LUBE LUBE LUBE.....One of the most important things to remember that , unlike the vagina, the anus isn't self-lubricating: U gotta bring your own grease! And, the more lube you use, the better it is. It will make the intital penetration much more easy and less painful for BOTH parties involved.
Better to use products like Astro Glide or KY Jelly. Purchase HIGH quality WATER-BASED LUBRICANTS, as oil based lubes will degrade latex condoms**for those of you who are single and wear them***
START SMALL....Simply put , a penis or dildo is an awful big thing to be the first thing u stick up someone's ass. Better to start with something smaller and work your way up. Finger's are great for starters. Work up with one finger then into butt plugs. Take your time and RELAX!
Yep, you can trigger a fantastic climax gents if your lady knows how to find and work that ampullary gland above the prostate!!!!