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Lets talk about romance...

my game is better in the summer when i can lure broads to outdoor destinations...hiking, yaking, that type of thing has been my MO and has been successful
 
does that actually exist anymore?
 
You don't want real romance.
 
KillahBee said:
VERY

and all it comes down to is listening to what she says in the most casual convo and then acting on it. flowers, jewelry, rentin out the restaurant - these are easy. it's the little tiny thing that will get her.
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damn bro, didn't know you had it in you
 
BUBBLES said:
Huh? Why wouldn't we want real romance?

What is fake romance anyway?
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Most of what has been mentioned so far.
 
on a serious note, romance is doing things on the spur of the moment. Not even material things, just even simple as stopping me from doing the dishes, sweeping me up and carrying me into the bedroom.

The little things mean so much more than the big things. I am very romantic and love to do little things, masages, candle light dinners, little things here and there to show how much i appreciate my s/o
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Finally a none BS answer. I would have to agree to me it always the little things that mean the most over time.
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wtf trick, my post was before hers and was serious as a mightymouse max smith squat day
 
Erzulie said:
on a serious note, romance is doing things on the spur of the moment. Not even material things, just even simple as stopping me from doing the dishes, sweeping me up and carrying me into the bedroom.

The little things mean so much more than the big things. I am very romantic and love to do little things, masages, candle light dinners, little things here and there to show how much i appreciate my s/o
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agreed , romance isnt planned it is instinctive
 
Lestat said:
damn bro, didn't know you had it in you
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it's what really gets me chicks. I'm a coldhearted prick on the outside, but the few that get in see that other side. and they fucking fall like a bag o bricks
 
superqt4u2nv said:
How romantic are you? And what is your idea of romance?
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I can tell you what my hubby did for Valentines day last year. He bought 100 red heart mylar balloons, tied choc kisses to the end of each string with a note that says I Love you.

Made my day so, so I made his night!

Momof5
 
nycgirl said:
I don't think it has to be something out of some cassanova textbook.

To me, its just doing the little things and not expecting anything in return.
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I have to say that if I am being romantic I expect the same in return. I would be lying if I said I did not expect some sort of romantic enchantment from my partner.

I treat my partner how I want to be treated.
 
hotzie said:
agreed , romance isnt planned it is instinctive
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im a very instinctive person, very attentive and (cough, my gosh.. this will make me look so soft..LOL) caring. I've found however, that most don't appreciate it at all. I've gone from being a cold hearted bitch to being caring and seems im better off shutting off all emotion. Why do men prefer the bitch?

I just don't get it at all. The more i give the less i get, so i figure im better off being cold hearted, closed off, don't give a flying fuck kinda chick.. Men don't appreciate a good woman. They want the challenge, the fight, the drama. All of which is not me, so i honestly feel better off with out it.

fuck.
 
BUBBLES said:
I have to say that if I am being romantic I expect the same in return. I would be lying if I said I did not expect some sort of romantic enchantment from my partner.

I treat my partner how I want to be treated.
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Hi Bubbles:wavey:
 
BUBBLES said:
I have to say that if I am being romantic I expect the same in return. I would be lying if I said I did not expect some sort of romantic enchantment from my partner.

I treat my partner how I want to be treated.
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i didn't imply that at all.
 
needtogetas said:
ya you did.
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No, that's not what I was getting at.

Of course, I want to be treated just like I treat someone. That's common sense.

When I do something for someone, I don't expect him to do something immediately after to "pay me back". There is nothing wrong with giving.
 
nycgirl said:
i didn't imply that at all.
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I took it that you did not expect anything in return as being not expecting anything in return romantically.

Perhaps I interpreted your statement in a different light. :)
 
Erzulie said:
im a very instinctive person, very attentive and (cough, my gosh.. this will make me look so soft..LOL) caring. I've found however, that most don't appreciate it at all. I've gone from being a cold hearted bitch to being caring and seems im better off shutting off all emotion. Why do men prefer the bitch?

I just don't get it at all. The more i give the less i get, so i figure im better off being cold hearted, closed off, don't give a flying fuck kinda chick.. Men don't appreciate a good woman. They want the challenge, the fight, the drama. All of which is not me, so i honestly feel better off with out it.

fuck.
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Apparently, you make bad choices in men.....
 
nycgirl said:
No, that's not what I was getting at.

Of course, I want to be treated just like I treat someone. That's common sense.

When I do something for someone, I don't expect him to do something immediately after to "pay me back". There is nothing wrong with giving.
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nothing wrong with giving at all just as long as i am the one getting :qt:
 
StickFigure said:
I like to think I am and I am willing to bet she'd say I'm doing a fine job for being 5000 miles away. ;)
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That is nice. Keep it up and she will love you long time ;) You are a lucky man.
 
JavaGuru said:
Apparently, you make bad choices in men.....
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there aren't any quality men in my city hun... but seems if there is a dud.. im gonna find it.
 
JavaGuru said:
I thought they were all Southern gentlemen?
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ive NEVER in my life made that statment. men here are either jerks or pussy's

nothing inbetween.

either far to the left or to the right.

im a very easy going chick, don't ask for much at all. But not a mudda fucker here can even come close to what i expect from a man.

funny eh?

fucking hicks
 
Erzulie said:
im a very easy going chick, don't ask for much at all. But not a mudda fucker here can even come close to what i expect from a man.
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So are you going to move, settle or do without?
 
Erzulie said:
there aren't any quality men in my city hun... but seems if there is a dud.. im gonna find it.
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Don't worry Erzulie, the right guy will come to you soon.
 
Erzulie said:
ive NEVER in my life made that statment. men here are either jerks or pussy's

nothing inbetween.

either far to the left or to the right.

im a very easy going chick, don't ask for much at all. But not a mudda fucker here can even come close to what i expect from a man.

funny eh?

fucking hicks
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In my experience, people of character are few and far between and it isn't just a geographic issue.
 
JavaGuru said:
In my experience, people of character are few and far between and it isn't just a geographic issue.
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geographic? lol

I've dealt with this shit since i started dating. Not a damn man here has ever swooped me off my feet and made me think WOW.

none! not a damn one


maybe that has alot to do with my shutting my shit off and just being cold and bitchy, Fuck the world, fuck you, fuck your feelings... all that humbo

Im a very emotional woman, very caring and giving. What i'd do for a man is beyond all what most would even comprehend. I'm old school when it comes to do what you have to do to please your man. I'd go above and beyond to make sure he was happy... but welllllllllllllllllllllllll.......... not a fucking quality man here to even consider working twords that situation
 
Erzulie said:
geographic? lol

I've dealt with this shit since i started dating. Not a damn man here has ever swooped me off my feet and made me think WOW.

none! not a damn one


maybe that has alot to do with my shutting my shit off and just being cold and bitchy, Fuck the world, fuck you, fuck your feelings... all that humbo

Im a very emotional woman, very caring and giving. What i'd do for a man is beyond all what most would even comprehend. I'm old school when it comes to do what you have to do to please your man. I'd go above and beyond to make sure he was happy... but welllllllllllllllllllllllll.......... not a fucking quality man here to even consider working twords that situation
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My friends claim I suffer from "white knight" syndrome... :)
 
Erzulie said:
geographic? lol

I've dealt with this shit since i started dating. Not a damn man here has ever swooped me off my feet and made me think WOW.

none! not a damn one


maybe that has alot to do with my shutting my shit off and just being cold and bitchy, Fuck the world, fuck you, fuck your feelings... all that humbo

Im a very emotional woman, very caring and giving. What i'd do for a man is beyond all what most would even comprehend. I'm old school when it comes to do what you have to do to please your man. I'd go above and beyond to make sure he was happy... but welllllllllllllllllllllllll.......... not a fucking quality man here to even consider working twords that situation
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:worried: iam sad now.
 
JavaGuru said:
My friends claim I suffer from "white knight" syndrome... :)
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do you have a horse?

you think he could make it to la?
 
nycgirl said:
It was. lol
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And it can be again...do you like carriage rides through central park?

BTW, I'm doing better. The only time that I'm not on EF, I've been sleeping (or arguing about money). :D
 
EnderJE said:
And it can be again...do you like carriage rides through central park?

BTW, I'm doing better. The only time that I'm not on EF, I've been sleeping (or arguing about money). :D
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I've never been into any of that and the type of men I date aren't into that either. I guess its nice, but it isn't me. Its the little things, like having warm bottles of water at his house because I don't like cold water. Stuff like that.

That's good. Watch the argument about money . . . you may find yourself justifying the mother in-law as a babysitter and not even know it. And then, what are you going to do?? ;)
 
nycgirl said:
. . . you may find yourself justifying the mother in-law as a babysitter and not even know it. And then, what are you going to do?? ;)
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POW! To the Moon, Alice! To the Moon!

It's okay. I've calculated how much time she has left. She should be dropping at about the right time.


:evil:
 
Yes I am


As said above romance is not one thing it is a number of things done at random times with her feelings in mind. I like to pay attention to her and show that I listen and care about her happiness.

For instance, for VT day she has a nick name for me, so i went to build a bear and made a bear that had significant meaning to that.

I dont think romance is suppose to be done on VT day it can be done at any time and that is what makes it more special. Which is why Sunday will be a day she will not soon forget, gotta keep them guessing fellas :)
 
romance is about how you make her feel, and isnt (neccessarily) all that soppy flowery resteraunty crap most people think it is. its about understanding her, and doing those subtle things that are important to her, whether she is concious of it or no.

i can be a bit of a romantic. its cute :)
 
superqt4u2nv said:
How romantic are you? And what is your idea of romance?
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My husband has made it clear that he doesn't consider me romatic enough, and I confess that I'm not very good at it. I can be flirtatious, but romance is ... ummm, not my milieu, shall we say.

My idea of being romantic with him is grinning at him and saying, "wanna do it?" Apparently this approach leaves him cold. This worked great when we were dating, but leaves something to be desired at the 12+ year mark ...

He has yet to figure out that if he tells me my arms look bigger and bites me on the neck I'm wet.
 
EnderJE said:
lmao...never pegged you for the type to need a hero...
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lol

hero? is there a such thing?

i think i quit men
 
Theres no such thing as running to each other on a beach. Reality is walking into the bathroom after you signicant other has been shitting themselves and vomitting cus they have the flu and where im going with that i have no idea....anyway...carry on.
 
with internet hook-ups who has time for romance these days?
 
Holy cow KB:) that was so sweet
My idea is getting left little notes telling you they love you, fixing dinner or just straightening up the house to help out
I feel loved mostly when he does little things that make me smile and makes me excited to come home to him.
I like to show him the love by baking him something, or just buying a card that says i love you, for no reason at all
 
sfmonster said:
talk to oak I think he is planning a romantic v day.
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suprisingly man I like romantic stuff and find it very satisfying to do things for someone I care about,I just hate valentines cuz im single and the whole world for like 2 weeks in febuary rubs this happy couple bullshit in my face.

Im just bitter
 
I consider little things to be romantic- cards, thoughtfulness, an unexpected compliment or much needed gesture. even a little gift here and there- not necessarily expensive things, just things to say you care.

in that respect, i'm fairly romantic, but not in the grander way.
 
theoak01 said:
suprisingly man I like romantic stuff and find it very satisfying to do things for someone I care about,I just hate valentines cuz im single and the whole world for like 2 weeks in febuary rubs this happy couple bullshit in my face.

Im just bitter
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no offense, but you sound like a woman.
 
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