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I've lost my motivation(HELP!)
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Quote posted by Messor 
The ugly guy would have won that study if he were wealthy.
response: So True...........But she'd be fuckin the other guy on the side.
I agree because if the rich guy is 350 pounds and has a 3 inch dick when hard she is gonna go somewhere else. trust me, sexual appeal is way more important to women than money... . the younger fellas on here chasing young girls dont see it yet but they will when they get older.
if life was about bangin chicks I would take being poor and living in a 1 bedroom apt with 3 roomies and looking like a young Arnold vs. being a millionaire wrinkly fat guy in a 10 bedroom house. the arnold guy would get laid way more and doesn't even have to spend a dime on her (maybe a drink at a bar tops), but the 2nd guy would be paying up the butt to get laid and probably have to buy escorts
The ugly guy would have won that study if he were wealthy.
response: So True...........But she'd be fuckin the other guy on the side.
I agree because if the rich guy is 350 pounds and has a 3 inch dick when hard she is gonna go somewhere else. trust me, sexual appeal is way more important to women than money... . the younger fellas on here chasing young girls dont see it yet but they will when they get older.
if life was about bangin chicks I would take being poor and living in a 1 bedroom apt with 3 roomies and looking like a young Arnold vs. being a millionaire wrinkly fat guy in a 10 bedroom house. the arnold guy would get laid way more and doesn't even have to spend a dime on her (maybe a drink at a bar tops), but the 2nd guy would be paying up the butt to get laid and probably have to buy escorts
Don't look good for women, look good for yourself. If you just force yourself to work out through these feelings your having, it'll help you in the long run. It will produce endorphins, which will help you release stress and depression. Forcing yourself to go can also help you renew your interest in it, because if you put in the proper effort you'll actually be gaining energy by going, which it sounds like you need, not losing it.
I'd lost all my interest in the gym for a while too; it was like a chore, but after a couple months of pushing through it, I look forward to going again. So it'll come back, don't worry about it.
Plus, going to the gym regularly will keep you feeling great about yourself. If you let it slide and completely stop, one day you'll wake up and realize how drastic the physical change has been and be unhappy with yourself, which a stress you don't need on top of the others. Then things will get REALLY tough, because then you'll really never get your motivation back, realizing that you need to start from scratch and how much more work that is than maintaining whatever you have now.
Now, on to ez_e's comment about women being ignorant, brain dead whores:
First, I'd like to say that I'd choose the hot guy with the STD but only depending on the STD. Many STD's are bacterial (i.e. Syphilis, Chlamydia, etc.), which means they can be completely cured w/ meds to the point the person who had the STD would no longer even be a carrier. If it was a viral STD (HPV, HIV, etc.), I'm almost positive no girl in their right mind would get with any guy, no matter how good looking, if they had the chance at contracting a more serious STD.
Second, yes, most women want a man with a nice, strong body, but that has to do more with nature than being "ignorant, brain dead whores," as ex_e so nicely put it. All female animals in nature look for a mate that will give her the healthiest offspring as well as a mate that can help protect them, a mate who's altruistic. It's no different for us. It's not shallow, it's a natural want and need to find a mate that I can have good children with, though a women probably wouldn't know this is their natural, subconscious thought.
So yeah, if I see a guy in great shape who's healthy, I'm going to want to be with him over a guy who clearly doesn't take care of himself. If a man doesn't take care of himself, he's not going to take care of me or our future children either. It's survival of the fittest, and women want the best chance possible for their offspring to live long, happy lives.
THAT's the science behind women's attraction to in shape men, not a women's magazine study. It's not some shallow obsession with staring at a guys abs, while he's on top of her.
I'd lost all my interest in the gym for a while too; it was like a chore, but after a couple months of pushing through it, I look forward to going again. So it'll come back, don't worry about it.
Plus, going to the gym regularly will keep you feeling great about yourself. If you let it slide and completely stop, one day you'll wake up and realize how drastic the physical change has been and be unhappy with yourself, which a stress you don't need on top of the others. Then things will get REALLY tough, because then you'll really never get your motivation back, realizing that you need to start from scratch and how much more work that is than maintaining whatever you have now.
Now, on to ez_e's comment about women being ignorant, brain dead whores:
First, I'd like to say that I'd choose the hot guy with the STD but only depending on the STD. Many STD's are bacterial (i.e. Syphilis, Chlamydia, etc.), which means they can be completely cured w/ meds to the point the person who had the STD would no longer even be a carrier. If it was a viral STD (HPV, HIV, etc.), I'm almost positive no girl in their right mind would get with any guy, no matter how good looking, if they had the chance at contracting a more serious STD.
Second, yes, most women want a man with a nice, strong body, but that has to do more with nature than being "ignorant, brain dead whores," as ex_e so nicely put it. All female animals in nature look for a mate that will give her the healthiest offspring as well as a mate that can help protect them, a mate who's altruistic. It's no different for us. It's not shallow, it's a natural want and need to find a mate that I can have good children with, though a women probably wouldn't know this is their natural, subconscious thought.
So yeah, if I see a guy in great shape who's healthy, I'm going to want to be with him over a guy who clearly doesn't take care of himself. If a man doesn't take care of himself, he's not going to take care of me or our future children either. It's survival of the fittest, and women want the best chance possible for their offspring to live long, happy lives.
THAT's the science behind women's attraction to in shape men, not a women's magazine study. It's not some shallow obsession with staring at a guys abs, while he's on top of her.
Don't look good for women, look good for yourself. If you just force yourself to work out through these feelings your having, it'll help you in the long run. It will produce endorphins, which will help you release stress and depression. Forcing yourself to go can also help you renew your interest in it, because if you put in the proper effort you'll actually be gaining energy by going, which it sounds like you need, not losing it.
I'd lost all my interest in the gym for a while too; it was like a chore, but after a couple months of pushing through it, I look forward to going again. So it'll come back, don't worry about it.
Plus, going to the gym regularly will keep you feeling great about yourself. If you let it slide and completely stop, one day you'll wake up and realize how drastic the physical change has been and be unhappy with yourself, which a stress you don't need on top of the others. Then things will get REALLY tough, because then you'll really never get your motivation back, realizing that you need to start from scratch and how much more work that is than maintaining whatever you have now.
Now, on to ez_e's comment about women being ignorant, brain dead whores:
First, I'd like to say that I'd choose the hot guy with the STD but only depending on the STD. Many STD's are bacterial (i.e. Syphilis, Chlamydia, etc.), which means they can be completely cured w/ meds to the point the person who had the STD would no longer even be a carrier. If it was a viral STD (HPV, HIV, etc.), I'm almost positive no girl in their right mind would get with any guy, no matter how good looking, if they had the chance at contracting a more serious STD.
Second, yes, most women want a man with a nice, strong body, but that has to do more with nature than being "ignorant, brain dead whores," as ex_e so nicely put it. All female animals in nature look for a mate that will give her the healthiest offspring as well as a mate that can help protect them, a mate who's altruistic. It's no different for us. It's not shallow, it's a natural want and need to find a mate that I can have good children with, though a women probably wouldn't know this is their natural, subconscious thought.
So yeah, if I see a guy in great shape who's healthy, I'm going to want to be with him over a guy who clearly doesn't take care of himself. If a man doesn't take care of himself, he's not going to take care of me or our future children either. It's survival of the fittest, and women want the best chance possible for their offspring to live long, happy lives.
THAT's the science behind women's attraction to in shape men, not a women's magazine study. It's not some shallow obsession with staring at a guys abs, while he's on top of her.
+1. karma headed your way
wish more ladies would comment on stuff like this
iron asylum
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A more serious answer from me now. I am going through the same thing believe it or not. After my show last December I set my sites on doing it again this coming December. I have been full bore for the last 6 months but the last month or so I can only think about how I have another 3 months of busting ass and eating every 2 hours (which believe it or not is realy hard) before I start the real chore of dieting down. My training partner who I have had for ten years just had a baby and I never see him anymore which throws off my workouts. My trainer is opening up his powerhouse and until its doors open i wont be seeing him which means I am totally on my own with no one to motivate me. So my answer for all of this is to take a 2 week break and am leaving for Sedona for two weeks of relaxation and spa treatments along with spiritual retreats during the days to the vortexes in the area. No gym no diet no stress for two weeks. Once I get back the Powerhouse gym will be open with new faces and new music and new energy. I am hoping this pulls me out of my slump. A few people have said something totally true and I am going to repeat it. It has to come from the inside. Once I get back I'm going to picture myself winning my event and doing photo shoots afterwards. My goal is to look bigger and better this event adn I have put alot of effert into it. My mind is telling me I need this break though so i am going to take it.
guayacan07
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Try listening to the music that gets you pumped up or watching videos of guys benching 500 lbs that should motivate you
we know bro. its all good. guys and girls are both guilty of being equally shameful a lot of times.
i have friends who only date anorexic type girls who treat them like dirt, yet a nice brunette with just a hint of meat they throw to the curb even though she treats them good. it works both ways.
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