Amen, JJ. When I first started lifting weights, I did a lot of reading up on the subject (still do I guess) and checked out a book called "Body Building for Women" because it had pics of women actually using weights and not machines. The authors debunked all the standard myths about women and weight lifting, BUT--and this really ticked me off--their models only lifted fuzzy pink dumbbells. One of the models was out and out anorexic looking (we're talking Kate Moss). The other had some muscles and obviously could have done more, yet she was never photographed with significant weights.