nor would i put them in an all girls/boys catholic school.
i went to private school (K-8), and i can assure you none of this shit went down...EVER. shit, i would get detentions all of the time in middle school for wearing my pants 'too low' (anything under your armpits was considered too low).
the biggest drama at those schools was whether or not someone said 'fuck', rumors of kissing on the weekends, watching rated R movies, etc.
it was a very sheltered environment (not that i was sheltered in the least bit...i still did as i pleased), but it kept me out of trouble.