responding to fitfossel (I like that handle). I totally agree with what makes men sexy "depends". It's that 'something' that goes along with the package that does it. And it's different for each guy, and different to each woman. For me, it's almost like an electric shock, and it's irresistable.
Just went there and ohhhhh. But, hey, I'm into body hair and he has none. So, not really for me. Besides, I love my man!!! And he's about there in terms of his physique as far as I'm concerned (with a better face in my view).
I know that's a typical female response, but both can be very attractive. What makes a man "sexy", however, is a whole combination of factors. Things like his eyes, his smile, intellegence, integrity, personality, good manners, etc. all play a part. Then there are also the hidden qualities you can't put a name to, but you just know it when you see it.
A great body with an ugly conceited show-off personality is not sexy, at least not to me. That ranks right up there with poor hygiene! The biggest turn on is a man who doesn't realize how handsome he is, and who is sufficiently secure within himself to treat others as well or better than he himself would like to be treated. (This even makes men who are not particularly blessed in the looks department become very sexy.)