.
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Thank you...I detect the truth.

You are .....
gay
worthless
stupid
useless
weak
annoying
dumb
even more gay the 'Mr. Black'
 
Again, most of that list seems to be an apt description of you. You are the one talking about my dick in the other thread on here. Are you sure you don't have some repressed homosexual feelings? I mean, you are stalking male bodybuilders on here, and talking about my penis alot. In fact, you seem to have read and enjoyed alot of threads about my penis... do you want to see I pic? I have can post the link here for you. Its onthe pictures of men forum.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Again, most of that list seems to be an apt description of you. You are the one talking about my dick in the other thread on here. Are you sure you don't have some repressed homosexual feelings? I mean, you are stalking male bodybuilders on here, and talking about my penis alot. In fact, you seem to have read and enjoyed alot of threads about my penis... do you want to see I pic? I have can post the link here for you. Its onthe pictures of men forum.
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Yawn.
 
LoL, oh, don't act like I bore you. We all know you are jerking off ot my picture while typing, which is why you keep your lines so short.
 
Hugh E. Rection said:


On New Years Eve??????

No Friends???? We are all laughing at you.
You are the highlight of my party. SG
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I am beccomming annoyed by your attitude!!!!

RADAR
 
Hey BBF - I was in a long relationship with a gal that I truely thought I loved... till she dumped me. The first 6 months were the hardest - then the holidays were hard for the first year too. AFter that it gets easier. Try to get out and do stuff you love doing, you'll meet nice women that way and eventually you will be in a possition to start dating again. Don't expect that to happen overnight though, I didn't start dating for 2 years after the breakup (my friends even took to calling me "the hermit"). Eventually you will heal and move on - and meet a woman who is more worthy of your affection.

- attempting to re-hijack HER's hijack attempt - :D
 
Hit the weights extra hard these days, just think of how much better youll look if you ever run into her, and shell most likely be jealous.....enjoy your freedom! and your Fbuddy... most of us that lose a significant other will not have such an understanding Fbuddy!
 
MY thoughts are just about the same , so just hang in there and don't try to rush into another relationship , And don't call her or pm her or anything , try to forget her the best you can. that would be the best for you and her.
 
Hugh E. Rection said:


On New Years Eve??????

No Friends???? We are all laughing at you.
You are the highlight of my party. SG
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Tiny E Rection in order to talk smack you need to be actually funny which you are not, i would say its a safe wager that even your boyfriend doesnt find you in the least bit funny. Now i can give you some advice on how to make people laugh on here, just grab your digital cam and post a few pics of your penis then we can all have a good laugh at your shortcomings, if not AT LEAST buy a joke book you pole smoker.
 
God gave you life and will. use them to do what you want, or get what you want

i do not subscribe to the "if it was meant to be it will be" school of thought

i say do the opposite. get her back.

by the way im curious about your IQ now :) i know all the tests are fairly bullshit but where did you score?
 
IQ tests are bullshit...but I am also curious how you scored.
 
i scored a 102 on the one they ran on tv last summer.......so i guess i do have brains....and btw Pamela.....ty for getting rid of the dummy.
 
im just curious since i got a huge score and to the frustration of everyone who did the test with me, i refuse to retest ever again :D

IQ tests are bullshit, but still good for a laugh :D
 
Hang in there BBF,

I am still missing a little chunk of my heart that I lost when my first love and I let go of eachother and that was like 7 years ago. It will get better.

-G
 
I scored a 147 when I was 17.

Thanks for the positive input everyone. I haven't been onhere in a few days, I've been busy with other endevors after coming home after a week in Michigan.
 
The best way to deal with ANY relationship is how they currently treat you, not how you feel about them.

She is ignoring you and has said she doesnt want to talk to you. That should be enough.

Just try to think of it logically instead of emotionally.
 
sucks

I am in the same boat, doing better now :( .... worse case in my end is that Ex g/f screwed me over big time and stuff but still love her. I dumped her though, have done it a dozen times but keep wanting and going back.. even when I have gotten new booty or g/f... (have new g/f since Oct, but keep "revisiting" the old kitty) ..... and was whacking off the other night, and thought of ex excited me more than current g/f ...

TOtally sucks, I am diong better a little bit, as I didn't feel crap her not being with me on aFriday night, LOL (can I laugh at this ? :( ) .. I did calll her Thurs after a few drinks ... but nothing..

Anyway, my point, its a pain in the ass to forget about them... just go get more booty to occupy your time.. the worse parts for me are when I am alone :( ..... even though I dont have to be
 
I am having this same problem. Been since June of Last year. My story is similar like your BBF, fuck buddy and all. I nearly came apart and I channelled it all in the gym. 7 months later I am in the best shape of my life, still hurtin, but not anywear near as bad. But I can't say I don't miss her. It really hurt about 3 months ago when I found out she had a new BF. I think they broke up now. But It doesn't matter, cause its over with us anyways, I just have to keep reminding myself that.

hang in there Bud

PG
 
I got 130-140 consistantly on net IQ tests, but I took em in Grade 7...so I must have had points added just for being young. Plus net IQ tests aren't very accurate.
 
The Red Dragon said:
I got 130-140 consistantly on net IQ tests, but I took em in Grade 7...so I must have had points added just for being young. Plus net IQ tests aren't very accurate.
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makes more sense... iq tests relate mental age to physical age. I scored at genius levels in 2nd grade, haven't taken one since... i doubt something like that would happen again. Plus most of you would never think a genius would spend so much on clothes...
 
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