Jealous of my ex

[riverrock]

I dont like hearing about his exes especially one

Because your jealous, or just don't like her at all?

 

[SoKlueles]

Because your jealous, or just don't like her at all?

both
i have insecurities about her
I think alot of it has to do with the past and how she came and went

 

[SoKlueles]

actually now that i think about it....its just her. Shes the one hes had a bigger past with than any of them. and id love to hear that she got married or moved out of country

 

[hamstershaver]

actually now that i think about it....its just her. Shes the one hes had a bigger past with than any of them. and id love to hear that she got married or moved out of country

dangggggggggg

 

[SoKlueles]

dangggggggggg

well i thought of worse but I didnt want to put it out there

 

[MarieGal]

i would assume that one of her ex's left her for a former girlfriend or possibly cheated on her with an ex. Ask her why she is feeling this way. You and I both know that no one likes to feel insecure so she is probably a little ashamed. Just let her know that it's normal to have a little insecurities now and you totally understand how she feels then but they shouldnt be a big problem with your relationship. Try not to get mad at her or get defensive....just listen to her and tell her that time will prove you to be the one
Good Luck

 

[HiDnGoD]

You and I both know that no one likes to feel insecure so she is probably a little ashamed. Just let her know that it's normal to have a little insecurities now and you totally understand how she feels then but they shouldnt be a big problem with your relationship. Try not to get mad at her or get defensive....just listen to her and tell her that time will prove you to be the one
Good Luck

I've been married over twenty friggin years & still insecurities crop up. I've found, for us anyways, these things come and go, depending on other things going on in our lives.
All we can do is listen, try to understand, & reinforce the positive.

 

[migcor]

If she's really jealous and somewhat insecure your gonna have your hands full with that one.I was with a girl like that and she never changed jealous till the last fuggin day.IMO its just a form of manipulation so that your constatntly reassuring tellin them not worry.Next thing you know there callin you all the time to see were you are,who ur with get extremely upset if u just glance at another chick.It just gets out of control!

 

[nycgirl]

It has to do with insecurity and jealousy. I don't think knowledge of before is a bad thing. Everyone has a history.

There are no guarantees when it comes to relationships (or anything for that matter)Everything has an expiration date. People come into our lives for different reasons and are meant to be there for certain amounts of time. Some relationships last until the death of one person (or both), some relationships last for years, some last for months, weeks & days. That's life.

The only thing you can do is focus on the present and work hard so that you have a future together. In order to do that, you have to let go of the past.