I don't think so in my case. When I used to go out to bars and such, I was always approached, not always hit on per say, but someone was always talkign to me. There is *some* quality in me that everyone finds approachable - everyone talks to me, strangers are constantly talking to me, I have passing acquantances spilling their guts to me all the time, etc. Young and old, male and female. I've been told many times how easy I am to talk to and how comfortable people are with me, I don't really know why. Maybe it is because I work with children...who knows. I just exude a "come talk to me" air, I guess.